Where were these kinds of teachers when I was in school?

[Grave_Addiction]

Teacher charged with having sex with 14-year-old student

http://i.a.cnn.net/cnn/2004/US/South/06/29/teacher.sex.ap/vert.teacher.ap.jpg

TAMPA, Florida (AP) -- A 23-year-old middle-school teacher was charged with having sex with a 14-year-old student in a classroom, at her apartment and, once, in a vehicle while the teen's 15-year-old cousin drove.

Detectives said that the cousins provided matching statements incriminating Debra Beasley Lafave and that the 14-year-old described Lafave's apartment and her tattoos and birthmarks.

Lafave, who teaches reading in the Tampa suburb of Temple Terrace, was arrested there last week on lewd and lascivious battery charges, accused of having sex with the teen earlier this month at her apartment and in a portable classroom at Greco Middle School.

She was out on bond on those charges when she turned herself in Monday in Marion County, about 80 miles north of Tampa, where the cousin lives. There, she is charged with lewd and lascivious battery and exhibition. She was released Monday on $25,000 bail.

Her lawyer, John Fitzgibbons, said he was not ready to respond to the allegations. "There is a presumption of innocence in this country," he said.

The teen told investigators that he and Lafave got to know each other during a class trip last month, and their sexual relationship began June 3.

The boy told detectives that Lafave told him that her months-old marriage was in trouble and that she was attracted to him because having sex with him was not allowed.

Lafave, who has worked with the Hillsborough County school system for two years, has been placed on administrative duty and could be suspended without pay at the next school board meeting, officials said.

In Marion County, authorities say Lafave had sex with the student in the back of her sport utility vehicle while the cousin drove them around the Ocala area.

[Cracka]

so the kid was bonin his teacher... and then he went and told somebody? ... *sigh* n00bs...

[Grave_Addiction]

so the kid was bonin his teacher... and then he went and told somebody? ... *sigh* n00bs...

Heh, I know. He could have been getting that all year long, plus getting straight As in Reading. Whadda dumbass.

[Cornfedwb]

I just want to know where teachers that hot were in middle school.. every single middle school teacher I had was old, fat and ugly.

[Kaijufan]

How could a middle school teacher afford $25,000 for bail?

[PsyClerk]

Booyah, I'd hit it like she owed me money.

Chicks that do this are messed up in the head though (obvious in this case). So afterwards I'd pay her to leave.

[ex0]

From Fark, heres more on it (everything that happened + pics)
http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/0628042teach1.html

[skittlez jr.]

I really doubt the kid was trying to push her away. I wish I had that teacher now.

[ex0]

There are no pics of what happend though :P

[Cornfedwb]

How could a middle school teacher afford $25,000 for bail?
o
A $25,000 bail means you pay 10%($2,500) that's not returned and if you don't show up you owe the remaining 90%.

[bignick]

I would have banged her.

[skittlez jr.]

There are no pics of what happend though :P For a second I thought you meant actual photos and .... :(

[PsyClerk]

I just scanned the message board for this story on Fark. I'm no judge of male attractiveness, but her husband is not the gnarled space alien I was expecting. He looks pretty normal. Then I saw something about sexual inadequacy. Maybe he couldn't/wouldn't hit it. Which is a shame.

Still sucks to be the husband though. Cuckolded by a 14 year old. I'd go on a rampage.

[Graystone]

I would of done her. I would of done her for a D enough to pass =) that would of created some wried tension though when you would be in her class what if she called on you. I could not make eye contact I would wait later on for that. =)

[st0neface]

I would have banged her.

Big surprise there. :roll:

[zewone]

Still sucks to be the husband though. Cuckolded by a 14 year old.

what a loser he is. 14 year old giving it better to his wife.

[The Successful Dropout]

lucky bastard

[JSweeney]

Lucky nothing. That boy better sleep with one eye open for quite a while. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

Not to mention that there's a pissed off husband out there as well.

[Alpha2]

of course the worst part of banging the teacher, assuming you didnt brag to your friends that you were getting action from her and getting busted, would be when she enevitably told her "inadequet" husband and in an attempt to compensate he buys a really big gun to blow really sensitive parts off of your body...

Speculation of course but it certainly seems like a plausable alternate end to the story!

[JSweeney]

of course the worst part of banging the teacher, assuming you didnt brag to your friends that you were getting action from her and getting busted, would be when she enevitably told her "inadequet" husband and in an attempt to compensate he buys a really big gun to blow really sensitive parts off of your body...

Speculation of course but it certainly seems like a plausable alternate end to the story!

Gun nothing. A pissed off husband with a problem of that magnitude would make them suffer.

[ex0]

Also his parents are probably gonna kill him...

[The Successful Dropout]

Lucky nothing. That boy better sleep with one eye open for quite a while. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

Not to mention that there's a pissed off husband out there as well.

he had one eye open...than again, that eye was also oozing...

[beerguy961]

There is a teacher that looks similar to that in my "old" high school (I just graduated). She wouldn't have sex with a student, but if she did....

[organicow]

here's a link to a news video of this hot mama teacher/white trash hussie/future Jerry Springer guest. enjoy.

http://www.tampabaylive.com/stories/2004/06/040628lafave.shtml

[tyecko]

Lucky nothing. That boy better sleep with one eye open for quite a while. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

Not to mention that there's a pissed off husband out there as well.

he had one eye open...than again, that eye was also oozing...

hahahahahahha oh man thats classic

[Lootr2Core]

This story is very disturbing, another story of an adult crossing the line of trust/responsibility/morality. We all kinda joke about it saying 'that kid is lucky' or things like that, would the discussion be the same if it was a 23 year old male and a 14 year old girl? or a 42 year old priest and 14 year old boy? The same line is crossed.

[skittlez jr.]

Also his parents are probably gonna kill him... The mom will. Not the dad, though.

[secretvampire]

Hey, she may have cheated on the husband, but according to the police report at least she bought him an "Eye-Pod." LOL.

[CaptainObviousXl]

This story is very disturbing, another story of an adult crossing the line of trust/responsibility/morality. We all kinda joke about it saying 'that kid is lucky' or things like that, would the discussion be the same if it was a 23 year old male and a 14 year old girl? or a 42 year old priest and 14 year old boy? The same line is crossed.
not in the boy/girl/man/womans head and consious

[BlueWingX]

Kinda reminds me of this one time when I was in HS... I was the last one in the typing lab after school, making up class work that I missed when I was out for a month with menengitis, and the only teacher there was the student teacher, who was very hot. She told me I had to leave, because of some school rule about student teachers not allowed to be alone with students, or something. I was dissappointed. I was hoping for porn to become a reality... :)

[ElfAngel7]

I just want to know where teachers that hot were in middle school.. every single middle school teacher I had was old, fat and ugly.

Amen to that. The only hot entity at my middle school was this incredibly smoking hot cop. Heh, I had some uses for those cuffs....

[ElfAngel7]

This story is very disturbing, another story of an adult crossing the line of trust/responsibility/morality. We all kinda joke about it saying 'that kid is lucky' or things like that, would the discussion be the same if it was a 23 year old male and a 14 year old girl? or a 42 year old priest and 14 year old boy? The same line is crossed.

That may be true, but I sure as hell would've banged her. And kept my mouth shut. Dumbass kid

[greatwhitedope]

This story is very disturbing, another story of an adult crossing the line of trust/responsibility/morality. We all kinda joke about it saying 'that kid is lucky' or things like that, would the discussion be the same if it was a 23 year old male and a 14 year old girl? or a 42 year old priest and 14 year old boy? The same line is crossed.

yea, as much as everyone wants to believe it, men and women are not equal. i really dont think this is as offensive as a guy teacher witha 14 year old. in that case he can be intimidating and forceful.

and on that note, shes hot and that makes this humorous to me.

[alongx]

This story is very disturbing, another story of an adult crossing the line of trust/responsibility/morality. We all kinda joke about it saying 'that kid is lucky' or things like that, would the discussion be the same if it was a 23 year old male and a 14 year old girl? or a 42 year old priest and 14 year old boy? The same line is crossed.

This was wrong, I'll give you that, but I have a feeling the kid was much happier about these, even at the time, than the victim would be in any of the other scenarios you outlined.

[Smell]

that wouldnt be bad if it happened

[Lootr2Core]

This story is very disturbing, another story of an adult crossing the line of trust/responsibility/morality. We all kinda joke about it saying 'that kid is lucky' or things like that, would the discussion be the same if it was a 23 year old male and a 14 year old girl? or a 42 year old priest and 14 year old boy? The same line is crossed.

This was wrong, I'll give you that, but I have a feeling the kid was much happier about these, even at the time, than the victim would be in any of the other scenarios you outlined.


You've never heard of cases of where an underaged girl 'consented'. I know this may seem radical but enjoyment doesn't make it right..

(edited for a typo)

[magilacudy]

That may be true, but I sure as hell would've banged her. And kept my mouth shut. Dumbass kid

Damn, you think any guy, especially some horny 14-year old, could keep their mouth shut after hitting that?

That's how high school legends are made. 8)

[Reality's Fringe]

I feel sorry for his 15 yr old friend; driving around Tampa with a stiffy while his friend gets all the action. Yeesh, kids these days.

[dutch72]

Can't blame him for gettin a little stink finger..I'ts hard to say no when the other "head" starts thinkin'

[fireball343]

How could a middle school teacher afford $25,000 for bail?
o
A $25,000 bail means you pay 10%($2,500) that's not returned and if you don't show up you owe the remaining 90%.

if you don't show it's used to pay jury, judge, other people for wasting time and some goes to the system.

[Wlogan31]

I had the chubby for this type of thing in middle school, but like most of you, I didn't have a hot and willing teacher....

=)

[Alpha2]

You've never heard of cases of where an underaged girl 'consented'. I know this may seem radical but enjoyment doesn't make it right..


There are plenty of times where the teacher or older person claim the girl concents and sometimes they even quote a girl as saying she did but of course being under age you dont yet have the right to give that consent, dosent mean they dont sometimes try to. Obviously it's a HUGE moral failing if you actually take them up on the offer. You dont hear about more of these cases because it's far more offten psycho perverts forcing themselves on girls, but the last thing that needs to get out is a bunch of "she wanted it" quotes or it'd just give the psychos more excuse.

But in the case of older women with younger guys it's probably more often her offering and him accepting mostly because at 14 a guy would do nearly any chick that offered it let alone a "hot teacher" and the hilarious part is I cant beleive she expected a 14 year old to actually keep quite about it because ... well look at her! It's a double standard world we live in.


A 14 year old keeping a secret like that would litterally spontaneously cumbust in class... I mean with fire and everything.

[PsyClerk]

A 14 year old keeping a secret like that would litterally spontaneously cumbust in class... I mean with fire and everything.

Great typo.

[daphatty]

Hey, she may have cheated on the husband, but according to the police report at least she bought him an "Eye-Pod." LOL.

Yea, I read that part of the report too. I can't believe that just after this kid banged her in the back of her SUV, they went to the mall to buy her fucking husband an iPod! If that were my wife I would tell her not to seek bail because I'd beat the shit out of her if I saw her!

[daphatty]

Damn, you think any guy, especially some horny 14-year old, could keep their mouth shut after hitting that?

That's how high school legends are made. 8)

Except in this kids case, he won't be a legend but rather notorious for fucking up a good thing. Pun intended.

[Xevious]

There was 2 lawyers arguing about this case this morning on Good Morning America.

The first Lawyer claimed that the damage that occurs when a n older woman sleeps with a younger man is less than an older man sleeps with a younger girl - and therefore, the punishment should be less severe.

The Second Lawyer was arguing that the law is Gender-neutral and she (the teacher) should be prosecuted the same way a man should be proscuted.

So the argument switches back to the first laywer and she says "the truth of the matter is ...and no man will admit this...but this is really every schoolboy's dream"

That got some chuckles from the crew at the TV station. I laughed out loud too 'cause its true.

[Reality's Fringe]

Hell, I stil had the same dream before I graduated high school just a scant month ago. One hot teacher in a sea of many uglies. Man, I'll miss those days of starin' at her ass while she was blabbing on about some....thing...of....good...know hows. *Sigh*, I guess you can't go home again.

[Lootr2Core]

You've never heard of cases of where an underaged girl 'consented'. I know this may seem radical but enjoyment doesn't make it right..


There are plenty of times where the teacher or older person claim the girl concents and sometimes they even quote a girl as saying she did but of course being under age you dont yet have the right to give that consent, dosent mean they dont sometimes try to. Obviously it's a HUGE moral failing if you actually take them up on the offer. You dont hear about more of these cases because it's far more offten psycho perverts forcing themselves on girls, but the last thing that needs to get out is a bunch of "she wanted it" quotes or it'd just give the psychos more excuse.



But in the case of older women with younger guys it's probably more often her offering and him accepting mostly because at 14 a guy would do nearly any chick that offered it let alone a "hot teacher" and the hilarious part is I cant beleive she expected a 14 year old to actually keep quite about it because ... well look at her! It's a double standard world we live in.


A 14 year old keeping a secret like that would litterally spontaneously cumbust in class... I mean with fire and everything.


My point is that it is sad that we are classifying a 14 year old with physical and emotional and sexual maturity and that is just not right. Seems most here are saying-- all males are horney, this 14 year old is a male so he must be horney and ready for sex. Have we 'proressed' as a society where we know think it is normal for a fourteen year old to have sex? What does this teachers stepping over the bounds of morality and responsiblity teach this boy about sexual relationships? about love? About responsibility? She told him she wanted to have sex because it was against the rules... does this boy get a 'get out of jail free' card in 20 years when his is having sex with a 12 year old girl?

[legion_stxds]

Hey... at fourteen I was looking at playboy and staying up to watch skinamax! I would have died and gone to heaven if I had a teacher like her... and I don't believe it would scar me for life... actually I think it might have helped me through school. LOL

[The Successful Dropout]

http://www.thesmokinggun.com/graphics/art3/0628042teach1.jpg

[Acrylic]

If that's her...damn...she aint bad.

I go to highschool, and jeez, there are no hot teachers at my school.

[Xevious]

There is a picture of her posing for a Biker magazine too..Does anyone have those?

[The Successful Dropout]

i had a hot english teacher in 9th grade ...after my 9th grade year, she moved to ny and became a model...we all saw her in lingerie in cosmopolitan the next year...it was great ;o)....she was also a soccer coach and my sister was on her team and blabbed to her that i thought she was really really hot...the next day in school, she had my desk right next to hers....chance? probably not....woody? lets just say my desk was 7 inches higher then everyone elses and the legs weren't touching the floor

[Admiral Ackbar]

Chicks that do this are messed up in the head though (obvious in this case).

Maybe that's why he ratted her out. Got his sugar and then decided she was too freaky to handle so turned her in.

[redrobot]

One of the teachers when i was in high school married a student a few months after she graduated. Either they fell in love really fast or...

but whatever, theyre still married 4 or 5 years later so i guess it's for real

[greatwhitedope]

There is a picture of her posing for a Biker magazine too..Does anyone have those?

http://www.schnittshow.com/DebraMMMagazine.html
:shock:

[Reality's Fringe]

If she were my daughter, I'd . . .
What would you do daddy?
If she were my daughter, I'd . . .
What would you do daddy?
If she were my daughter, I'd . . .
What would you do daddy?
Smother my daughter in chocolate syrup
And strap her on again, oh baby!
Smother that girl in chocolate syrup
And strap her on again
She's a teen-age baby and she turns me on
I'd like to make her do a nasty on the White House lawn
Gonna smother that girl in chocolate syrup--
And boogie till the cows come home

[GuilewasNK]

This story is very disturbing, another story of an adult crossing the line of trust/responsibility/morality.

The responsibilty issue is the biggest thing. The kid still was stupid though. He was living the fantasy of nearly every guy. (The only other fantasy that comes close is twins). The boy was in no way damaged by the encounter he enjoyed it and lets face it, around that age guys and girls get interested in sex. If the woman were 17, 18, 19 would there be such an uproar? Probably not. It's the fact she was a teacher that was worse than anything. It's biological. I passed for 18 when I was 13 years old because of my size (I was 6'6" then). I even had a 18 year old ask me out then. If I wanted to I could have done te same thing, but I didn't because of my beliefs. But to be honest, I might do things differently if given the chance. Heck, my Great-Grandmother got married at 14 to a guy who was in his early 20's. Of course back then (early 1900's), life expectancy was lower and times were different but still. This is not something that her life should be ruined over.

There was 2 lawyers arguing about this case this
morning on Good Morning America.

The first Lawyer claimed that the damage that occurs when a n older woman sleeps with a younger man is less than an older man sleeps with a younger girl - and therefore, the punishment should be less severe.

The Second Lawyer was arguing that the law is Gender-neutral and she (the teacher) should be prosecuted the same way a man should be proscuted.

So the argument switches back to the first laywer and she says "the truth of the matter is ...and no man will admit this...but this is really every schoolboy's dream"

That got some chuckles from the crew at the TV station. I laughed out loud too 'cause its true.

The woman she not be alllowed to teach again and she should be put on probation. That's all. She doesn't deserve to be locked up for 15 years. That's plain stupid. People have KILLED other people and got less for that.

The whole point of puberty is that the body changes so we can have sex. Before the 1900's I doubt age mattered mainly because life expectancy was so low (30's and 40's). Once the boy reaches puberty, a woman should not be punished in the same way a man would unless she forced him at gunpoint or something. There should be some kind of punishment but a 15 year sentence is :bs: Just my opinion.

[sj41]

There is a picture of her posing for a Biker magazine too..Does anyone have those?

http://www.schnittshow.com/DebraMMMagazine.html
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :lol: 8)

[yeahokthenfu]

Hey, she may have cheated on the husband, but according to the police report at least she bought him an "Eye-Pod." LOL.

Yea, I read that part of the report too. I can't believe that just after this kid banged her in the back of her SUV, they went to the mall to buy her shaq-fuing husband an iPod! If that were my wife I would tell her not to seek bail because I'd beat the shit out of her if I saw her!
I dont know about beating the shit out of her, but yeah I wouldnt post bail for my wife if she did something like that

[yeahokthenfu]

Damn, you think any guy, especially some horny 14-year old, could keep their mouth shut after hitting that?

That's how high school legends are made. 8)

Except in this kids case, he won't be a legend but rather notorious for shaq-fuing up a good thing. Pun intended.
Yeah but the only reason why this happened, IMO is because she left them hanging at a park, if you read the police report posted in the first page of posts it clearly states this like on the third or fourth page of the police report

[Fatesealer]

Kinda reminds me of this one time when I was in HS... I was the last one in the typing lab after school, making up class work that I missed when I was out for a month with menengitis, and the only teacher there was the student teacher, who was very hot. She told me I had to leave, because of some school rule about student teachers not allowed to be alone with students, or something. I was dissappointed. I was hoping for porn to become a reality... :)

::laughing so hard, a reply can't be formulated:: :shock: :lol:

[bfg9k]

i had a hot english teacher in 9th grade ...after my 9th grade year, she moved to ny and became a model...

Wild, I also had a hot english teacher in 9th grade who moved after the year was over. I used to leave my homework in my locker on occasion so she would bend over to tell me to bring it in the next day, allowing me a peek down her blouse. Ahhhh, to be 14 again. ;)

[Fatesealer]

I have had my fair share of teachers/student teachers/paraprofessionals that I would have gladly given it up to growing up... there was my Spanish teacher Mrs Raleigh (a face like Toni Braxton)... this paraprofessional named Mrs Stoner.. and one of my 7th grade teachers, Mrs Crenshaw (imagine a younger Eartha Kitt in the tightest of short skirts with the sheerest nylons to ever touch a female leg... gawd damn!!!)

[XboxMaster]

About the husband being pissed. I don't know if the name of the kid is in any of those articles, but if it isn't, I'm sure the police wouldn't have told the husband the name. I know an older guy that got his arm mangled by a teenager and the cops wouldn't tell him the name of the teenager.

[yeahokthenfu]

Any more pics or news on this topic???
Cant seem to find any

[Moxio]

Absolutely gross. I can't imagine having sex with any of my old middle school teachers. Blech.

[crazytalkx]

Absolutely gross. I can't imagine having sex with any of my old middle school teachers. Blech.

Yeah, its creepy. My middle school teachers were middle aged and fat women. One of them had an afro :shock: .

[evilpenguin9000]

I'd have to definitely say this isn't the same thing with a female teacher and a male student as it is with a male teacher and female student. It's the classic double standard, but it's true.

That kid is a legend at 14. There will be other girls who want him simply to see what was so good the teacher had to have. Oh to be in his shoes at 14.

[Zenithian Legend]

This reminds me of that "Too short" song... "I wanna fuck your sista"

[Mr. Anderson]

Haha, I was looking at the first page and saw Stoneface's post, and was like WTF?! But then I looked at the date.

[Cornfedwb]

Haha, I was looking at the first page and saw Stoneface's post, and was like WTF?! But then I looked at the date.

Ahh yes, the ressurection of a dead and buried post..