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eldad9
09-18-2004, 03:32 PM
This made me feel really sad for the girl who posted that list, and all others like her... it's of course taken from a forum for ultra-conservative teens (don't ask what I was doing there, but it's a moderated forum so I was obviously not trying to pick up anybody). Interestingly, these are Jewish, not Catholic, so the hebrew words every once in a while make it difficult to read and the atrocious spelling doesn't help.
It's just so wrong on so many levels, I don't even know where to begin, so please post your thoughts about this (especially you girls).
link (http://www.frumteens.com/topic.php?topic_id=4645&forum_id=1&topic_title=my+ 71+reasons+not+to+talk+to+guys-pls+post&forum_title=Skirt+Lengths%2C+and+%22Plato nic+%22+Relationships&M=0&S=1)
Zenithian Legend
09-18-2004, 03:36 PM
I see this more as 71 reasons for me to laugh
dcfox
09-18-2004, 03:37 PM
Wow, what a coincidence, girls are always telling me their top reasons for not talking to me are because its not assur and because they will not stay shomer negiyah. Really I have not idea what that means, but an interesting list nonetheless.
Reality's Fringe
09-18-2004, 03:37 PM
Well, if we're all perverts and jerks, then they're all uptight, lying, shallow whores. It's a two-way street.
crickett003
09-18-2004, 03:38 PM
WTF!??
:shock:
That list is crazy!
:roll:
el bobo
09-18-2004, 03:39 PM
Well, if we're all perverts and jerks, then they're all uptight, lying, shallow whores. It's a two-way street.
LOL!
eldad9
09-18-2004, 03:47 PM
Wow, what a coincidence, girls are always telling me their top reasons for not talking to me are because its not assur and because they will not stay shomer negiyah. Really I have not idea what that means, but an interesting list nonetheless.
as far as I can tell
assur = forbidden
shomer negiah = no touching rule (or one who observes it)
jaykrue
09-18-2004, 03:51 PM
Well, i like pushing ppl's buttons when they tell me what those buttons are so I've got 71 potential buttons to push for this particular person. It's sad really though. It seems more like this lil girl has already given up on making sustainable normal relationships. All 71 of her reasons are generalizations that have their only basis in male stereotypes and hearsay. Sure guys lie, but so do some girls. Wow, what a revelation! People lie, cheat, steal and generally hurt their fellow beings... doesn't mean the whole population is going to act that way. 90% of the population I'm fairly sure has told some form of untruth - be it big or small; doesn't make them evil. To place the blame on a particular ethnicity, gender, or religion smacks of ignorance. And in my book, the only thing worth hating against is stupidity and ignorance = stupidity.
eldad9
09-18-2004, 03:56 PM
It's not just one girl - I think there are thousands (at the very least) of girls living this way. Unfortunately, we can't even talk to them about any of this stuff since we are "assur".
eldad9
09-18-2004, 03:59 PM
Well, if we're all perverts and jerks, then they're all uptight, lying, shallow whores.
Except for girls like this. Obviously she won't like to you if she's never going to talk to you. And the "whore" part obviously does not apply either (of course most people use that word without knowing what it means anyway).
Wshakspear
09-18-2004, 04:03 PM
"Well, she apparently hasn't met me" :)
/obligitory
crazytalkx
09-18-2004, 04:04 PM
Well, if we're all perverts and jerks, then they're all uptight, lying, shallow whores. It's a two-way street.
:rofl: That girl is one DAMN IGNORANT HYPOCRITE!!!!!!!!
eldad9
09-18-2004, 04:06 PM
"Well, she apparently hasn't met me" :)
/obligitory
And she never will.
Unless you feel like pretending to be a teen Jewish girl and sign up for that forum and hope she's still there.
Of course for all I know you could need a note from your Rabbi to create an account there.
Wshakspear
09-18-2004, 04:08 PM
I pretended i was Jewish once, it was fun.
im not kidding.
really.
I played basketball.
Reality's Fringe
09-18-2004, 04:19 PM
I pretended I was gay once. I became friends with this girl who used to shower sometimes with her best friend, and since I was "gay" she figured "Why not?" Well, I got int he shower and you can guess what happened. I just was like "Ooops, that's never happened before!" And it turned into hot sex...........Ok, I'm lying. It was the hot tub :lol: .
eldad9
09-18-2004, 04:20 PM
I pretended i was Jewish once, it was fun.
im not kidding.
really.
I played basketball.
Oh yeah, I remember that movie about this guy pretending to be Jewish so he could shoot hoops with the pro's.
epobirs
09-18-2004, 04:23 PM
THe one thing that unites all groups is they each have a fundamentalist loony subset by which to be embarrassed.
Wshakspear
09-18-2004, 04:53 PM
I pretended i was Jewish once, it was fun.
im not kidding.
really.
I played basketball.
Oh yeah, I remember that movie about this guy pretending to be Jewish so he could shoot hoops with the pro's.
Really? There was a movie? I went with a friend on a jewish field trip...had to wear the hat thing and all...somebody even asked if i had an extra....
eldad9
09-18-2004, 05:04 PM
Maybe I'm confused... it was definitely about some person who pretended to be something in order to play some kind of sport.
Maybe it was a white guy pretending to be a black guy, or a guy pretending to be a girl, or a girl pretending to be a guy... maybe it was just three movies. Wait, am I thinking about criminals who pretended to be nuns so they could hide from mobsters? or that they could join a choir? Something like that anyway. Or maybe it was Barbra Streissand pretending to be a guy. Or maybe a girl pretending to be a guy so she could join the army instead of her dad. I get confused.
sblymnlcrymnl
09-18-2004, 05:09 PM
I pretended i was Jewish once, it was fun.
im not kidding.
really.
I played basketball.
Oh yeah, I remember that movie about this guy pretending to be Jewish so he could shoot hoops with the pro's.
Really? There was a movie? I went with a friend on a jewish field trip...had to wear the hat thing and all...somebody even asked if i had an extra....
Jewbilee?
MadChedar0
09-18-2004, 05:15 PM
I pretended i was Jewish once, it was fun.
im not kidding.
really.
I played basketball.
Oh yeah, I remember that movie about this guy pretending to be Jewish so he could shoot hoops with the pro's.
Really? There was a movie? I went with a friend on a jewish field trip...had to wear the hat thing and all...somebody even asked if i had an extra....
Jewbilee?
Christ, he means a yarmulke. Come on people! :)
x0thedeadzone0x
09-18-2004, 05:16 PM
It's definitely a very biased list, and I don't know what the fuck they're talking about with some of that religious shit, but I can understand a few of their points of view. But clearly the way they look at guys has been severely tainted. It's not right to call ALL guys perverts, and it's definitely not right to call all girls whores. Both genders have their good ones and their bad ones, for the most part, I suppose it is pretty even. But don't let those girls ever find this site - with all of the lying bullshit some people say and really assholish comments, they'll probably ban people from ever talking about guys on their website again.
And yes, I expect to get flamed for this, because I'm a girl voicing my opinion on this on a very heavily dominated all-guy website. But right now I just don't care.
sblymnlcrymnl
09-18-2004, 05:17 PM
I pretended i was Jewish once, it was fun.
im not kidding.
really.
I played basketball.
Oh yeah, I remember that movie about this guy pretending to be Jewish so he could shoot hoops with the pro's.
Really? There was a movie? I went with a friend on a jewish field trip...had to wear the hat thing and all...somebody even asked if i had an extra....
Jewbilee?
Christ, he means a yarmulke. Come on people! :)
I meant the trip thing, I know what a yarmulke is :lol:
Battousai1002
09-18-2004, 05:19 PM
41) you cant be a complete girl around guys-they never undersatnd
46) if he craes abt u enuff he wont tt u
60)aftr all u do for the,, all they do is call u a zoooooyyyynah
I'd think that the most complete girl would be one with the right guy. How the hell does not talking to someone prove that they care? And what the hell is a zoooooyyyynah
eldad9
09-18-2004, 05:33 PM
I'd think that the most complete girl would be one with the right guy. How the hell does not talking to someone prove that they care? And what the hell is a zoooooyyyynah
My Yiddish is a little rusty, but it seems to translate to something like "whooooorrrre".
Wshakspear
09-18-2004, 05:36 PM
http://www.mediocreminds.com/version1/images/superhero/w/jubilee.jpg
Jubilee? 1/2 Jewish?
To be honest, im not even sure what it was called. I apparently blended in well...and my nose isnt that big (please take in jest)
eldad9
09-18-2004, 05:37 PM
And yes, I expect to get flamed for this, because I'm a girl voicing my opinion on this on a very heavily dominated all-guy website. But right now I just don't care.
DragonLordFrodo is gone. And most of the rest of us are pretty decent.
Nobody's going to flame you.
I wonder why this site is so heavily male-dominated... perhaps girls like paying full price for games?
x0thedeadzone0x
09-18-2004, 05:44 PM
And yes, I expect to get flamed for this, because I'm a girl voicing my opinion on this on a very heavily dominated all-guy website. But right now I just don't care.
DragonLordFrodo is gone. And most of the rest of us are pretty decent.
Nobody's going to flame you.
I wonder why this site is so heavily male-dominated... perhaps girls like paying full price for games?
That's a good question, :lol:. There aren't many hardcore girl gamers to begin with though, well at least from what I've seen.
eldad9
09-18-2004, 05:46 PM
Christ, he means a yarmulke. Come on people! :)
I always thought it was a really silly hat:
It does not protect you from rain (or sun)
It does not cover your hair or lack thereof.
How does it even stay on if you're bald?
It's hard to take seriously a person wearing it because it's funny (imagine if another religion used party hats instead, you'll see what I mean).
Nirvanaguy777
09-18-2004, 06:23 PM
its more like 71 reasons too think the original poster is a fucking moron because they cant write/type for shit, in case she ever reads this ill put it in words she and people of her type can understand blah grr evil penis balrrrg rano dont put out roar meow bobbit cut off cokc evil rarh forget blah blah grrr
Nirvanaguy777
09-18-2004, 06:25 PM
And yes, I expect to get flamed for this, because I'm a girl voicing my opinion on this on a very heavily dominated all-guy website. But right now I just don't care.
DragonLordFrodo is gone. And most of the rest of us are pretty decent.
Nobody's going to flame you.
I wonder why this site is so heavily male-dominated... perhaps girls like paying full price for games?
That's a good question, :lol:. There aren't many hardcore girl gamers to begin with though, well at least from what I've seen.
ive picked up many women at my local arcade, usually they are playing DDR or pinball, hence I became a big DDR/Pinball player
epobirs
09-18-2004, 06:30 PM
It's definitely a very biased list, and I don't know what the shaq-fu they're talking about with some of that religious shit, but I can understand a few of their points of view. But clearly the way they look at guys has been severely tainted. It's not right to call ALL guys perverts, and it's definitely not right to call all girls whores. Both genders have their good ones and their bad ones, for the most part, I suppose it is pretty even. But don't let those girls ever find this site - with all of the lying bullshit some people say and really assholish comments, they'll probably ban people from ever talking about guys on their website again.
And yes, I expect to get flamed for this, because I'm a girl voicing my opinion on this on a very heavily dominated all-guy website. But right now I just don't care.
Thanks for thinking nice about us but really, any fiunctional male is a pervert at heart. The difference is restraint and manners. It's no different than occasionally wondering if you could get away with stealing something. So long as it remains an intellectual exercise no harm is done.
I expect anyone that flames you for this to be reduced to their component atoms in the resulting backlash.
Nirvanaguy777
09-18-2004, 06:33 PM
It's definitely a very biased list, and I don't know what the shaq-fu they're talking about with some of that religious shit, but I can understand a few of their points of view. But clearly the way they look at guys has been severely tainted. It's not right to call ALL guys perverts, and it's definitely not right to call all girls whores. Both genders have their good ones and their bad ones, for the most part, I suppose it is pretty even. But don't let those girls ever find this site - with all of the lying bullshit some people say and really assholish comments, they'll probably ban people from ever talking about guys on their website again.
And yes, I expect to get flamed for this, because I'm a girl voicing my opinion on this on a very heavily dominated all-guy website. But right now I just don't care.
Thanks for thinking nice about us but really, any fiunctional male is a pervert at heart. The difference is restraint and manners. It's no different than occasionally wondering if you could get away with stealing something. So long as it remains an intellectual exercise no harm is done.
I expect anyone that flames you for this to be reduced to their component atoms in the resulting backlash.
so true, I think I heard we think about sex ever seven seconds, but it differs in restraints, so we are all pervs and we arent at the same time.....right?
epobirs
09-18-2004, 06:35 PM
Christ, he means a yarmulke. Come on people! :)
I always thought it was a really silly hat:
It does not protect you from rain (or sun)
It does not cover your hair or lack thereof.
How does it even stay on if you're bald?
It's hard to take seriously a person wearing it because it's funny (imagine if another religion used party hats instead, you'll see what I mean).
Hey, the Pope wears one, too. It has nothing to do with practicality. It's just one of those God sez so things to demonstrate you're playing by the rules. Check out Leviticus for tons of this kind of stuff. Some of it was practical, like not eating pork before modern technology insured a certain level of safety. Saying it was one of God's hard and fast rules rather than making it a well-intentioned suggestion was just a matter of getting the message across to the thicker members of the community.
punqsux
09-18-2004, 06:36 PM
wow, she's got us pegged...looks like the jig is up guys :roll:
Wshakspear
09-18-2004, 06:42 PM
Christ, he means a yarmulke. Come on people! :)
I always thought it was a really silly hat:
It does not protect you from rain (or sun)
It does not cover your hair or lack thereof.
How does it even stay on if you're bald?
It's hard to take seriously a person wearing it because it's funny (imagine if another religion used party hats instead, you'll see what I mean).
Shriners
crazytalkx
09-18-2004, 06:45 PM
Must......buy.........FEZ!!!!!
x0thedeadzone0x
09-18-2004, 06:46 PM
It's definitely a very biased list, and I don't know what the shaq-fu they're talking about with some of that religious shit, but I can understand a few of their points of view. But clearly the way they look at guys has been severely tainted. It's not right to call ALL guys perverts, and it's definitely not right to call all girls whores. Both genders have their good ones and their bad ones, for the most part, I suppose it is pretty even. But don't let those girls ever find this site - with all of the lying bullshit some people say and really assholish comments, they'll probably ban people from ever talking about guys on their website again.
And yes, I expect to get flamed for this, because I'm a girl voicing my opinion on this on a very heavily dominated all-guy website. But right now I just don't care.
Thanks for thinking nice about us but really, any fiunctional male is a pervert at heart. The difference is restraint and manners. It's no different than occasionally wondering if you could get away with stealing something. So long as it remains an intellectual exercise no harm is done.
I expect anyone that flames you for this to be reduced to their component atoms in the resulting backlash.
Heh. I put "I don't care" on there for a reason. If somebody was going to flame me back, I certainly wouldn't have backlashed at them. You're entitled to your opinions but I know some guys who are extremely non-perverted. I agree with you only to an extent but that's just my opinion...
thatstoobad
09-18-2004, 07:16 PM
70)(SH)When ur zivug is made in shamayim 40 days b4 ur bron, u fit togethr like 2 peices of a puzzle.
i have no idea what this really means, but it sounds dirty.
eldad9
09-18-2004, 07:20 PM
70)(SH)When ur zivug is made in shamayim 40 days b4 ur bron, u fit togethr like 2 peices of a puzzle.
i have no idea what this really means, but it sounds dirty.
It sounds like these people believe god decides on their "soul mate" before they are born. You know, "a match made in heaven", so every time you talk to another guy you become less compatible with the one god made just for you, and your entire married life will suck because you will not be compatible any more.
thatstoobad
09-18-2004, 07:44 PM
70)(SH)When ur zivug is made in shamayim 40 days b4 ur bron, u fit togethr like 2 peices of a puzzle.
i have no idea what this really means, but it sounds dirty.
It sounds like these people believe god decides on their "soul mate" before they are born. You know, "a match made in heaven", so every time you talk to another guy you become less compatible with the one god made just for you, and your entire married life will suck because you will not be compatible any more.
well, "zivug" supposedly means mate, and "shamayim" supposedly means heavens, so according to this very intelligent young lady, the only way you can be truly happy with a partner is if that person is 40 days older than you are. however, the way it was phrased, with those silly words and the fitting together like a puzzle metaphor, i was making a maybe-it-wasn't-as-funny-as-i-thought-it-was joke.
either way, now i know what to tell the ladies. "wow, that means i'm only 40 days older than you! you know what they say about that, don't you? we fit together like puzzle pieces."
Mafia
09-18-2004, 07:57 PM
It looks like it was written by some neglected 14 year old who is either completely sheltered by her parents or is totally neglected by her peers and thus is always miserable and wants everyone to suffer with her.
Sucks to be her.
epobirs
09-18-2004, 07:59 PM
It's definitely a very biased list, and I don't know what the shaq-fu they're talking about with some of that religious shit, but I can understand a few of their points of view. But clearly the way they look at guys has been severely tainted. It's not right to call ALL guys perverts, and it's definitely not right to call all girls whores. Both genders have their good ones and their bad ones, for the most part, I suppose it is pretty even. But don't let those girls ever find this site - with all of the lying bullshit some people say and really assholish comments, they'll probably ban people from ever talking about guys on their website again.
And yes, I expect to get flamed for this, because I'm a girl voicing my opinion on this on a very heavily dominated all-guy website. But right now I just don't care.
Thanks for thinking nice about us but really, any fiunctional male is a pervert at heart. The difference is restraint and manners. It's no different than occasionally wondering if you could get away with stealing something. So long as it remains an intellectual exercise no harm is done.
I expect anyone that flames you for this to be reduced to their component atoms in the resulting backlash.
Heh. I put "I don't care" on there for a reason. If somebody was going to flame me back, I certainly wouldn't have backlashed at them. You're entitled to your opinions but I know some guys who are extremely non-perverted. I agree with you only to an extent but that's just my opinion...
Ah but if you could read their minds, well, have you seen "A Clockwork Orange?'
eldad9
09-18-2004, 07:59 PM
No, no, no. A match is decided for you 40 days before you were born; but it could be somebody already born or not born yet.
Now the problem is - suppose the match for person A is person B, who was born a year earlier. if A's match is decided 40 days before birth, does this mean that B was not matched until that point? that is, almost 11 months after birth?
Hey, we need a Rabbi on the forum to explain this stuff.
And I am sure that "puzzle" thing refered to the soul, not anything naughty, which I am not entirely sure the girl even knows about... remember this story (http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_957945.html)?
WarrenGekko
09-18-2004, 08:02 PM
That's my girlfriend's post!?!
eldad9
09-18-2004, 08:04 PM
It looks like it was written by some neglected 14 year old who is either completely sheltered by her parents or is totally neglected by her peers and thus is always miserable and wants everyone to suffer with her.
Sucks to be her.
I'm guessing 17, but sheltered not only by her parents but by her entire family and school, and probably does not talk to anybody except for them.
I'd love to be able to talk to her for a couple of hours...
Mafia
09-18-2004, 08:23 PM
Probably. And I doubt this person would be able to actually be able to hold a relationship unless she found someone exactly like her, and thus be equally bored for the rest of their life as well.
eldad9
09-18-2004, 08:26 PM
That's fine. The same factories presumably manufacture guys just like her.
darekIsAwesome
09-18-2004, 08:38 PM
O yea dont wanna talk to guys cause then you might die and destory the world. Looking at us will send a plague of death over the whole universe..
Dam they THink they have real opinons but they dont. Theyve been brainwashed too much to the part of no return.
This makes me sick
WhipSmartBanky
09-18-2004, 08:47 PM
Well, if we're all perverts and jerks, then they're all uptight, lying, shallow whores. It's a two-way street.
:rofl: That girl is one DAMN IGNORANT HYPOCRITE!!!!!!!!
Nah, she's probably just fat.
pimp tyranny
09-18-2004, 08:51 PM
i don't know why you were on that site either.
Spacepest
09-19-2004, 03:56 AM
Wow, the girl who wrote that list is really fucked in the head. :shock:
I can understand a girl wanting to be with, and eventually marrying a man who respects her, and not wanting to be with guys who will just use her. However, if she continues to view all men like this, and refuses to ever talk to guys, the chances of her ever finding the man she wants will be very very low, probably zero. And how the hell is she even supposed to meet a compatable man in the first place if she never talks to them anyways??? (Since she's highly religious, maybe she expects her parents to do all the work for her and play matchmaker, relieving her of all responsiblity of communicating with members of the opposite sex. Or maybe "talk" is just some word secret word in jewish that translates as "sex" ). Talking with someone does not automatically lead you to amoral behavior. If it does, you have self control issues, which is your own fault and your own problem.
There are good guys and bad guys out there, same for girls. You will never be able to tell them apart if you don't communicate with them.
Maybe this girl will grow up and realize this. If not, guys everywhere will be spared from having to deal with her, since she's not into talking with them.
eldad9
09-19-2004, 04:46 AM
I'm guessing that her parents or professionals are expected to find her a husband, and in that world even talking is considered an offense.
I really feel so sorry for her. She's probably never had a chance to make up her mind about any of this stuff, she's just a product of her environment, which is pretty darn horrible.
I don't think even catholics are that strict. (muslims probably are even more, but that's another story - most muslim girls would never be able to even post anything on the web, I think (from what I understand of the culture, I could be wrong but please do not peg me as a racist)).
daria19
09-19-2004, 10:12 AM
I'm guessing that her parents or professionals are expected to find her a husband, and in that world even talking is considered an offense.
I really feel so sorry for her. She's probably never had a chance to make up her mind about any of this stuff, she's just a product of her environment, which is pretty darn horrible.
I am not Jewish and do not know much about their religious beliefs. It is sad that she is so bitter at such a young age, though. (It is also sad that she writes so poorly.)
I don't think even catholics are that strict. (muslims probably are even more, but that's another story - most muslim girls would never be able to even post anything on the web, I think (from what I understand of the culture, I could be wrong but please do not peg me as a racist)).
I am a Catholic and am definately not that strict. Her beliefs are pretty extreme (and naive).
cag1000
09-19-2004, 11:25 AM
sorry in advance no intention of making fun of jews but come on.......
70)(SH)When ur zivug is made in shamayim 40 days b4 ur bron, u fit togethr like 2 peices of a puzzle.
In english this is the funniest shiii i have read in a long time. Just look at that.
Dirty little hebby bastards lololololololol
Wshakspear
09-19-2004, 12:48 PM
This is why i hate organized religion...not that un-organized would be any better...
eldad9
09-19-2004, 02:04 PM
I can assure you, practically all Jewish people are completely normal. This is just some ultra-ultra-ultra conservative sect that most Jews would find appalling too.
KingDox
09-19-2004, 11:30 PM
Well, if we're all perverts and jerks, then they're all uptight, lying, shallow whores. It's a two-way street.
:rofl: That girl is one DAMN IGNORANT HYPOCRITE!!!!!!!!
Nah, she's probably just fat.
Oh man now that's a funny post. This girl belives in a soul mates ? Blah, the whole idea of soulmates is such a freaking joke.
crazytalkx
09-19-2004, 11:53 PM
Well, if we're all perverts and jerks, then they're all uptight, lying, shallow whores. It's a two-way street.
:rofl: That girl is one DAMN IGNORANT HYPOCRITE!!!!!!!!
Nah, she's probably just fat.
Oh man now that's a funny post. This girl belives in a soul mates ? Blah, the whole idea of soulmates is such a freaking joke.
Yeah she probably is fat or hideously deformed. For fatness leads to uglyness and uglyness leads to lonelyness and lonelyness leads to posting about how men suck on a jewish feminist site.
extzed
09-20-2004, 03:42 PM
And yes, I expect to get flamed for this, because I'm a girl voicing my opinion on this on a very heavily dominated all-guy website. But right now I just don't care.
I don't think you should expect to get flamed for this, you are simply voicing your opinion as a girl, which is your right. and as I guy I will admit that a rather large majority of guys are asses who only think about one thing and will do almost anything to get that thing. But like you said both sexes have there good and bad... anyways just wanted to say that I don't think you should have expected to get flamed
snotknocker
09-21-2004, 12:31 PM
my favorite:
57)girls are stupid. we know this. we know guys use us and how gross they are but we ignore it till they do st to us then we get all hysetrical,, dont be stupid
bradr
09-21-2004, 12:50 PM
Is "talking" code for something else? Sadly, I think it is not and she literally means talking. It's really more like 30 reasons why you shouldn't "talk" to boys because she essentially repeats many of the reasons ... over and over and over again.
The part I like most was a reply from "goodgirl":
"thanx i needed that- i was in the mood 2 get myself in trouble (although dont worry even w/o this it wouldnt happen i'm a good girl)"
- (phew! Disaster averted!)
Also, I don't know what this word means, but if any of you piss me off, I'm going to call you a "zoooooyyyynah" (refer to reason #60).
It's definitely a very biased list, and I don't know what the shaq-fu they're talking about with some of that religious shit, but I can understand a few of their points of view. But clearly the way they look at guys has been severely tainted. It's not right to call ALL guys perverts, and it's definitely not right to call all girls whores. Both genders have their good ones and their bad ones, for the most part, I suppose it is pretty even. But don't let those girls ever find this site - with all of the lying bullshit some people say and really assholish comments, they'll probably ban people from ever talking about guys on their website again.
And yes, I expect to get flamed for this, because I'm a girl voicing my opinion on this on a very heavily dominated all-guy website. But right now I just don't care.
:applause:
I'm in the library, and I just now saw this. I totally agree with DZ. Its good that she spoke up when other girls (like me) would have just rolled their eyes at all the ignorant comments made here. Some of this list this girl made (from what I could understand) speaks for the majority of boys (and girls) that I know, but the rest are nothing like that. I do tend to attract a lot of asshole boys. Its nice that they didn't flame you, DZ, but I have a feeling that if I had posted something before you, I would have gotten some shit for it. I really don't care though, it wouldn't be the first time. I have to go back to class now, and I probably wont be checking this thread later, so angry boys, flame on.
DigitalSpace
09-21-2004, 01:25 PM
This chick's crazy.
x0thedeadzone0x
09-21-2004, 03:02 PM
And yes, I expect to get flamed for this, because I'm a girl voicing my opinion on this on a very heavily dominated all-guy website. But right now I just don't care.
I don't think you should expect to get flamed for this, you are simply voicing your opinion as a girl, which is your right. and as I guy I will admit that a rather large majority of guys are asses who only think about one thing and will do almost anything to get that thing. But like you said both sexes have there good and bad... anyways just wanted to say that I don't think you should have expected to get flamed
Thanks for that, I guess I didn't which is sort of relieving but at the time I honestly didn't care, just wanted to express my opinion. Point is even though I can see where the girl is coming from on SOME of her points I do know a lot of guys that are really nice to me and not perverted so I don't agree with a lot of it.
daphatty
09-21-2004, 03:44 PM
I've never dated a jewish woman or had much interaction with jewish people in general, but if interacting leaves me as confused about life as this list did, then no thanks. Or are they the confused ones? I'm so confused?!?!?!
snotknocker
09-21-2004, 04:00 PM
I don't know much about the jewish culture but I do like Hebrew National hot dogs, Batampte pickles and rye bread.
1SwtDeception
09-21-2004, 04:58 PM
it was actuallu 77 reasons.. wow they added how amazing anyways haha the girl who post it has bf problems? well that can be expected writing a post from anger. how terrible and sad. first of all what bothered me was the typing (but heck even i got crappy typing) so i was more annoyed to read it and wow this girl is just hypocritial at times. good job to her. but hell a lot of these things you can just argue with on her views sooo many things. i mean sure some of these are true but that is just life. like that all guys are jerks and perverts etc.. girls can be like bitches (meaning to me they complain a lot and we all complain) and people are all liars. it's just facts. and it's like a bad thing.. i mean it is bad but it's the truth. ok well the jewish community is like hell strict i can tell, like the asian ones i mean back in the countries it would be strict like that. this is just one person's post and i really didn't bother to read everything (cause half of it seem like jibberish no offense i suppose).
whatever she states it's her own thing, i skim and i disagree with some of the stuff she sounds really negative .. too negative to guys. maybe if she finds a guy who has 71 reasons to not talk to girls maybe they can work out
eldad9
09-21-2004, 06:28 PM
I've never dated a jewish woman or had much interaction with jewish people in general, but if interacting leaves me as confused about life as this list did, then no thanks. Or are they the confused ones? I'm so confused?!?!?!
Again, most of them are pretty normal. The girl is obviously from an ultra-ultra-ultra-conservative family, the kind that would be ridiculed and despised by most jewish, just as extremely extreme christians would be by their sensible counterparts.