View Full Version : So, the drunk girl thinks I'm an ass
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 09:28 AM
So I come in at 1 AM last night (this morning?) and see two of the girls that live in my mod drunkenly stumbling around outside. I ask if they need any hel gettign in and, after several slurred "Yesh"s and "Oh god, you're so aweshome"s I got them into the mod without any blunt trauma. Well, then they try to get into this conversation with me, that makes absolutely no sense by the way, and one of them tries to get me to come into her room to just "sit on her bed". Yes, I've read this Penthouse story before. I'm trying to get out of there without being a total ass, and she kinda opens her legs and says "You have shuch big hands, you know?" I decided it was time for me to go, so I very politely excused myself and bid them goodnight. Well, her friend calls me a "Total ass" because I normally don't talk to them when I see them. Now, this story may have nothing to do with the following question, but I figured "what the hell?" So here's my question:
Why is it that, if you're quite or shy or private, that people find you to be an asshole or stuck-up, and make it their business to try and talk to you etc? Is it just the fact that it hurts their egos because I'm not falling all over myself to try and score with them? I'm never disrespectful to them or angry; I just don't have much to say. I kinda now feel liek I should of totally used her, took some photos, and blackmailed her with them :x
LV-426RS
10-06-2004, 09:30 AM
You should of... for us fellow cags.
epobirs
10-06-2004, 09:32 AM
Did you offer her a douche?
daphatty
10-06-2004, 09:32 AM
I think you need to edit that title fringe.
Edit - On topic, depending on your morals, you will either completely forget about this incident, or regret not taking advantage of the situation.
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 09:34 AM
Done, sorry, I'm just still kinda angry. This situation applies to more than drunk people. Everyone who is quiet/shy has this problem from what I've been told, and it pisses me off. Just wanted to get CAG's opinion.
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 09:34 AM
Did you offer her a douche?
In her state, I don't think she would've rejected the notion :lol:
daphatty
10-06-2004, 09:40 AM
Who's to say she would have "reciprocated" the favor? Besides, what place does "the friend" have calling you an ass if she wasn't the one offering anyway? Did she want to watch? Mindgames I tell you.
Santurio
10-06-2004, 09:40 AM
i guess you did the right thing???!!!!
But the guy in me want to call you a DumbAss.
But I wouldn't have done it either, and I have that same problem wih people.
So treat women with respect and forever be the Asshole!!!
But be the Asshole and disrespect women and be KING!!
crickett003
10-06-2004, 09:47 AM
I respect what you did (or did not do). You could have seriously taken advantage of the situation, but you showed much restraint and self-control.
I wouldn't be concerned with other people's perception of who you are. The ones that deserve to know the "real you" will make that effort. If you change who you are and what you're all about, you're only fooling yourself, and you'll end up feeling extremely empty inside.
Just be yourself. Maybe just an occasional simple conversation with people would be good. A short "Hi, how's it going?" can make a decent "non-stuck-up" impression on people.
Take it easy! :)
Scrubking
10-06-2004, 09:59 AM
Why is this equation true?
Girls + Alcohol = SEX
ryanbph
10-06-2004, 10:12 AM
For starters, who cares what other people think about you...I am a quiet person and I have been called an asshole and arrogant and more...no the real question here is, what did these girls look like...
Legolas813
10-06-2004, 10:13 AM
Why is it that, if you're quite or shy or private, that people find you to be an asshole or stuck-up, and make it their business to try and talk to you etc?
i have the same problem......most of the time its just i have nothing to say to these people
yeahokthenfu
10-06-2004, 10:25 AM
The way I see it, you missed a perfect oppurtunity to score with two drunk chicks, who were obviously cravy the royal penis. But on the other hand, obviously you have never talked to these girls in that type of a way or you never talked to them at all, but whatever the case, if someone wont have sex with you when they arent drunk or stoned then they are not worth having sex with, now maybe fucking but not sex or making love as some of you may call it. Me personally in that situation I would have fucked the shit out of them, and nutted in there faces, well if I wasnt married at the time.
But still you made the right decision, its better than ending up with a kid, or some kind of disease.
Ikohn4ever
10-06-2004, 10:31 AM
^^^haha
cag1000
10-06-2004, 10:31 AM
i banged a girl last night i did not like or really wanna do(she pressured me lol)
u missed an opportunity plain and simple
who cares what some drunk little hookers where u live think or do bang them and move on
dam maybe u coulda gotten both
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 11:23 AM
Interesting viewpoints and some good advice. I don't know what my problem is in all honesty. Like a poster stated above, I too just don't have anything to say to these people. You would think that they would APPRECIATE the fact that I'm not up in their face talking about some subject that doesn't matter. I didn't try to take advantage of the drunk girl, because that's exactly what it is. Taking advantage of someone. I guess I'll just try to forget it, and whenI see them pretend like nothing happened. They were so drunk that hopefully they forgot themselves.
daphatty
10-06-2004, 11:31 AM
If they do it again then you know you gotta hit that shit. Once is a coincidence but twice is clearly a sign.
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 11:35 AM
Ha, noted.
WhipSmartBanky
10-06-2004, 11:50 AM
You're damned if you do, damned if you don't. If you're talking to these girls and shit, you're a lecherous asshole. If you keep to yourself you're a stuck-up asshole.
Face it man, we're assholes...just depends on what kind of asshole you want to be. You're an honest asshole, and you did the right thing.
big_squirtle
10-06-2004, 12:04 PM
If you wanna really throw them off, next time you see them say: Hi, you girls feeling ok. That way it gives them the chance to apologize if they arent asses. It also throws them off, like why is this guy being nice after I acted like a complete out of controll slut last night?
ok Enough of the sensetive crap........the real question is were they hot?
O-Dog
10-06-2004, 12:06 PM
^^Plus, you're an asshole that avoided:
1. Awkward waking up situation.
2. Awkward "can I get in another session before we realize how wrong this is" question.
3. Awkward "holy shit, is she clean" question.
4. Awkward leaving situation.
5. Awkward "can I get that again/do I like her" question.
6. Any prospect of normalcy between you and said girls.
If I were you, I'd play it off cool. Write a note or something lame like that saying, something to the effect of, "didn't mean to be a jerk last night, hope you guys got settled ok, drinks some time, my place?" Sign it "the doorman" or something equally lame and you can play the night off attributing much of their bitchiness to just sheer drunkenness.
Living near them (and thus having to see them ir/regularly) makes the situation different. If you see any potential for hanging out/hooking up/dating either of them, this should govern your reaction...and subsequent interactions.
Your anger is justified, but perhaps a malappropriation of your emotional energy. You've got years of stigmatized gender issues working against you.
Lastly, and most importantly, were either of them hot? If not, were their bodies at least nice enough for you to consider brown-bagging either of 'em?
*EDIT* Squirtle beat me to the punch.
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 12:09 PM
You're an honest asshole, and you did the right thing.
Ah, kinda like Honest Abe.....tat makes for some good photoshop material.
And to the question of whether or not they were hot I can say yes. The girl in reference had an interesting accent of which I took to be either Russian or from one of the regions around it. Like I said, if I had any other value system......However, what makes me a person is fighting off the animal part of my brain(No offense to ZL if he reads this post, the Horse is the only animal that is similar to humans, screw those damned dirty apes). I may take your advice and ask if they're ok, assuming I see them. Despite how they were acting and how I was treated I still feel an abstract concern. I'm such a soft little bitch, I swear.
O-Dog
10-06-2004, 12:15 PM
Nah, dude, you're just a nice guy. Expect to finish last, have a job, a shit car...you know the drill.
Supposedly we still win in the end.
big_squirtle
10-06-2004, 12:15 PM
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Lastly, and most importantly, were either of them hot? If not, were their bodies at least nice enough for you to consider brown-bagging either of 'em?
[/quote]
Brown bagging......your a pig...........I salute you. LOL
:notworth:
daroga
10-06-2004, 12:17 PM
You did the right thing. As is stated above, there's so many problems that would've happened as a result of a different course of action.
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 12:20 PM
Nah, dude, you're just a nice guy. Expect to finish last, have a job, a shit car...you know the drill.
Supposedly we still win in the end.
Oh man, what a wonderful outlook for the future. :(
LV-426RS
10-06-2004, 12:21 PM
DO NOT ask them if they are ok after that night. They probably do it all the time and will merely laugh at you. Just play it cool and when you see them just give them a nod to show that you acknowledge they are there but don't go out of your way to make any extra communication with them. You may gain that mystery that makes girls really want you, and then you can just deny them again.
madmage
10-06-2004, 12:25 PM
Ehh...i go through this all the time (well...maybe not exactly, but I end up asking the same questions). I would not consider myself shy. However, I usually just keep my mouth shut and I am lousy at starting conversations. So because people see me interacting with others(good friends), but I won't interact with them, they think I don't like them, which most of the time is not the case.
A bit of advise though. You seem nice and considerate. I used to be like that, however, as you've learned in this example, nice people get walked on. they are abused and just generally used at every opportunity. I know this sounds bleak, but it is the reallity of things. So, don't worry about what they think, be a little more cut throat. I would have replied to the "ass" statement immediately with a "slut" remark. If they were that drunk they wouldnt remember the next day anyways.
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 12:52 PM
Again, good advice. The problem encountered there, though, is the paradigm of that mentality. I was raised to be gracious and polite, so such a switch won't come easy. It'll take work, but if I ever want to get any respect (RIP Rodney) I'll have to adapt.
sblymnlcrymnl
10-06-2004, 12:56 PM
You did the right thing.
punqsux
10-06-2004, 01:00 PM
when i read this topic i was thinking "this had to be started by one of 3 people"; i was thinking ZL, Reality's Fringe, or zewone
do i win something for guessing right? :wink:
Dok Diamond
10-06-2004, 01:02 PM
you did the right thing, but if it was me, i always do the wrong thing.
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 01:04 PM
when i read this topic i was thinking "this had to be started by one of 3 people"; i was thinking ZL, Reality's Fringe, or zewone
do i win something for guessing right? :wink:
Your sealed copy of Mega Man X3 for the SNES is on the way! :P
punqsux
10-06-2004, 01:05 PM
better be over night w/insurance and DC or else im starting a slander thread!!
O-Dog
10-06-2004, 01:06 PM
Again, good advice. The problem encountered there, though, is the paradigm of that mentality. I was raised to be gracious and polite, so such a switch won't come easy. It'll take work, but if I ever want to get any respect (RIP Rodney) I'll have to adapt.
Don't be so sure about the absolute dichotomy between being gracious and polite, and gaining respect. In my experience, I've done many things to gain respect, including, first and foremost, being gracious and polite.
It's all a matter of what type of person you want to be with that particular girl. If you're just out for tail, being a player is, typically, the route to go. But if you're in search of a LTR, I would venture that gracious and polite is the path to go.
But don't go fooling yourself into believing that you're only going to be gracious and polite OR a player. You'll find yourself switching to a variety of personas over the course of your romantic career. Eventually, you'll find one that "works" for you, and then you can go with that, whatever it is.
Xevious
10-06-2004, 01:09 PM
I have this bracelet. It says: WWMTD?
It means "What would Mr. T do?" Its a pretty cool bracelet......
LeviathynX
10-06-2004, 01:11 PM
One thing to consider too is that without any photo evidence like you brillantly offered, they could have accused you of sexual assault or rape. Just something to think about, especially with drunken slutty college girls.
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 01:12 PM
better be over night w/insurance and DC or else im starting a slander thread!!
I GOTT TEH RIPPED!11! If only I had a copy of X3..............
O-Dog, I see your POV, and I agree. I think I'll assimilate the personality I like to call "Alabama Boot-Stomper". Girls, FEAR ME!
Wshakspear
10-06-2004, 01:13 PM
This makes me miss highschool. Nothing like being surounded with the three "tipsy" girls wearing nothing more than a towel each...and somehow keeping my cool. Sometimes i wish i was that other type of asshole, but i would have never gotten the beautiful GF i have now.
*kicks own ass...silently*
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 01:15 PM
One thing to consider too is that without any photo evidence like you brillantly offered, they could have accused you of sexual assault or rape. Just something to think about, especially with drunken slutty college girls.
Yeah, there's been a great deal of sexual assault as of late on campus, including an incident involving 5 guys and one girl. Kind of disturbing, actually.
I have this bracelet[....] it means "What Would Mr. T Do"
I need one of those :)
dustyeff
10-06-2004, 01:25 PM
5-1 is a pretty harsh ratio..
camoor
10-06-2004, 01:43 PM
DO NOT ask them if they are ok after that night. They probably do it all the time and will merely laugh at you. Just play it cool and when you see them just give them a nod to show that you acknowledge they are there but don't go out of your way to make any extra communication with them. You may gain that mystery that makes girls really want you, and then you can just deny them again.
Great advice - I completely agree.
You totally undercut one of the primary powers their gender allows (IE the promise of sex) and for these girls this was an attack. So they projected their weakness on to you (IE their shyness in saying "Hi" while sober)
Situations like this are a result of the sexual revolution of the 70s and the empowerment of women - now everyone is confused about their gender role, and its going to take some time to sort all of it out (you can see the confusion inherent in all of the womens mags/shows/etc). Compounding this is the acceptance of the Victorian ideal of romance as normal and healthy (where relationships are driven solely by the passions and pleasures of the heart as opposed to being a mutually beneficial partnership that needs work to suceed).
Unfortunately we're in the middle of this mess. As always - the maxim "Know Thyself" should steer you through, my advice is to not worry about missed opportunities, and instead devise a clearly defined gameplan for the next time this kind of thing happens. Remember, sometimes doing the cool thing can turn out way worse for you, even if it does give you some crazy stories.
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 01:52 PM
They've tried to make conversation with me while sober. The problem is, I'm entirely uninterested in what they have to say. Of course, if I'm greeted ith a "Hello" I return it, but my courteousy only extends to that boundary. I feel that the core problem here is the fact that they cannot stand the ideathat I have no real desire in them. Perhaps my casual indifference has hurt their ego and undermined their role as women (hah). I have this feeling that I haven't seen the last of them.
scsg75
10-06-2004, 01:54 PM
I didn't read everyones responses, but I'll just add, people think quite or shy people are stuck up because you may not have anything to say and are not purposely trying to come off as better than someone or above talking to them, but it may appear that way. If you never say anything and keep to yourself, then people don't know what to make of you, and automatically assume you think you are better than them or don't like them, hence the no talking to them.
I was shocked several years ago when a friend of mine asked why I look pissed off all the time, constantly. Apparently, people think I'm constantly pissed off and am angry all the time, even though I'm not. I just never really smile a lot even though I'm relatively happy. But it comes off as me being pissed off. I was totally shocked that this is how people percieve me as I generally am a nice guy and not usually ever pissed.
Anyway, if you are not talkative or outgoing perse, then people assume the worst, to try to categorize you or in a lame attempt to understand you, instead of just talking to you to understand the real you.
(On a side note, you probably should have showed that chick up close how big your hands are, but that's me.)
HOTSHIET
10-06-2004, 01:57 PM
Wow OP that is some serious restraint, I would have done the complete opposite but that's just because I'm a pig! Morals, we should live without them.
camoor
10-06-2004, 01:58 PM
...I have this feeling that I haven't seen the last of them.
Yeah - they are Russian women. Hopefully its the "Famke from GoldenEye" type of revenge :D
sblymnlcrymnl
10-06-2004, 02:00 PM
...I have this feeling that I haven't seen the last of them.
Yeah - they are Russian women. Hopefully its the "Famke from GoldenEye" type of revenge :D
"Xenia Onatopp" ... Bond movies have the best names for female characters.
And by best I mean worst, of course.
MorbidAngel4Life
10-06-2004, 02:02 PM
Damn that is a high level of restraint. Being around 2 drunk Russian girls.....Damn I would have taken advantage of them in every which way possible.
chosen1s
10-06-2004, 02:11 PM
You did the right thing. You don't need a pat on the back from those girls or anyone else for it to be the right thing. If the same opportunity ever presents itself, it will still be the right thing for you to walk away. Good for you.
As for *why* they reacted that way - they felt rejected, and it made them mad. People always react that way when they know somebody has taken the high road. Doing the right thing will always trigger a backlash. Look at our Presidential race. (Intentionally not choosing sides here because that's for a different forum). I feel that the candidate I support desires the right things, and there are people who just can't stand that. Those on the "other" side probably feel the same way.
You did what's right. Stand tall. You can either take the approval of people who are sober and agree or you can try for the approval of people who are prone to be drunk and unappreciative. But you probably won't get both.
Wshakspear
10-06-2004, 02:19 PM
Apparently, people think I'm constantly pissed off and am angry all the time, even though I'm not. I just never really smile a lot even though I'm relatively happy.
He said, with a "Crow" avatar :)
big_squirtle
10-06-2004, 02:28 PM
where do you go to school, if you dont mind me asking?
magilacudy
10-06-2004, 02:36 PM
You're damned if you do, damned if you don't. If you're talking to these girls and shit, you're a lecherous asshole. If you keep to yourself you're a stuck-up asshole.
Face it man, we're assholes...just depends on what kind of asshole you want to be. You're an honest asshole, and you did the right thing.
AGREED'D.
Who gives a shit what other people think. As long as you can accept the decision yourself that's all that matters.
Besides those hoes were probably crawling with disease.
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 02:36 PM
Ohio University. And to clear things up, only the one girl had the accent. Yeah, I would rather have the approval of fine upstanding cheapasses, but the way things are sucks. Restraint also isn't really the word I would choose, "respect" might be a better phrase. Respect for her and mine own. I guess part of the reason I'm so down too is that I'm not living the "college life". I've made an effort to not party/drink (after what happened over the summer. Pants off, not knowing what happened) and "higher education" looks less and less fun. I'm considering moving back home and going to a private university nearby so I can have my own apartment and better job, then doing my Master's somewhere else. It's difficult when the lifestyle you've chosen doesn't agree with the consensus of a majority, but as gamers, we all have a little experience with that. ;)
MeGaWC27
10-06-2004, 02:47 PM
I respect what you did (or did not do). You could have seriously taken advantage of the situation, but you showed much restraint and self-control.
Ditto, besides they were drunk, drunk ppl mostly talk nonsense and the other times, the truth.
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 02:49 PM
Which means I may or may not be an ass. :D
O-Dog
10-06-2004, 03:01 PM
Don't worry about transferring just yet, RF. The best thing I got from college, aside from all the fun I had, was the opportunity to learn more about myself than any other circumstance in life.
I spent 4 years learning exactly what kind of man I wanted to be...if you can do that at OU, then stay at OU. If you feel you'll do a better job closer to home, then so be it. I went to a fairly large school (20k students) and must say that what I learned about myself in college I could only have done by being on my own, away from home, with tons of people around and only myself to turn to when the shit hit the fan.
1 and a half years out, I feel like I came out of college a better man, more sure of myself and what I want out of life. If you can do that at OU, then maybe you should consider staying, rather than worrying about transferring.
As for the partying/drinking thing...
I will admit that I did my fair share of all that (and I have the liver, or lack thereof, to prove it) and this is what I have to say. It's a hollow existence with a little more sex and excitement than otherwise. When I ran in those circles, I found myself feeling bipolar, swinging from immense highs (beautiful women, night after night) to huge lows (hangovers during finals). What I found was that I could balance the two...my social and academic life, but that I could save more energy by not balancing the two, and choosing less extreme forms of pleasure. So I cut back on my boozing and tailhunting, and became a better man for it. I am consoled knowing that I can turn on the party vibe at any moment, and also that I am in control of it. Some people go out and party just because they don't want to hear about how much fun it was the next day. When I found myself feeling that way, I knew it was time to cut it back a bit.
Missingdata
10-06-2004, 03:05 PM
....Where do you live in?
I m a shy person, but no 1 ever call me an asshole, in fact they respect me of being a shy person.
It's good to live in a friendly place....
x0thedeadzone0x
10-06-2004, 03:38 PM
You're definitely not an ass. You just proved you've got self-control and can restrain yourself, a very valuable thing to have. I applaud you, RF. :applause:
Mookyjooky
10-06-2004, 03:50 PM
If I were in your situation at the time of these events I would of....
Step one: Fuck the whore, drunk or not....they know what they're doing....drunk is just an excuse for the next day.
Step two: Donkey punch the bitch in the back of the head at orgasm.
Step Three: Scream " Your my pig Bitch! " loud enough for her friend to hear.
Step Four: Walk out of sluts room with your pants over your shoulder and tell the friend in the living room that you just bust, but if she sucks your balls your can stand at attention again.
Step Five: Slam the friend in the "Cinnamon Ring".
Step Six: Drop a pint and a half of "throat yogart" all over her face finishing the "hat trick".
Step Seven: Leave a picture of the whole incident on her doorstep the next day. Meaning, you should always carry a camera, or at least a cell phone camera.
The End
Mookyjooky
10-06-2004, 03:58 PM
Anyone else agree that a good idea?
sblymnlcrymnl
10-06-2004, 04:07 PM
If I were in your situation at the time of these events I would of....
Step one: shaq-fu the whore, drunk or not....they know what they're doing....drunk is just an excuse for the next day.
Step two: Donkey punch the bitch in the back of the head at orgasm.
Step Three: Scream " Your my pig Bitch! " loud enough for her friend to hear.
Step Four: Walk out of sluts room with your pants over your shoulder and tell the friend in the living room that you just bust, but if she sucks your balls your can stand at attention again.
Step Five: Slam the friend in the "Cinnamon Ring".
Step Six: Drop a pint and a half of "throat yogart" all over her face finishing the "hat trick".
Step Seven: Leave a picture of the whole incident on her doorstep the next day. Meaning, you should always carry a camera, or at least a cell phone camera.
The End
:rofl:
That's sooo wrong.
daphatty
10-06-2004, 04:14 PM
Ohio University. And to clear things up, only the one girl had the accent. Yeah, I would rather have the approval of fine upstanding cheapasses, but the way things are sucks. Restraint also isn't really the word I would choose, "respect" might be a better phrase. Respect for her and mine own. I guess part of the reason I'm so down too is that I'm not living the "college life". I've made an effort to not party/drink (after what happened over the summer. Pants off, not knowing what happened) and "higher education" looks less and less fun. I'm considering moving back home and going to a private university nearby so I can have my own apartment and better job, then doing my Master's somewhere else. It's difficult when the lifestyle you've chosen doesn't agree with the consensus of a majority, but as gamers, we all have a little experience with that. ;)
Whatever you do, DO NOT MOVE BACK HOME!!! I never left home for college and now I see that as one of the biggest mistakes of my life. Get your own apartment if you have to but stay away from home. You'll be a better man for it.
Nah, dude, you're just a nice guy. Expect to finish last, have a job, a shit car...you know the drill.
Supposedly we still win in the end.
Not sure about finishing last O-Dog. I certainly thought I was destined for a life of solitude. I was much like Mr. Fringe here in my younger days except I strayed from the path he is on and it turned around and bit me in the ass. (Try grasping the concept of fatherhood at 19 years old.)
Luckily, I found the most beautiful gem of a woman in my wife. She's everything I ever wanted and then some. I'd say I won in the end. Stick to your guns Fringy, just don't move home.
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 04:18 PM
If I were in your situation at the time of these events I would of....
Step one: shaq-fu the whore, drunk or not....they know what they're doing....drunk is just an excuse for the next day.
Step two: Donkey punch the bitch in the back of the head at orgasm.
Step Three: Scream " Your my pig Bitch! " loud enough for her friend to hear.
Step Four: Walk out of sluts room with your pants over your shoulder and tell the friend in the living room that you just bust, but if she sucks your balls your can stand at attention again.
Step Five: Slam the friend in the "Cinnamon Ring".
Step Six: Drop a pint and a half of "throat yogart" all over her face finishing the "hat trick".
Step Seven: Leave a picture of the whole incident on her doorstep the next day. Meaning, you should always carry a camera, or at least a cell phone camera.
The End
The only problem I see in your logic is that the Donkey Punch only works on anal. Otherwise, I believe that it is a very comprehensive and effective list.
To address O-Dog, I'm not completely hell-bent on transferring right now but it is most assuredly under serious consideration. Being hundreds of miles from home makes it difficult to keep up on things especially when you don't have any money or a car. I figure that I could just attend the private university in my hometown (which isn't bad, by the way) after I get an apartment, and then take my GRE and head into a Masters program when I'm older and wiser.
I do have some serious thinking to do, however, and a decision must be made before registering for the winter quarter. I don't know when or where society accepted that you have to be boorish and callow to "fit in", as it were, but it makes it hard to adjust. I'm trying though, and things might turn out for the better. I appreciate everyone's kind words; good to know I'm not alone.
Zenithian Legend
10-06-2004, 06:17 PM
Well, well, well, we have a drunken topic and that would've been the ideal place for this... but allow the Horse to add his 2 cents. I would say you should use this experience as an opportunity to open up more to the people in your dorm. Obviously not beyond what you're comfortable with, but just start hanging out with them. The worst this does is open up opportunities to meet new people, and the more people you meet the better. The key is to never limit yourself. Had it been me, well my freshman year I probably would've made out with one of them, sophomore both of them, and now I would've fucked them both had I had the chance, but that's because I probably would've been drunk too. I'm a bad horse.
You are such a very naughty horse.
Well, it seems that you're not obsessed with sex right now, so I'd say that you did tyhe right thing. Like the horse said, once you get older, you'll probally want to, ehrm... take advantafe of these lovely ladies. But what the hell do I know. I'm just a little kid.
Reality's Fringe
10-06-2004, 07:02 PM
Ha, hey, if I'm not at my sexual peak now (19), when is it? I'm not saying I didn't find them attractive, I did, but it was just wrong. It was all wrong, and if I did what "Big RF" wanted to do, then I'd be no better than the type of male I loathe. This is where you're opted out ZL, being a horse and all.
CaptainObviousXl
10-06-2004, 07:21 PM
good for you we should start a thread for peoples good deedsagain, we have to make a tread just for people that do good things
Jaket
10-06-2004, 07:31 PM
too bad not everyone can be a PIMP like me
LMFAO!
MadChedar0
10-06-2004, 07:39 PM
Well, well, well, we have a drunken topic and that would've been the ideal place for this... but allow the Horse to add his 2 cents. I would say you should use this experience as an opportunity to open up more to the people in your dorm. Obviously not beyond what you're comfortable with, but just start hanging out with them. The worst this does is open up opportunities to meet new people, and the more people you meet the better. The key is to never limit yourself. Had it been me, well my freshman year I probably would've made out with one of them, sophomore both of them, and now I would've shaq-fued them both had I had the chance, but that's because I probably would've been drunk too. I'm a bad horse.
Zenithian should have another sub-rank that reads "The raging alcoholic horse of CAG", or something to that extent :)
RF, you made the right decision. You built up good karma that night
XboxMaster
10-06-2004, 09:44 PM
Wow, nice resistance.
el bobo
10-06-2004, 09:49 PM
Well, orange juice cures all wounds especially if it is a deep flesh wound...
Ultimate Matt X
10-07-2004, 03:23 PM
Reality's Fringe, was this after you left my place? As far as all the school stuff goes we should talk at the gaming thing Friday. Believe me as someone that commuted and has finished four years of college, I have some insights on this.
If you run into people you don't wanna yap with again call me. I can probably create a couple hour diversion if I go off on a tangent on em. :) The guys that have Live on here know how I like to run off at the mouth.
Reality's Fringe
10-07-2004, 04:43 PM
Yeah, actually, it was right after I left your place. I tell you man, talk about a way to piss someone off. Oh well. I haven't seen them since then, but I'm just waiting until I'm pushed into suplexing one of them. I'll see ya Friday man.
Mr_hockey66
10-07-2004, 04:50 PM
Wow after the discusion about you being a virgin still on your bday! And You passed it up! What up with that? Naw thats cool man. I think if yoiu had done anything you would have been an ass either way. First if you don't then cause you did. Yoiu only had sex with me cause I was drunk! Then you could get in to the whole he rapped me thing. which I could imagaine as being a bad thing. I think you made the right decsiion. plus if she is that willing to have sex with you after never talking to you or vs. versa who many others have she been with? She might have crabbs!
Reality's Fringe
10-07-2004, 04:56 PM
But I do love a seafood buffet..........
zewone
10-07-2004, 04:58 PM
Good for you man. Do what you think is right. Though myself, I would have done otherwise. To each his own.
Zenithian Legend
10-07-2004, 05:16 PM
Well see if you would've hated yourself the next day, then there's no question that you did the right thing.
Mr_hockey66
10-07-2004, 05:19 PM
WWMTS?
What Would MR T Say?
I pity da fool who dont sleep with da hoes!
Nirvanaguy777
10-07-2004, 05:27 PM
let people think what they want too think, who gives a fuck, nuff said