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Ledhed
10-18-2004, 01:05 PM
I just watched Schindler's List. No matter how many times I watch it, I always cry. Some movies just do that to me. What films affect you deeply, not necessarily to the point of tears, but affect you in an overwhelming way? Just curious. :wink:

sblymnlcrymnl
10-18-2004, 01:08 PM
I've never been overwhelmed, but I guess American Beauty would be the closest thing to it.

jmcc
10-18-2004, 01:08 PM
Grave of Fireflies.

Journey
10-18-2004, 01:09 PM
E.T. does it every freaken time. When they find him lying in the ditch.......I lose it. I must've seen it 50 times ant every time I see it, i need tissues.......I'm such a baby.

SneakyPenguin
10-18-2004, 01:12 PM
Grave of Fireflies.

Ditto on that one. Most. Depressing. Movie. EVER.

rockhero
10-18-2004, 01:12 PM
All of the above are good mentions. I don't usually like anime, but Princess Mononoke is very sad.

CAPTTRIPahh
10-18-2004, 01:13 PM
Rudy

Ledhed
10-18-2004, 01:13 PM
Grave of Fireflies.

That was in my mind as well when I made the topic.

The part that gets me in S's L is when he's saying goodbye to his workers and they give him the ring. He starts to think about how many more people he could have saved, and breaks down. I tear up every time.

Journey
10-18-2004, 01:14 PM
Grave of Fireflies.

I'm not into the whole manga/anime thing, but I did see this movie. If anyone hasnt seen it, check it out. Be warned though, it's not really a feel good movie.......but great none the less.

Ugamer_X
10-18-2004, 01:17 PM
Life is Beautiful, Cinema Paradiso, In America, and Saving Private Ryan (kinda tough for me to choose that one, but the cemetery scenes are both powerful for me).

guessed
10-18-2004, 01:19 PM
I'm not afraid/ashamed to cry. Joy Luck Club makes me cry, and I always cry at Delores Claiborne.

Ledhed
10-18-2004, 01:21 PM
I always cry at Delores Claiborne.

My Mom's favorite movie.

Ugamer_X
10-18-2004, 01:25 PM
I'm not afraid/ashamed to cry. Joy Luck Club makes me cry, and I always cry at Delores Claiborne.
I just saw JLC a month ago, and the final scene brought me to the crying "threshold."

snotknocker
10-18-2004, 01:27 PM
Brian's Song
Patch Adams
In the Bedroom
Untamed Heart
Just to name a few

Scorch
10-18-2004, 01:30 PM
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. I don't think I actually cried, but I was depressed for a week or two after seeing it. One of the best and most depressing movies ever.. unless you're currently not single, but it's not a good idea when you're going through the longest single-streak of your life (it's been like six weeks. ahhhhh)

A Walk To Remember and Where The Heart Is are both depressing, and both chick flicks. I watched the first for Mandy Moore and the latter for Natalie Portman. I want to see Garden State, I'll have to wait for the DVD on that one though, since they took it out of theatres here.. but I heard that that's more humorous than sad..

EDIT: Good call on Patch Adams. 4 years of medical classes in high school, so that makes it all the more sadder.

oracrest
10-18-2004, 01:31 PM
Happiness. Messed me up for a few days.

dustyeff
10-18-2004, 01:32 PM
Gladiator.

GuilewasNK
10-18-2004, 01:34 PM
This is easy.

The Day After (not the recent Day After Tomorrow)

The Day After is a movie that includes John Lithgow and Steve Guttenberg. It is a story about nuclear war. The premise is that residents in Kansas get hit with bombs (as well as other places).
The special effects of when the bomb hit are so-so (the movie was made in 1983), but the after effects of radiation poisoning are what really make you think. It was so sad to see all those people suffering. Plus, the anarchy that followed was terrible. It was a powerful film IMO. It can be found for $9.99 (I got mine at Best Buy). Along with Schindler's List it is probably the saddest film I ever saw.

int80h
10-18-2004, 01:41 PM
The Village made me cry with its suckage.

Ikohn4ever
10-18-2004, 01:43 PM
Schindler, ET when hes all white and dying, Old Yeller, I Am Sam, maybe one or two more

RedvsBlue
10-18-2004, 01:44 PM
I'd definetly have to go with Life as a House, American Beauty definetly coming in a very close second. American Beauty is the only movie I've ever watched twice in a row, the first time I saw it I had to see it right away again.

bignick
10-18-2004, 01:45 PM
Glory

daikaiju
10-18-2004, 01:46 PM
A few notables for me...

Immortal Beloved - not to the point of tears, but still a great love story.

full agreement with Grave of the Fireflies - wow.

Amalie - for it's presentation and style

Personally, I tend not to watch a lot of drama, but I really enjoy films that manage to make me uncomfortable - which in an age of desensitization is a rarity for me...a few that rank high for me are...

Eraserhead - a classic
Tetsuo the Iron Man - a modern classic
All Night Long Vol. 3 - sickest stalker film ever
The Guinea Pig Experiement Vol. 1 (w. Samauri) - they tried to ban this one - many people thought it was a snuff film!
The Untold Story - based on true events, and just unrelentingly brutal

Most of these would fall into the horror category, but they all really push it over the edge into complete psychological dementia. Recommened only if you like feeling EXTREMELY uncomfortable when you watch a film.

epobirs
10-18-2004, 01:50 PM
Although I've little affection for baseball I did lose my father just before my thirteenth birthday, so Field of Dreams makes my tearjerker list.

more recently I saw a film called 'My First Mister' that was prime tearjerker material.

drone8888
10-18-2004, 01:58 PM
Within the first 15 minutes of, What Dreams May Come, I am totally sad.

No matter how many times I see it.

Then, throughout the entire film, you watch a man find his family again.....
Oh my, I'm getting all choked up thinking of it.

This is definitely one of my favorite movies of all time,.... and it's very emotional.
If you haven't seen this one, you're missing out on an all around epic.

The music, the cast, the story, the insight,... just everything a movie should be.

Xevious
10-18-2004, 01:58 PM
The movie that made me cry alot when i was younger was a movie called "The Elephant Man". It stars John Hurt and (pre-Silence of the Lambs) Anthony Hopkins.

For some reason, this movie resonated with me for the longest time.

guessed
10-18-2004, 01:59 PM
Schindler, ET when hes all white and dying, Old Yeller, I Am Sam, maybe one or two more

Yeah, I Am Sam was a lot better than I expected. Dakota Fanning's performance really blew me away.

jmcc
10-18-2004, 02:02 PM
Grave of Fireflies and Schindler's List should both really be shown in any history class covering WWII, time allowing.

Skylander7
10-18-2004, 02:09 PM
Schindler's List is definately one... what about My Life with Michael Keaton/Nichole Kidman. I remember seeing people leaving the theatre in tears after they watched it.

Machine
10-18-2004, 02:11 PM
Bambi

Derwood43
10-18-2004, 02:16 PM
Gladiator.

Saving Private Ryan.

Passion.

Signs. It didn't make me cry. It just messed me up for a while. I still can't hear that clicking noise without the hair on the back of my neck standing up.

Ugamer_X
10-18-2004, 02:21 PM
Within the first 15 minutes of, What Dreams May Come, I am totally sad.

No matter how many times I see it.

Then, throughout the entire film, you watch a man find his family again.....
Oh my, I'm getting all choked up thinking of it.

This is definitely one of my favorite movies of all time,.... and it's very emotional.
If you haven't seen this one, you're missing out on an all around epic.

The music, the cast, the story, the insight,... just everything a movie should be.
I would have put that, but they completely botched the last 20 minutes of that movie...The only sad thing about that movie is the fact that it could have been one of the greats in the nineties.

Squirms
10-18-2004, 02:29 PM
Being a father, almost any movie that has a child die always gets me. My wife thinks that Hope Floats and Jersey Girl are sad. When Affleck put the picture of J-Lo on the babies mobile, she just lost it.

thatstoobad
10-18-2004, 02:54 PM
Happiness. Messed me up for a few days.

i was going to mention that.

another one is "dancer in the dark". now there, is one heck of a depressing movie.

"the hours". i've met a lot of people that have think it's a chick movie, but it's not. virtually everyone in the movie hates their life. it rules.

i watched "cries and whispers" a while ago, and that's pretty depressing too. it doesn't help that the movie moves really slow, so by the end you feel like killing yourself. it's pretty good.

i thought "21 grams" was pretty sad, too.

FriskyTanuki
10-18-2004, 03:08 PM
Definitely Grave of the Fireflies.

Mr Unoriginal
10-18-2004, 03:13 PM
When I was a kid, I would always cry in The Neverending Story when
R-Tax dies. For some reason the Last Samurai was REALLY upsetting to me at the end. I find I get emotional when someone or something very unique dies in a movie. I watched Man on the Moon for the second time this weekend and it totally made me break up.

cyberlian
10-18-2004, 03:15 PM
Catwoman, it sucked so bad, i wanted to cry... :cry:

Tromack
10-18-2004, 03:18 PM
Grave of Fireflies.

I have to second this.

Mafia
10-18-2004, 03:19 PM
Damn, all these recommendations for Grave of the Fireflies makes me want to see it even more now.

One I haven't seen mentioned yet was Philadelphia. I've seen it twice, once in a 10th grade science class (i think biology, but can't remember at this point) and a second time a few months ago. I didn't cry either time, but it did a very good job of portraying just how scared the general public was during the early part of the AIDS scare.

beerguy961
10-18-2004, 03:27 PM
21 Grams and Requiem For A Dream really fucked me up for awhile...

big_squirtle
10-18-2004, 03:27 PM
"Radio Flyer" and "A Moment in Time", rent and get ready to water the flowers.

Death2Sanity
10-18-2004, 03:29 PM
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. I don't think I actually cried, but I was depressed for a week or two after seeing it. One of the best and most depressing movies ever.. unless you're currently not single, but it's not a good idea when you're going through the longest single-streak of your life (it's been like six weeks. ahhhhh)

A Walk To Remember and Where The Heart Is are both depressing, and both chick flicks. I watched the first for Mandy Moore and the latter for Natalie Portman. I want to see Garden State, I'll have to wait for the DVD on that one though, since they took it out of theatres here.. but I heard that that's more humorous than sad..

EDIT: Good call on Patch Adams. 4 years of medical classes in high school, so that makes it all the more sadder.

Your longest single streak is 6 weeks? Might I kill you now? I'm going on 9 months right now officially, although the 'relationship' that began this was sorta...weird. Been a good 2+ years since my last real, good relationship.

That said, Eternal Sunshine is an absolutely awesome movie.

vrs1650
10-18-2004, 03:31 PM
Brian's song, man that must be the saddest movie ever. I would also second Saving Private Ryan in the graveyard.

Akkis99
10-18-2004, 03:33 PM
life as a house.

argyle
10-18-2004, 03:36 PM
I was gonna mention My Life, but someone beat me too it. A very good movie, and one of Michael Keaton's last greats imo.

Awakenings is another one I refuse to watch again because it's so freakin' depressing. What's with Robin Williams & depressing movies, anyway? :P

ElfAngel7
10-18-2004, 07:40 PM
I just watched Schindler's List. No matter how many times I watch it, I always cry. Some movies just do that to me. What films affect you deeply, not necessarily to the point of tears, but affect you in an overwhelming way? Just curious. :wink:

I'll never see Schindler's List again. When I first saw it I was blown away by it's power and it made me quite depressed. It was great, but not at the cost of putting me in a funk.

johnnyoski
10-18-2004, 09:20 PM
Platoon and Schindler's List were the most recent movies that affected me that way.
I also balled my eyes out as a kid to E.T. and Old Yeller and can also remember crying at the part in the Benji movie when the dude kicked him.

CaseyRyback
10-18-2004, 09:25 PM
can't believe no one mentioned Philadelphia

nneace
10-18-2004, 09:25 PM
Pay It Forward

epobirs
10-18-2004, 09:27 PM
life as a house.

All the sadder for demonstrating Hayden Christiansen can act when he isn't working for George Lucas.

x0thedeadzone0x
10-18-2004, 09:28 PM
Pay It Forward

I totally agree. Great movie (IMO).

godhatesjustyou
10-18-2004, 09:29 PM
21 Grams and Requiem For A Dream really shaq-fued me up for awhile...

yeah, Requiem was really depressing at the end.

sblymnlcrymnl
10-18-2004, 09:31 PM
Oh yeah ... I forgot about Requiem. Great movie but I didn't feel any more depressed than usual after watching it.

CaseyRyback
10-18-2004, 09:31 PM
JFK is another one.

The trial at the end really gets to me

magilacudy
10-18-2004, 09:37 PM
Since this is the Internet I'll admit that the Lion King and Independence Day definitely got me tearing up... they're not even really depressing movies in the first place. Maybe its just overly dramatic scenes where fathers die that make me sad.

Dante Devil
10-18-2004, 09:43 PM
My Life with Michael Keaton and Nicole Kidman. Man, that movie will make you cry!

The Color Purple made me ball when Whoppi Goldberg's character finally met her son for the first time. GAWD! Choking up just thinking about it. Going to call me mom now. Tell her I love her.

crickett003
10-18-2004, 09:48 PM
*GLORY (BEST. WAR. FILM. EVER.)-Powerful!
*HERO (THE ENDING CHOKES ME UP)
*MAN ON FIRE (DEPRESSING ENDING- BRINGS A TEAR)

RedvsBlue
10-18-2004, 09:51 PM
I completely forgot about Pay it Forward, also an amazing movie.

spyhunterk19
10-18-2004, 09:55 PM
House of sand and fog....god damn that wsa depressing :(

The Successful Dropout
10-18-2004, 09:55 PM
antwone fisher

bowsernieb
10-18-2004, 10:04 PM
Mmm...the only movie in recent memory that made me all out bawl was a Chinese film called Together. Don't know what it was.

Some random ones that almost did it: the Last Samurai, Uptown Girls, Spider-Man...I know there's more, I just can't think of them...

Cyb3-rr
10-18-2004, 10:40 PM
Any movie I watched when I was a kid. Cause it makes me recall the memories of childhood that are only sweet when through the looking glass.

spyhunterk19
10-18-2004, 10:46 PM
*GLORY (BEST. WAR. FILM. EVER.)-Powerful!
*HERO (THE ENDING CHOKES ME UP)
*MAN ON FIRE (DEPRESSING ENDING- BRINGS A TEAR)


THIS IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!! Who is that in your sig? And also, is it just me or is there a much increased number of naked women in cag's sigs

Mafia
10-18-2004, 10:48 PM
can't believe no one mentioned Philadelphia

I did. :D It's back on page 2, you might have missed it.

hiccupleftovers
10-19-2004, 04:15 PM
When I saw this thread I instantly thought of Schindler's List. That is just such a sad movie. Really get's to the pit of your stomach.


The Last Samurai
E.T. the Extraterrestrial
Saving Private Ryan
Pay it Forward (very underrated but very sad none the least)
Patch Adams (It's sad to see how a man only wanted good yet he was persecuted time and time again for it.)
American Beauty
John Q (very depressing to see the state our health systme is in. It's only a matter of time, IMO, until somebody actually does thsi.)

CaseyRyback
10-19-2004, 04:19 PM
can't believe no one mentioned Philadelphia

I did. :D It's back on page 2, you might have missed it.

I was scanning the thread for it, but must have glanced over it

Don Chubo
10-19-2004, 04:26 PM
Green Mile.

Mafia
10-19-2004, 04:30 PM
can't believe no one mentioned Philadelphia

I did. :D It's back on page 2, you might have missed it.

I was scanning the thread for it, but must have glanced over it


That's cool. It happens. I'm just glad someone else thought of it other than myself.

ryosnk
10-19-2004, 04:38 PM
Within the first 15 minutes of, What Dreams May Come, I am totally sad.

No matter how many times I see it.

Then, throughout the entire film, you watch a man find his family again.....
Oh my, I'm getting all choked up thinking of it.

This is definitely one of my favorite movies of all time,.... and it's very emotional.
If you haven't seen this one, you're missing out on an all around epic.

The music, the cast, the story, the insight,... just everything a movie should be.


Great movie and it made me cry :cry:

greendc27
10-19-2004, 04:42 PM
When I was young and saw the Transformers movie I cryed when Optimus Prime died. :oops:

dcfox
10-19-2004, 04:47 PM
I know its been said a million times already, but I'm going to say it again, Grave of the Fireflies. Another one that hasn't been mentioned is Happy Times.

FrankySox
10-19-2004, 06:44 PM
seabiscuit

ryanbph
10-19-2004, 06:45 PM
Braveheart, how can one not be affected by a guy screaming freedom, as he his manily hood is being removed

smalien1
10-19-2004, 06:50 PM
One Flew Over the Cuckoos Nest
Big Daddy

crissy1616
10-19-2004, 07:00 PM
A lot of people have mentioned some really good movies...depressing, yes, but good. Like Schindler's List and Life as a House I really liked. I haven't cried at many movies, but I can remember really bawling during:

Passion of the Christ
I am Sam
The Cure
My Girl

P.S. I think it is so sweet that guys are admitting to movies that touched them. You don't find too many that admit to it in person. I remember how special I felt when one of my guy friends started crying while we were watching The Green Mile....it was so cute.

evilpenguin9000
10-19-2004, 07:14 PM
Philadelphia was definitely moving. I'd say the Big Blue is incredible. Umm Lost in translation was good, as well.

Ledhed
10-19-2004, 07:16 PM
P.S. I think it is so sweet that guys are admitting to movies that touched them. You don't find too many that admit to it in person. I remember how special I felt when one of my guy friends started crying while we were watching The Green Mile....it was so cute.

Yeah, I'm glad that this didn't turn into a flamefest. I would have expected that out of GameFAQs, but not CAG.

gameguy22006
10-19-2004, 08:08 PM
I completely forgot about Pay it Forward, also an amazing movie.

I also forgot about it, I agree great movie. Also John Q and I am Sam come to mind.

jmcc
10-19-2004, 08:31 PM
A lot of people have mentioned some really good movies...depressing, yes, but good. Like Schindler's List and Life as a House I really liked. I haven't cried at many movies, but I can remember really bawling during:

Passion of the Christ
I am Sam
The Cure
My Girl

P.S. I think it is so sweet that guys are admitting to movies that touched them. You don't find too many that admit to it in person. I remember how special I felt when one of my guy friends started crying while we were watching The Green Mile....it was so cute.

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RedvsBlue
10-21-2004, 02:56 AM
Well I was at Walmart tonight and I saw My Life sitting there on the top in the bargain $5.50 bin. I figured since it had been mentioned on here that it would be worth a shot.

Wow, that definetly shoots up there with my other 2 (American Beauty and Life as a House). If you're a sucker for any of these other movies mentioned then you have to watch My Life.

sblymnlcrymnl
10-21-2004, 02:59 AM
*GLORY (BEST. WAR. FILM. EVER.)-Powerful!
*HERO (THE ENDING CHOKES ME UP)
*MAN ON FIRE (DEPRESSING ENDING- BRINGS A TEAR)


THIS IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!! Who is that in your sig? And also, is it just me or is there a much increased number of naked women in cag's sigs

Yeah, I think there is ... I blame myself.

WeaponX2099
10-21-2004, 03:20 AM
Cry list:
Schindler's List
Old yeller
Bambi
ET
Pokemon the movie (cried when Ash didn't die)