View Full Version : Some More Girl Advice Needed (as much as I don't wanna post this)
XboxMaster
10-19-2004, 10:51 PM
Hey, I secured a movie with pretty much the hottest girl in my grade tommorow and I'm planning to ask her out to again or something along the lines of that. Some other ppl might be there, but I'm not sure, if so, it'll probably be a breeze, but if not, then I need to know things to talk about with her that'll keep us occupied for about an hour. Any suggestions? Also, what's a good way to ask her to go out another time?
Jaket
10-19-2004, 10:53 PM
it's a movie... just STFU and it will be ok
;)
lmao....
I guess you're ONLY the master of the Xbox, right? You need to learn more about girls. :)
xspeedracerx
10-19-2004, 10:53 PM
Talk to her about your xbox, and how much you go to cheapassgamer.com
zionoverfire
10-19-2004, 10:53 PM
The best way to ask a girl out on a second date is to get her to agree that she had fun, that's it and its better if you don't ask but hint in that direction and she says so of her own accord.
Wshakspear
10-19-2004, 10:55 PM
That hour...if its during the movie, if anything, just comment on it. If that hours is before/after the movie, than ask her questions, and hopefully she'll ask some back...instant conversation.
At the end of the evening, ask her how she enjoyed what went on, to show that for some reason you care, and casualy ask if she'd like to join you for "enter thing to do". Thats about as simple as you can get.
sying
10-19-2004, 10:55 PM
Don't spring for the cheapassticket, pay full price, not student, and just treat her with some common sense decency, like open her car door before going in yourself
Rodimus
10-19-2004, 10:56 PM
Talk about anything, but X-Box and Halo 2. I don't think most girls like that.
WhipSmartBanky
10-19-2004, 10:59 PM
You haven't even been on the ONE date with her, and you're already thinking to the next one? Chill. Take it easy and see where the evening goes.
And I agree...unless you're absolutely sure she's a gamer grrl, stay away from conversations about the internets, video games, comics, etc.
evilmojo12542
10-19-2004, 11:00 PM
be yourself it really is that simple and take it from there
Mr_hockey66
10-19-2004, 11:00 PM
Rule number one.
Dont mention videogames, star trek, star wars, or anythigneles that YOU tink is cool
Rule number two
Don't snort!
Rule number three
YOu pay for the bill
Rule number four
IS she real?
Rule number five
Don't let your parents drive you
Rule number six
Dont cry or screeem louder then her in the theater ( no matter how much you like bambi)
Rule number seven
Don't think your slick ( your not)
Rule number eight
Are you sure she is real?
Rule number nine
Don't double dip, stuff your face
Rule number ten
WEAR DEODDERANT, SHOWER, Shave ( and for my fans) Get OUT Of YOuR PARENTS BASMENT
Rule 11
Wear clean clothes!
Rule 12
Come on Its ok if you talk to your self but going on dfates with imaginary people is wrong
Rule 13
Don't ask for advice about women on a videogame chat room.
punqsux
10-19-2004, 11:02 PM
talk about halo...duh :lol:
ask her questions about herself, thats the best way to find common ground betweens ya.(movies, music, random stuff from childhood) after that topics should just happen, if that dosent work...im stumped because ive never been attaracted to a girl that i couldnt talk with for hours.
alteredbeast
10-19-2004, 11:05 PM
Did you post a similar topic on PotD on GameFAQs?
pacifickarma
10-19-2004, 11:06 PM
I don't want you to be the guy in the PG-13 movie everyone's *really* hoping makes it happen. I want you to be like the guy in the rated R movie, you know, the guy you're not sure whether or not you like yet. You're not sure where he's coming from. Okay? You're a bad man. You're a bad man, Mikey. You're a bad man, bad man.
WhipSmartBanky
10-19-2004, 11:06 PM
talk about halo...duh :lol:
ask her questions about herself, thats the best way to find common ground betweens ya.(movies, music, random stuff from childhood) after that topics should just happen, if that dosent work...im stumped because ive never been attaracted to a girl that i couldnt talk with for hours.
Ooops. I misread that...I thought you said you've never been attracted to a girl who couldn't talk for hours...
:lol:
pimp_daddy_smurf
10-19-2004, 11:07 PM
good luck
Rodimus
10-19-2004, 11:08 PM
Maybe you're asking the wrong group of people. We're just gonna say the same stuff over and over. "Be yourself" "Find a coman intrest."
You know her better than any of us. (Or you should) So do whatever ya think ya gotta do. Good luck though, I know how nerve racking it can be. Anyways you got your foot in the door, and that's the hardest step.
godhatesjustyou
10-19-2004, 11:09 PM
Did you post a similar topic on PotD on GameFAQs?
hahahah!
nice sig you got there, entensity, right?
Nirvanaguy777
10-19-2004, 11:16 PM
be yourself, be nice and charming, dont take your dick out until she asks, or when shes asleep, BONG
SadieDee
10-19-2004, 11:17 PM
Do not talk about guy things. Absolutely no football, comics, games, car talk, computers, or politics. NONE!
Act like a gentleman and open up doors for her. That will always impress a girl. Seriously, my boyfriend used to do that, now he just pushes doors open really hard and hopes they don't hit me in the ass in the way in. lol!
If you have trouble starting a conversion ask her about her family and pets.
...Oh, and make sure you SHOWER.
Mr_hockey66
10-19-2004, 11:17 PM
Or get her realloy really drunk! Then any thing goes!
evilmojo12542
10-19-2004, 11:20 PM
:beer: :beer: :beer: bottoms up :beer: :beer: :beer: cheers
Mr_hockey66
10-19-2004, 11:22 PM
Im not as think as you drunk i am!
sblymnlcrymnl
10-19-2004, 11:30 PM
Remember, don't pull your dick out until she asks... or until she's sleepin'
Reality's Fringe
10-19-2004, 11:33 PM
Right about now is where the angel is supposed to show up and tell you NOT to whip your dick out, but I BITCH-SLAPPED that motherfucker and sent him
packin'!
evilmojo12542
10-19-2004, 11:34 PM
holly Shaq-Fu that must be what I have been doing wrong all these years
vanlandw
10-19-2004, 11:42 PM
show her your videogame connection pronto
crazytalkx
10-19-2004, 11:44 PM
Don't forget yee old dick in the popcorn trick.
The Successful Dropout
10-19-2004, 11:46 PM
dont forget the duct tape and the sleeping pills....if her mouth is taped shut, she cant say "no" and if shes asleep, "nothing happened"
Rodimus
10-19-2004, 11:48 PM
Now this thread is just plain dirty.
sblymnlcrymnl
10-19-2004, 11:49 PM
dont forget the duct tape and the sleeping pills....if her mouth is taped shut, she cant say "no" and if shes asleep, "nothing happened"
Just remember that if you tape the mouth shut that's one less option you have later on.
crazytalkx
10-19-2004, 11:50 PM
Roofie coladas always do the trick!
Mr_hockey66
10-19-2004, 11:50 PM
thats why you don't ask for advice on women on a videogame chat room. Plus your asking for advice on the one thing most people here can't give advice for! Kinda puts you in a shit hjole right from the start!
punqsux
10-19-2004, 11:50 PM
rape humor sure is funny :roll:
evilmojo12542
10-19-2004, 11:52 PM
I am not one to talk hell I lost my woman this weekend. I have to admit this thread is a good one.
sblymnlcrymnl
10-19-2004, 11:52 PM
rape humor sure is funny :roll:
I deny all responsibility. It's all Trust's fault :oops:
PAS/CAL
10-19-2004, 11:55 PM
try to stay off the topic of newly contracted STDs
Alpha2
10-20-2004, 12:00 AM
the one honest peice of advice:
Ask about HER. Show you're interested in her and more than just a conquest. Once you know something about her you can talk about things you have in common.
Mr_hockey66
10-20-2004, 12:02 AM
now why did you go and do that. Ruin a perfectly good ruined thread but putting real advice
! If he read my rules he should be all right!
CappyCobra
10-20-2004, 12:11 AM
1) As nervous as you might be, you will have to grab your balls and have some CONFIDENCE. You don't have to be a bad ass just be sure-footed. An unsure or insecure guy turns a women off REAL quick.
2) MAKE EYE CONTACT during conversation. Women LOVE that. It shows that you are paying attention and care about what she is saying.
3) YOU'RE BUYING so don't ask her to go 'Dutch'
4) DON'T TRY TO CARESS HER ALL OVER ON THE 1st DATE. Gentle touches such as motioning her on her shoulder to go in front on of you, taking her coat off, anything legitimatly INNOCENT are OK.
If she's comfortable she'll invite more opportunities to do just that.
5) READ UP ON CURRENT EVENTS. You don;t want to look like a stooge not knowing what the hell is going on around you. Also check out sites like fark.com ananova.com for some funny, quirky news and current events to joke about and laugh. Women like men IN THE KNOW. Don't be a know-it-all, be a know-enough.
6) READ UP ON YOURSELF. Get your COMPATIBLE likes (camping, hiking, cycling) & hobbies down on paper. (Video games are not a hobbie, they're an addiction ;)) Memorable recents events that happened to you. Things you currently have in the works.
Basically have this stuff written down and commited to your brain so you;re not grabbing for something to relate to. BE PREPARED.
7) Shower. Anti-persperant. Brush. Floss. No Aftershave unless you really shaved ;) Don;t go crazy with it. Same goes with colonge. ONE SPRAY IS ENOUGH. You want your scent to be SUTTLE not overbearing.
8 ) Things you might want to keep in your coat or pocket:
-Wet Wipes
-Chapstick
-CERTS (Important; especially if you have BO breath!)
-Toothpicks or Floss (in case you got something bad stuck in there)
-Cell Phone
9) ANIMAL SACRIFICE for luck (Just kiddin on that last one ;)) Just carry a rabbit foot in your pocket or something.
10) BE YOURSELF. Or be enough of it so she is not totally shocked you're a different person 3-4 dates down the road.
PAS/CAL
10-20-2004, 02:09 AM
don't listen to #9 on that list, i actually took this girl to an animal sacrifice and she wasn't too happy
ZeroSupporT
10-20-2004, 01:02 PM
Buy the big pop corn tub, then poke a whole through the bottom of it and put it in your lap, slip a little salami in her popcorn and if she runs off screaming if so then it was never meant to be.
I've actually done this and been called inventive for it but this trick has been around for years.
sblymnlcrymnl
10-20-2004, 06:49 PM
Buy the big pop corn tub, then poke a whole through the bottom of it and put it in your lap, slip a little salami in her popcorn and if she runs off screaming if so then it was never meant to be.
I've actually done this and been called inventive for it but this trick has been around for years.
Don't forget, extra butter :twisted:
Backlash
10-20-2004, 06:53 PM
I've actually done this and been called inventive for it but this trick has been around for years.
I don't know you personally, but I find that really hard to believe.
Alpha2
10-20-2004, 07:50 PM
I find it hard to believe he's only claiming it's been around for 6 years.
greendj27
10-20-2004, 07:57 PM
I've actually done this and been called inventive for it but this trick has been around for years.
I don't know you personally, but I find that really hard to believe.
I agree, no chance he has ever done this. If so, I want to hear how the hole was punched and how the girl didn't notice what he was doing.
dustyeff
10-20-2004, 08:02 PM
Do not talk about guy things. Absolutely no football, comics, games, car talk, computers, or politics. NONE!
This one time, I wasn't really all that interested on a first date, so I decided to start fucking around. I told her to name all of the NFL quarterbacks she could.
She actually got 9, I was impressed.
1SwtDeception
10-20-2004, 08:08 PM
So these are guy advices to one another... Anyways how is this girl like? Just a typical girl whose into make-up, shopping, clothes, hollywood stuff? I'm not sure what most typical girls are into.. just sterotyping, but definatly make some jokes .. humor is something good.. make fun of her if you want just in those jokingly ways. Ask her the typical stuff
*life
*weather
*upcoming movies (to suggest her later on you want to see it with her)
*upcoming school stuff if you're into the school spirit,
*find some common interest like if she plays sports ask her how is she doing and if she plays the same kind of you.. and go out from there
*music? Or tv shows.. like "oh yea you saw so and so" or hear this
*Talk about.. stories.. true stories..something good to entertain her with
Oh if you want to ask her out another time.. see her reaction the entire time.. like catch glimpse and see if she's having fun. Later after the movie or whatever it ends ask if she had fun and if she smiles and say yea.. ask like "Wanna hang out again another time? " somwhere along those lines.
Also at the cinema.. you must have an arcade place so maybe let her try DDR possibly.. hehe offer to pay too or is the arcade just crappy? If it's just movie place and not inside a mall then that sucks. Otherwise just walk around for about an hr talking about one of the suggested stuff. But that if other people don't show up. These aren't the best suggestions because I don't usually hang out too much with girls but it's worth a try. From what I hear from girls is just gossip and guys also the entertainment scene. Hope this could help you in some ways.
bradr
10-20-2004, 08:09 PM
To all the guys who do the popcorn "trick". I hope that you guys aren't eating out of the tub also, and I especially hope it doesn't take her too long and too much popcorn eating to get to "surprise" :wink:
blehman
10-20-2004, 08:20 PM
The trick is to get her talking. Girls love to talk, especially about themselves. Make sure to pay attention to what she is saying and just delve further into what she's saying and you'll have stuff to talk about the whole night.
swetooth9
10-20-2004, 08:22 PM
To all the guys who do the popcorn "trick". I hope that you guys aren't eating out of the tub also, and I especially hope it doesn't take her too long and too much popcorn eating to get to "surprise" :wink:
:rofl:
Reality's Fringe
10-20-2004, 08:24 PM
So, are you two going to see the newest Pokemon movie? :lol:
jlarlee
10-20-2004, 08:37 PM
since she probably spent some time debating on what to wear complimenting her outfit some time during the night will be golden
XboxMaster
10-20-2004, 09:54 PM
OK, well, she never came the movies, but I asked her out anyway. This is where it gets complicated. She wants to say yes, but apparently, someone really pretty has liked me forever and will probably get mad if she goes out with me. The thing is, she won't fucking tell me who the other girl is. I kept on trying to investigate, and I think I was getting close, so she suddenly signed off to probably go talk to "the other girl". She also said that I would probably like "the other girl". This really sucks because what if it's the girl I just gave up on like last week that I really like. I doubt it is, which I would love it not to be 'cause it would make everything easier, but it kinda seems like it is. If it's any other girl in the school, I'm almost positive I can resist, but what if it's someone I'd rather go out with? Man, girls are way too complicated...
Mr. Anderson
10-20-2004, 10:13 PM
Just wait till you get to high school.
cag1000
10-20-2004, 10:19 PM
just do a pretend yawn and put the arm around her
i was in the movies last week gettin a bj from this girl so maybe i shouldnt give advice
and yes we got the student tickets and she paid
she even hit the atm to pay can u say extra bank charge
i got crazy loot to have paid but im also a pimp
cag1000
10-20-2004, 10:20 PM
world police was sort of a shitty movie anyone since i didnt pay 2 much attention cause of.....
but "maatt Damoonn" that the kept saying was funny made me soft and take longer
lololol
greendj27
10-20-2004, 10:51 PM
just do a pretend yawn and put the arm around her
i was in the movies last week gettin a bj from this girl so maybe i shouldnt give advice
and yes we got the student tickets and she paid
she even hit the atm to pay can u say extra bank charge
i got crazy loot to have paid but im also a pimp
Never happened..... :^o :bs:
jlarlee
10-21-2004, 12:14 PM
OK, well, she never came the movies, but I asked her out anyway. This is where it gets complicated. She wants to say yes, but apparently, someone really pretty has liked me forever and will probably get mad if she goes out with me. The thing is, she won't shaq-fuing tell me who the other girl is. I kept on trying to investigate, and I think I was getting close, so she suddenly signed off to probably go talk to "the other girl". She also said that I would probably like "the other girl". This really sucks because what if it's the girl I just gave up on like last week that I really like. I doubt it is, which I would love it not to be 'cause it would make everything easier, but it kinda seems like it is. If it's any other girl in the school, I'm almost positive I can resist, but what if it's someone I'd rather go out with? Man, girls are way too complicated...
I had almost forgot my twenty minute relationships from middle school until you just reminded me of them right there