I think I'm really with the girl of my life.

[bruce_pwns_j00]

Ok a few days ago I asked out this girl. She said yes, now this wouldn't be very uncommon but listen to this. This girls(alex) has been my best friend since pre-school. We also have never gotten into an arguement or been mad at each other. No lie. Now I'm with her and I found out she has liked me for years. And on top of all that...she plays video games! What do you guys think of this? :D

[pukemon]

dude don't get your hopes up just because she plays videogames. focus on all other aspects of your relationship too.

[rimsforsale]

(topic)... untill she cheats on you with her ex and this relation has already ruined the friendship between you two.

[doraemonkerpal]

pukemon/rimsforsale LOL!

bruce, good luck on your newfound (or should i say destined) relationship! not even one fight huh? hmmm... :lol:

[chickenhawk]

dude don't get your hopes up just because she plays videogames. focus on all other aspects of your relationship too.

Yeah, this is the second post that got all hyped that the girl played video games. My wife plays video games too, but if she didn't I still would've married her. The fact that she plays is great, but it's a small piece of the pie (yeah, yeah....insert play on words here....).

What's cool is that you like her and she likes you!

I'm happy for you and good luck!!

[bruce_pwns_j00]

LOL you guys took me wrong, this isnt because of her playing video games. I just included it, sorry if it sounds like thats the big thing, its not, thats why it's last.

[chickenhawk]

LOL you guys took me wrong, this isnt because of her playing video games. I just included it, sorry if it sounds like thats the big thing, its not, thats why it's last.

It is a plus though, I'll admit. :D

[snotknocker]

Let us know if you feel the same way after you've seen her squatting on the bowl, with nasty leg stubble and a rank case of morning breath. :lol:

[injun]

hmmm a girl that likes to play videogames.... just dont compete against her... lest you start your first arg....

[Battousai1002]

Nice. To have known and gotten along with someone for that long is cool.

[bmulligan]

but is she a pro?

[WhipSmartBanky]

And I bet their love will only grow stronger when they finally reach high school...

:roll:

[bruce_pwns_j00]

No muligan, but oh well, I want to be there to go out with her and do things not play video games.

[PittsburghAfterDark]

You didn't really tell us any of the 5 key points idiots on the net want to know.

1. What's her bra size?
2. Spit or swallow?
3. 2 inputs or 3?
4. Shaved, trimmed, let it grow wild?
5. Has she ever gone bi?

Like we care that she plays games :roll: .

[bruce_pwns_j00]

1. fuck u
2. fuck u
3. fuck u
4. fuck u
5. fuck u

[spoo]

First love how cute.

Did I just say cute #-o

[EggViper]

good luck with that.

[Mr_hockey66]

You can have your mom drive you to the movies. It'll be really cool! You might get a KISS to. Yep I know its hard to believe but it COULD HAPPEN!

[yeahokthenfu]

yeah man, not enough info about the girl, deifnently gotta hook these guys up with that

[6669]

:x You guys are so negative! I'm happy for you, bruce. If she's been your friend for that long, then you can only follow your heart, and let it tell you what to do next. Besides, it would have probably ruined your friendship if she had said "no" when you asked her out.

[bmulligan]

First of all, it you;ve never been in an argument, then you're probably not really that good of friends to begin with. Or at least you haven't ever spent enough time around each other enough to butt heads once in a while.

Second: Contrary to PittsburghAfterDark's list, nobody gives a crap about #'s 1,3,4, or 5. It's #2 that's most important.

[defender]

sounds cool...

I am happy for you.

Good luck with it

[bruce_pwns_j00]

Alrite bitches (excluding some) first of all yes i know her very well, she has been my best friend since pre-school. And maybe I'm waiting to KISS her, maybe I've already gotten in her pants for all you know.

[Mr_hockey66]

yeah right! Good one! Ha Ha HA. If you had you wouldn't have wrote that! It sounds like Dawsons creek to me! Does she climb in through your window?




Oh by the way its a rule you get hasseled until you are a Cheap Vet! And in time you grasshopper can pass the hassel on. That is the way.

[thatstoobad]

what's with all the posts about girls lately?

[Mr_hockey66]

The guys playing too much games! Women getting pissed. Women leaves man. MAn gets pissed and writes thread on a site that helps feed his addiction. The addiction that drove the woman away
! Kinda funny!

[MauMauProductions]

Im not happy for him. I had the same exact thing to say that Pittsburgh said. Fuck girls who play videogames. I cant stand it...HUGE Turnoff.

[alongx]

Ok a few days ago I asked out this girl. She said yes, now this wouldn't be very uncommon but listen to this. This girls(alex) has been my best friend since pre-school. We also have never gotten into an arguement or been mad at each other. No lie. Now I'm with her and I found out she has liked me for years. And on top of all that...she plays video games! What do you guys think of this? :D

The best of luck, my brother. All I can do is reiterate: don't get your hopes up. And try not to live in the future - don't tell her or yourself that she's the one, at least not yet. I was best friends with the girl of my dreams for years. We dated for 3 weeks, she "couldn't handle the relationship", and I've barely seen/spoken to her since then (not that I didn't try).

[karmapolice]

spoo that post made me laugh out loud for the first time in days...thank you

[nikkai]

Hope it goes well with you man. Just concentrate on the priorities in your life and don't make her guess what those are. Be transparent and respect her.

[Storamin]

You're getting a problem here I refer to as "sensitivity". What you need to do RIGHT NOW is to run out to your Dodge Truck with a HEMI engine and leave some rubber. Then right after that you need to grill stuff, then you need to chop wood with an axe and scream at the top of your lungs "POWER!!". Immediately after that, you must beat other men in competetive sports (if you can't, beat small children). After that, re-evaluate the situation. You'll thank me later.

[jlarlee]

Ok a few days ago I asked out this girl. She said yes, now this wouldn't be very uncommon but listen to this. This girls(alex) has been my best friend since pre-school. We also have never gotten into an arguement or been mad at each other. No lie. Now I'm with her and I found out she has liked me for years. And on top of all that...she plays video games! What do you guys think of this? :D

no fighting equals no wild crazy make up sex run away while you can

[magilacudy]

(topic)... untill she cheats on you with her ex and this relation has already ruined the friendship between you two.

Amen. Thought my ex was the 'one' also, but it wasn't to be. We're not even talking anymore. I hope that doesn't happen to you Bruce, but you never know what may happen. Just take it slow and enjoy what you have. If she is the 'girl of your life' it'll all work out eventually. Good luck.

[drfrielgood]

Don't take this badly, but you WILL argue, eventually. If you don't then one of you is just holding back. But you've gotta talk about things, cause the minute that line of communication is fractured, that's the beginning of the end.

[Mr. Anderson]

Haha, this is good. Are you in high school? I'm assuming not, because your being a fool. Love? HA. Teenagers do not the ability to love. I really, really want to debunk this kids dream of endless love in middle school, but I can't bring myself to it. Sorry if I'm being a negative ass, but just don't get to attached. It's cool and all that your going out, but love?

P.S., I'm assuming you "love" her, since shes the girl of your life.

[KingDox]

Girl of your life ? How old are you ? Trust me most relationships end, and the whole idea of soulmate is an idea hallmark created for girls. And you will eventually fight, your going to piss her off and she will get mad at you. But if/when you seal the deal, so not be a moron, protect yourself so that you don't end up having kids while you still live with your mom.

[Mr. Anderson]

Girl of your life ? How old are you ? Trust me most relationships end, and the whole idea of soulmate is an idea hallmark created for girls. And you will eventually fight, your going to piss her off and she will get mad at you. But if/when you seal the deal, so not be a moron, protect yourself so that you don't end up having kids while you still live with your mom.

You hit the nail on the head.

[c]

C'mon ev'rybody! Let's insult the guy who isn't bitter and jaded towards love!! :roll:

Everyone's experiences are different. There's absolutely no reason that they won't be together for a long time, or forever. Put yourself in his shoes, you'd be happy too. Why do you have to bring a brother down? Some of you are just trying to watch out for him, and that is great; but to everyone who's just being down on him because of their own negative experiences - just let the guy be happy! You'd probably be happy too if it were you.

Good luck, man. Like other people have said, don't get upset when your first argument comes along, because it is mostly unavoidable. Get to know her as best you can, and very importantly, don't be overly protective or jealous.

Good luck and congratulations.

[PapiChullo]

Congrats.

The question I have is, how old are you? Are you in college yet? If not, then I wouldn't put all of my eggs in that basket. College is a totally different world.

Also, I agree with a couple others about, if you have never had an argument, then you probably haven't spent as much time together as you may think. Also, how can she be the love of your life already, since yall have only been "dating" for a short while. Friends and mates are totally different people.

Good luck though, she may just be the one.

[Ledhed]

I wish the two of you the best of luck.

BUT, if the 'we haven't fought yet' thing is true, let us know when the first one happens. I'm sure it'll be entertaining.

[rimsforsale]

to the post above me (who i do not want to quote or type his name here because i do not want that nasty phrase in one of my posts -_-;) I TOTALLY CONQURE! college changes people, change of priority will be a big issue, and fighting is actually healthy. good luck either way. but keep your eyes on the road. not on the steering wheel. get it? got it? good.

[carlagyrl]

I think that it is great that you two got together. Me and my fiance were friends before we dated and we are very happy. Just remember you are still kinda on the young side so just take your time and see what happens :)

[bruce_pwns_j00]

Hey mr anderson im in high school dipshit. You don't have to be pissed at me because your a geek to the point where you can't get a girl. And dont deny it bitch i saw your pic you $$$$$$.

[snotknocker]

Hey mr anderson im in high school dipshit. You don't have to be pissed at me because your a geek to the point where you can't get a girl. And dont deny it bitch i saw your pic you E.T..

I don't want to be an instigator..... well maybe just a little.
Mr. A rebuttle please.

[bruce_pwns_j00]

I'm with you snotknocker tell the pussy to hurry up.

[Mr_hockey66]

You know you would be spaired on how many high school loves actually don't make it. Things change and people grow up and apart. It seems like the coolest thing in high school but when you look back you say man what was I thinking. Its do to the limited selection of the school setting I guess. But as you grow up and out of the little school setting your eyes get opened. Then you get fat and have to work and the choices go back down. You then find a wife (or husband depending on what state you are in) and you get even more fat and lazy and then you die.

[bruce_pwns_j00]

When i say girl of my life i dont mean i will be together forever i mean the best one.

[JSweeney]

You know bruce, I felt people were being harsh on you at the begining of this thread. After you're last few outbursts, I now think differently.

[bruce_pwns_j00]

JSweeny I'm not normally like this I just am not one to let people say stuff and get away with it. If someone starts an arguement expect me to argue back. But I try not to start things.

[jlarlee]

Ok guys you are talking like being in High School makes you old and mature it don't I graduated in 96 and have been happily married for 5 years. Bruce had a positive post and you guys got all cynical on him it wasn't needed. We all have had bad cases with woman it doesn't mean they are all bad. And Bruce Mr. Anderson could be the coolest guy in the world your apperance in no way makes you the person you are. So saying hes a geek because you percieved that he looked like a geek is pretty damn ignorant

[bruce_pwns_j00]

Thats not the only reason. We all ave a lil geek in us if were on this site. Also the way he feels hes cooler just because he thinks hes older than me. Also the fact that he messes with me on here. I bet if i lived next door to him he wouldnt be so quick to do it. People love to be asses online because they can get away with it.

[snotknocker]

JSweeny I'm not normally like this I just am not one to let people say stuff and get away with it. If someone starts an arguement expect me to argue back. But I try not to start things.

IMO you were a little harsh on Mr. A, I like Mr.A . However, his statement
was a bit bold and seemed to stray from the typical demeanor he purveys in most of his posts. It seemed like quite a bit coming from someone that in my perception probably has not had a great many relationships.

Regardless we should all try to be somewhat civil. I think as of late lots of CAG's have maintained their composures and not allowed some volatile posts turn certain threads into an all out flame war. We should just try and keep up the good work.

[XboxMaster]

JSweeny I'm not normally like this I just am not one to let people say stuff and get away with it. If someone starts an arguement expect me to argue back. But I try not to start things.

IMO you were a little harsh on Mr. A, I like Mr.A . However, his statement
was a bit bold and seemed to stray from the typical demeanor he purveys in most of his posts. It seemed like quite a bit coming from someone that in my perception probably has not had a great many relationships.

Regardless we should all try to be somewhat civil. I think as of late lots of CAG's have maintained their composures and not allowed some volatile posts turn certain threads into an all out flame war. We should just try and keep up the good work.

Well, not really. I mean, Hockey was being a total ass on his first few posts and a few others were too, so was Mr. A. If I were Bruce, I probably would've said worst.

Anyway, of course, I'm not gonna wish bad luck on this relationship, but I don't think a thread was necessary when relations in high school and middle school rarely last very long. Hell, in middle school, we can't make up our damn minds. You should see how easily ppl break-up with each other, it's funny. But it pisses me off when I hear one middle schooler tell another that they love the other one, yeah, right.

[bmulligan]

Dude, you're in high school, you have no idea of what love really is. Not to mention what life is like on your own apart from your parents basement. You have that weird feeling in the pit of your stomach and when you're near her you feel like you're going down the first hill of a roller coaster. That's not love dude, that's human physiology: hormones and pheremones. You have a lot more life to experience before you could hope to understand the truth about love.

Just make sure you get to shag her so you don't regret NOT doing it later.

[TheRaven]

You know bruce, I felt people were being harsh on you at the begining of this thread. After you're last few outbursts, I now think differently.

I completely agree.

[bobo2k4]

Why is everyone here so negative?
The guy is clearly happy so leave him alone.


Hey guy, just ignore these ppl you dont even know and dont let it get to you.

[bmulligan]

Hey, if you're weird enough to make a thread about your love life and solicit opinions, then you're going to get what you asked for: A tongue lashing. Unfortunately, he's getting a licking from everyone except the girl he wants.

[JSweeney]

Well, not really. I mean, Hockey was being a total ass on his first few posts and a few others were too, so was Mr. A. If I were Bruce, I probably would've said worst.

Yeah, but you aren't exactly a pinacle of maturity or civility, are you XboxMaster?

[bmulligan]

Pinnacle has 2 'N"'s.

Unless you meant Pinochle, but then your sentence wouldn't have made sense.

[The Successful Dropout]

maybe he meant pinocchio, 'cause that would've meant sense

[bruce_pwns_j00]

Hey snotknocker. I see where your coming from. I lalways thought Mr. anderson was pretty cool. i JUST DONT LIKE IT WHEN PEOPLE RUN THEIR MOUTHS AT ME.

[Mr. Anderson]

Hey mr anderson im in high school dipshit. You don't have to be pissed at me because your a geek to the point where you can't get a girl. And dont deny it bitch i saw your pic you E.T..

HAHAHAHAHA. This is going to be entertaining. I had no intention of starting a war, just giving you my opinion (sorry for the harshness). Yes, I'm quite the E.T. I'll post a pic of my girlfriend up here sometime. I can't even think of something witty to hit you back with because that was such a crude and idiotic comment. I'm just telling you, love isn't what you believe it is. Don't hit me with bad grammar and cuss words because you don't know what your talking about. Sorry if this post seems a little shuffled, but I'm just doubfounded by your stupidity. Respond if you want, but I'll probably just leave it be. I'm done with this thread.

EDIT: I've just read through the rest of the posts, and they are exactley correct. If you post a thread about your social life, people are going to comment on it, maybe even give a lashing for apparent reason. I didn't mean to piss you off very much, you just seem so naive. In response to SnotKnocker, I know I'm not quite a looker, but I have had a good number of realtionships, and have learned from them. I'm not as naive as I once was, I know what I'm talking about (for the most part, I'm not saying the Omega and absolute). Sorry if offended you, just sharing my thoughts.

[bignick]

Outkast said it best. The safest way to have sex is right between the tities.

[greendj27]

Outkast said it best. The safest way to have sex is right between the tities.

No, the safest sex is clearly masturbation.

[bignick]

Outkast said it best. The safest way to have sex is right between the tities.

No, the safest sex is clearly masturbation.

I guess so, but outkast still said it best.

[snotknocker]

Hey mr anderson im in high school dipshit. You don't have to be pissed at me because your a geek to the point where you can't get a girl. And dont deny it bitch i saw your pic you E.T..

HAHAHAHAHA. This is going to be entertaining. I had no intention of starting a war, just giving you my opinion (sorry for the harshness). Yes, I'm quite the E.T. I'll post a pic of my girlfriend up here sometime. I can't even think of something witty to hit you back with because that was such a crude and idiotic comment. I'm just telling you, love isn't what you believe it is. Don't hit me with bad grammar and cuss words because you don't know what your talking about. Sorry if this post seems a little shuffled, but I'm just doubfounded by your stupidity. Respond if you want, but I'll probably just leave it be. I'm done with this thread.

EDIT: I've just read through the rest of the posts, and they are exactley correct. If you post a thread about your social life, people are going to comment on it, maybe even give a lashing for apparent reason. I didn't mean to piss you off very much, you just seem so naive. In response to SnotKnocker, I know I'm not quite a looker, but I have had a good number of realtionships, and have learned from them. I'm not as naive as I once was, I know what I'm talking about (for the most part, I'm not saying the Omega and absolute). Sorry if offended you, just sharing my thoughts.

No offense taken. I guess I was just a little thrown off kilter by the pic you posted of yourself. Sometimes I just spew shit before I get a chance to process everything or pass judgement with minimal input. One of my biggest shortcomings. It's definately not beyond me to be a total dick at times. One good thing though, once I get a chance to reflect on things I can usually step up to the plate and admit when I'm wrong and that is one of the things that people that know me fairly well respect about me. So back at ya Mr. A - Sorry if offended you

[Nirvanaguy777]

Girls come and go ive come to learn that,stay true to your beliefs and way of life.