I got the whole, it's not you, it's me speech back in early December. I swore I'd just cut off all communication if it happened again but instead I said we could be friends. Oh how excited he was because I accepted that. But then we talked and he said that we he worked out his issues he would be open to starting over so I swore I'd wait for him.
It's been two months and he's not the same person. He's completely cold and uncaring. I couldn't take it anymore, so I did my process of closure. I told him if his emotions turn back on and I'm single then we could try again, but I'm not going to sit around caring for someone who doesn't have the capacity to care back. We still hang out on occasion, but it's rare.
I was personally very distraught over the whole situation, because there was no logical reason for his emotions to just turn off like they did. He says his feelings happen in cycles.
And, no, there's no other girl.
So I've been doing the whole online dating thing, but only recently got closure so I haven't committed to meeting anyone. I've been more focused on other things. My first single V-Day wasn't hard at all.
So here's to Lulu's single life. We'll see how long it lasts this time.