It was around 4 or 5 years ago that i noticed it... well, started noticing it. Very hot and good looking girls, dating complete wrecks of men. The blonde bombshell with the 280lb fatty, the stunning brunette girl with the pale ass geeky boy. The list went on and on.

But up until then, it truly never bothered me, it was more so a strange curiosity, of why, and how does this happen. I knew girls valued personality more then looks, but this was ridicoulous.

It was around last year that it did start to bother me. There was a series of months, where i asked out 3 girls, whom were very flirty with me, but was rejected with "i already have a boyfriend, sorry" And it wasnt just some excuse! days later, i actually saw them with their boyfriends... and as so many other couples, there boyfriends were a mess, a wreck. I couldn't understand why these hot girls chose to go out with these guys, and more so, how i was losing out to these guys!

I keep myself in shape, im multi-talented, and im a funny and personable guy, yet im losing a girl to cone tit emo fatty. Thats just not right.

I started talking to friends on IM about it, and i was suprised to find that across the world, the same thing was happening there as much as it was here. I even had one friend in canada who also just recently had his girlfriend cheat on him with an absolute mess of a man. I seen the picture, and this guy was one ugly bastard. lol

More and more, i found out how much this was happening, and all i could wonder is why????

Me and friends desparately searched for answers, but we couldnt find any. Just recently though, another friend related to our experience with this, and he said he did no the reason. He swears its the truth, and whether it is or not, it definately is an interesting take on it. He says...

Girls that are very good looking CANT date men that are also good looking for several reasons. He said really hot girls are often secretly insecure, and become jealous of a good looking boyfriend, as well as view them as competition to look good. He said this is also why hot girls always hang out with uglier girls (another trend i always noticed!), to make themselves look better. The girl is also afraid the boyfriend will cheat on her since hes good looking.

that was his take, it makes some sense, but i dont think it fully answers the question. The reason i posted this blog, is to see what your answer to the question is. Im sure many of you have experienced it as well, so...

Why do hot girls date ugly guys!?