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I knew this would happen and it came true more then i ever imagined it would...
By the_grimace 06-21-2009 12:34 PM
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I had always said,
"As soon as i got a girlfriend, attractive girls are probably going to start flocking to me like they never have before." It came true... -------------------------------- To catch you guys up on where i have been, approximately 8 days ago, i met a girl at work. She is a russian exchange student. We hit it off instantly, and after hanging out for most of the last week and having a ton of fun, we are officially dating now, even if it will only be for a couple months. (she goes back to russia at the end of august) Based on my last blog too, i apparently must be a very ugly guy because she is gorgeous. But lo and behold, back to my statement, only 5 days after i met her, in the last 3 days, i have had more beautiful women hit on me then i have had hit on me in a year.... Women and girls hitting on me anywhere and everywhere i go. First it was another girl at work. My boss told me to go help her move something (she was a lifegaurd) and as soon as i get over there, she starts flirting with me hardcore. Just asking me all these questions about myself, and doing this very sexy lip biting smile... i was like. "GOOD GOD, DONT TEMPT ME LIKE THIS!!!" Then that night, i go to walmart,and the cashier starts hitting on me, she compliments me on my tattoo, and we got into a long discussion about tats then... Then the next day i took my girlfriend to the chinese restaurant b/c she never had chinese food before. Well, i go up to pay, and this very cute asian girl working the phone/register starts hitting on me!!! She almost got me to turn.... more and more im thinking, my god, this is horrible. IM TRYING TO BE A GOOD BOY HERE! I take my girlfriend back to her room, and apparently she made friends with two turkish girls who moved in next to her to work at the resort too. They instantly take a liking to me. ------------ Today was the killer though. I finally managed to get myself back to the gym this morning, since my groundskeeping job is kicking my ass and im just way too tired to do ANYTHING after i get done with work. But it was an off day, so i went. Im working out, lifting some weights, and theres this very hot girl walking around, working out too. I never seen her before, but man oh man, was she a beauty. Not only that, i keep seeing her checking me out. We coincedently go get water at the same time, she gives me a smile and says hi, i smile back, respond likewise. A little later, im sitting on a bench when this hot girl just comes over to me and starts talking to me and complimenting me like we knew each other our entire lives. "GOD DAMN. WHY DO I HAVE TO HAVE A GIRLFRIEND RIGHT NOW" screamed the little voice in my head.... But it even got worse... we talked for like 5 minutes when she ASKS ME to go out with her and offers me her number. "THIS CANT BE HAPPENING............................." I thought... But it was, i just sat shocked for a while, so tempted, but eventually i told her, "I would love to hang out, but i have a girlfriend." BUT...... I took her number anyway Told her maybe we could hang out sometime as friends. "ill like that." she said, as she gave me a sexy smile and began to walk back to her workout. -------------------- As she walked away, i only thought HOW FUCKING MUCH THIS ALL SUCKS! WHY DID I HAVE TO BE RIGHT!???? |
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- 06-21-2009, 08:09 PM
Updated 06-21-2009 at 09:15 PM by shoe478 |
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I've noticed this as well. Does anyone think it comes from dressing better or paying more attention to your appearance when you are in a relationship?
Now to the psychological part of it. Does anyone think that women find attached men challenging? A woman may think, "If he wants to be around me while he has a gf, I must be superior to his gf." Anyway, I like this blog better than your last. You sounded like a real A-hole in that one. Edit: It just occurred to me that if you are with the right woman, this whole blog is pointless. Are any of these women an upgrade to what you have now? If so, you should drop the Russian and move on to them, there is no reason to stay with her unless you like the whole long distance thing. Is she really your gf though? I know a lot of women like to screw around while they are on vacation. Do you know she doesn't have a comrade in Mother Russia? |
- 06-21-2009, 08:28 PM
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your situation is scarily similar to mine. I've been dating a Taiwanese student from work as well and we dated the whole time she was there, and I've had way more comments on my looks and conversations with girls than I ever had before then.
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- 06-21-2009, 10:07 PM
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Yeah it happens and I can't explain it. I'm fairly steady personality wise so I don't think it has to do with confidence.
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- 06-21-2009, 10:35 PM
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@shoe478
well, its pretty clear to both of us were only hooked up till the end of august. like i said, she leaves august 24th or something, and when that day comes, its basically just done... over. The blog isnt pointless, b/c just the fact that the other girls can speak english properly is an upgrade. Talking with this girl now is like talking to a 6th grader. They know some things and dont know other stuff. Though, a 6th grader that can read body language better and what not. so yea, im just riding it out to the end of summer with her, then it will be over. |
- 06-21-2009, 10:51 PM
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I guess it isn't pointless but in a perfect world, these other women wouldn't bother you as much. If you meet someone you really care about then you might be attracted to these other women but you know that you have something good at home or where ever.
It just seems like you are upset about having a girlfriend, like she is holding you back from something else. You sounded disappointed that you had a gf and couldn't take up the gym girl's offer. Do you know what I'm saying here? |
- 06-21-2009, 11:08 PM
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@shoe
yes, i understand, but i think im just kinda staying with her b/c she is only here for the summer, and its only a temporary thing. Is she the perfect girl? by far no. To be quite honest, i can tell you right now she's not the type of girl i would want to pursue a long term relationship with. Am i just looking for sex? Yes and no. Sex would be nice, but its not the reason im with her. Im with her b/c i like her as a friend, and enjoy hanging out with, and once again, just because its only for summer, and i would feel like somewhat of a jerk if we stopped hanging out when she is only going to be here 2 months. |
- 06-22-2009, 10:34 AM
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Just wait till you get married! All the women will flock...
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- 06-22-2009, 11:20 AM
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just bang them all
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- 06-22-2009, 11:44 AM
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^^ this
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- 06-22-2009, 12:02 PM
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I think its instinctive(competition) cause I too have noticed this phenomenon and I never changed anything about myself.
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- 06-22-2009, 01:44 PM
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Its Happened to me before also. I wanted this one girl soo bad and then i finally gave up on her and started dating another girl. Then the girl i had wanted soo bad starts coming after me. Then other girls too. I think its that once we have a girl we begin to appear much more confident. That is what drives the ladies crazy. Dude start collecting numbers she'll be gone before you know it.
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- 06-23-2009, 05:51 PM
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dude this blog post was hilarious. hilariously awesome.
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