In your situation I would go PS3.
Bluray player and the fact that you dislike FPS games. 360 is the best console at the moment strictly for online play (Live) and FPS games (controller is built to play FPS games) but the PS3 has a lot more single player offerings and much better content (imo). PS3 is the best value at the moment for someone wanting to jump into gaming.
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UMVC3, Forza Horizon, Red Dead Redemption | One Piece, Naruto Shippuden, Bleach
SMT: Strange Journey | NSMB2, MK7, Tales of the Abyss | Monster Hunter 3 Ultimate, NPC: Pikmin
MH:FU, Ratchet: SM | Kingdom Hearts | Injustice, Okami HD, Dark Souls
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