Well I still watch shows I have watched with exes, but that all depends on you if it affects you. No need to deprive yourself of something you had enjoyed just because someone broke your heart.

Get the ball rolling, and live your life! You just need to get in the mindset of "Screw her! I need to do me!"

I am currently in a relationship right now, but yeah curiosity brings me back to see what the exes are up to. But you know what? The new relationship is much better than the ones I had, and me looking up to see how it's going in their lives just makes me feel better. (Admittedly that I have a more accomplishing life than they do, haha)

I know evil, but once you get into the mindset, it becomes a lot easier to move on.

7 months is nothing, and I mean this in the nicest way, it's a little pathetic it has you down.

Enjoy the single life. Take up a new hobby, go meet new people, do things. You'll forget about her quickly.

Originally Posted by Arakias

lol or read this. It'll help

On a serious note. Yeah it sucks, but you'll get over her eventually. Easiest way is to find someone else. You kinda have to be pissed, forget her. The more you ignore her the more power you'll have. By all means do not contact her or wallow and listen to sad music.

Just try and suck it up, toughen up, move on and try to get back on the happy track. You may surprise yourself how fast you can move on, I was in a ten year relationship I was surprised how quickly I got over it (about 5 months...the first 2 sucked ass), I just realized I had to stop being such a puss (sounds harsh, but its true), threw crap that reminded me of her out, and tried something new (tried Krav Maga, Catch Wrestling and Thai Kickboxing which really helped gave me back my confidence). Forget her, have a beer, hang with friends, find a hobby, treat yourself right and eventually you'll meet someone else. There are over 3 1/2 billion women on the planet, she's just one. Your chances are good on meeting someone else.

Originally Posted by MisterModest Improve your pussy eating skills?

Like this?

Booze and GlassJAw

Always the right choice

Originally Posted by n8rockerasu From a mod? Now that's just uncalled for. You can't even call him a cool guy EDIT - Hey, my post got changed! That's not what I said! I said you can't call him a hilarious dude EDIT 2 - Casey, stop! Seriously man!

just shows how far this site has fallen...

i say go out with your friends to bars and nightclubs dont be afraid to put yourself out their thinking your going to get hurt again cause you probally will... just do your best to try to move on

It was only 7 months amigo, you'll get over her quickly. I haven't had a breakup since high school so my only advice is don't hang out by her locker anymore and you should probably eat at a different lunch table. Oh, and if one of her friends calls to ask about how you are doing and what you think about her (either herself or your ex) it is probably a three way call so be careful with what you say.

7 months? Damn. That is such a small part of your life - unless you are a baby. You're not a baby are you? No, that's silly, babies can't type... or can they? Maybe you are a really gifted typing baby? OMG. I'm locking my door.

Dude, I dated some girl for 3 years way back and she dumped me out of the blue and I can barely remember anything about her. I'm pretty sure she was a bitch though. This was before the internet and social networking and the realization that there a TONS of girls out there. TONS. Stop crying about it, think of all the ass out there waiting for you and go get some.

Well guys so far so good, I got my job to change up my schedule, I will only be working with her one day a week instead of seven.

I am still doing the workouts, and they seem to help.

I also hate to admit this....but I finally got my GED and I believe I am going to put myself through a community college so hopefully more jobs will become available.

I am noticing all the people saying "It was only 7 months, grow a pair" and I am actually somewhat understanding that, I am only 20, yeah she might have been my first love and I know I wont ever truly forget her....But I need to just grow the up. Get over it.

I dont know if its because we are seperated now or what, but my thoughts are bring back so many flaws in the relationship....She hated me on my xbox for even more than 30 minutes, what the hell is 30 minutes doing something I really enjoy going to really bother her ? that, she hated when I would drink occasionally (understandable because I am only 20 I guess ?) but I was NEVER an angry drunk, it actually put me in a great laughing mood that I guess she couldnt realize, and I also hit the bongs occasionally and she definitely hated that.

I CAN DO WHATEVER THE HELL I WANT NOW !!!

Call some friends, grab some beer, hit the bong. Sounds like your only problem now is finding a good multi-player game.

Beat up some new poon. It will rebuild your confidence. If you have trouble finding new poon, your community college plan will give it to you hand over fist.

You put on some Brooke and Dunn- Neon Moon and you make you some whiskey and diet coke drink

Originally Posted by iKilledChewbacca Well guys so far so good, I got my job to change up my schedule, I will only be working with her one day a week instead of seven. I am still doing the workouts, and they seem to help. I also hate to admit this....but I finally got my GED and I believe I am going to put myself through a community college so hopefully more jobs will become available. I am noticing all the people saying "It was only 7 months, grow a pair" and I am actually somewhat understanding that, I am only 20, yeah she might have been my first love and I know I wont ever truly forget her....But I need to just grow the up. Get over it. I dont know if its because we are seperated now or what, but my thoughts are bring back so many flaws in the relationship....She hated me on my xbox for even more than 30 minutes, what the hell is 30 minutes doing something I really enjoy going to really bother her ? that, she hated when I would drink occasionally (understandable because I am only 20 I guess ?) but I was NEVER an angry drunk, it actually put me in a great laughing mood that I guess she couldnt realize, and I also hit the bongs occasionally and she definitely hated that. I CAN DO WHATEVER THE HELL I WANT NOW !!!

Glad to hear you're doing better man. I'm 22 and your story reminds of my ex when I was 18....she was my first love too but we really weren't compatible at all. I've now been in a relationship for almost 2 years and we have such a better connection....you'll find one too. If you're planning on community college then definitely talk to some of the girls in classes, they may actually surprise you

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I say go out looking for a rebound.
Only new love can overwrite a broken heart.

You're only 20. You got a lot of living and learning to do before thinking about settling down long term anyway.

Enjoy friends, date around, experience things.

Originally Posted by Angie7F I say go out looking for a rebound. Only new love can overwrite a broken heart.

On this note, don't date every vagina you see. It is dumb to do that and isn't worth the time. Sometimes sex is just sex.

Originally Posted by CaseyRyback Did you ever stick it in her pooper?

Came in just to see how long it took for this question.

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Also, did she break up with you because you're in trading time out?

Originally Posted by iKilledChewbacca I am noticing all the people saying "It was only 7 months, grow a pair" and I am actually somewhat understanding that, I am only 20, yeah she might have been my first love and I know I wont ever truly forget her....But I need to just grow the up. Get over it. I dont know if its because we are seperated now or what, but my thoughts are bring back so many flaws in the relationship....She hated me on my xbox for even more than 30 minutes, what the hell is 30 minutes doing something I really enjoy going to really bother her ? that, she hated when I would drink occasionally (understandable because I am only 20 I guess ?) but I was NEVER an angry drunk, it actually put me in a great laughing mood that I guess she couldnt realize, and I also hit the bongs occasionally and she definitely hated that. I CAN DO WHATEVER THE HELL I WANT NOW !!!

Eh, don't sweat it. Everyone feels like a bitch coming out of a relationship, because it's rough and time is the only medicine. It's also much harder to cope when you're younger because of inexperience. I would also never date a girl that doesn't like to drink, regardless of age. As long as you don't drink to get drunk, drinking is quite possibly one of the best ways to unwind with the opposite sex (well, other than sex ).

Originally Posted by usickenme eh, just never liked him (except maybe on newsradio in small doses)

Lol... that's the worst reason possible