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forgive me if this isnt the right place for this, i've never created a thread before even though ive been a member of this site for years. just looking to get some opinions on this issue. read away:
I'm not stingy with my money. If my friends need a bit of a loan, or want to pick up something and don't have the money, I'll gladly lend them the money
A few years ago, my best friend owed me a few hundred dollars. After many promises of "Oh I'll pay you on so and so day" i wrote a gigantic blog on my myspace about
it. Some of my other friends who are also friends with him (including his cousin) said what he was doing is ridiculous and completely sided with me.
It resulted in me getting some post dated checks from him, which I promptly cashed anyway so I could get my money back and cause him some overdraft fees for all the
hassle he put me through.
It took awhile, but we're pretty cool again. I dont get to see him as often as I like because he has a demanding job with weird hours as an EMT, but I'd go as far as
to say that I trust him. I'd never lend him money again, but I do trust him.
Fast forward to now. These other friends, the ones who sided with me, they've owed me money for a good while now. It's nothing that will make or break me (about $400)
but it's the principle of the thing.
They've told me "Oh we'll give you so much money each month until it's paid off" and a month or two goes by and I dont see anything. I let it slide because I dont want
to be that guy who's constantly asking for his money, but it's getting ridiculous. It has been nearly a year
Back in October I sent them all emails saying what they owed and what it was for and if I was wrong about it to just send me something back and let me know.
I have heard NOTHING back about it after all these months. I even heard from my friend (the EMT) that his cousin was basically pissed that I would send something like
that.
I got the normal "sorry to hear about the death of your grandma" stuff earlier this month, but I've been going mostly ignored.
If I call them out on it, I'm pretty sure I'll look like the bad guy to them, even though they're doing the exact same thing that my other friend did a few years ago
when they sided with me.
Basically, I've already lost alot in the past 7 months. Girlfriend, Job, people that turned out not to be my friends (not the ones I've already talked about,) trust in
these friends i have mentioned, and my grandmother.
And really, if you cant trust someone can you even call them your friend?
Basically, what this is about....have any of you been in a situation like this? How did you handle it? If not, how do you think you would?
I'm not stingy with my money. If my friends need a bit of a loan, or want to pick up something and don't have the money, I'll gladly lend them the money
A few years ago, my best friend owed me a few hundred dollars. After many promises of "Oh I'll pay you on so and so day" i wrote a gigantic blog on my myspace about
it. Some of my other friends who are also friends with him (including his cousin) said what he was doing is ridiculous and completely sided with me.
It resulted in me getting some post dated checks from him, which I promptly cashed anyway so I could get my money back and cause him some overdraft fees for all the
hassle he put me through.
It took awhile, but we're pretty cool again. I dont get to see him as often as I like because he has a demanding job with weird hours as an EMT, but I'd go as far as
to say that I trust him. I'd never lend him money again, but I do trust him.
Fast forward to now. These other friends, the ones who sided with me, they've owed me money for a good while now. It's nothing that will make or break me (about $400)
but it's the principle of the thing.
They've told me "Oh we'll give you so much money each month until it's paid off" and a month or two goes by and I dont see anything. I let it slide because I dont want
to be that guy who's constantly asking for his money, but it's getting ridiculous. It has been nearly a year
Back in October I sent them all emails saying what they owed and what it was for and if I was wrong about it to just send me something back and let me know.
I have heard NOTHING back about it after all these months. I even heard from my friend (the EMT) that his cousin was basically pissed that I would send something like
that.
I got the normal "sorry to hear about the death of your grandma" stuff earlier this month, but I've been going mostly ignored.
If I call them out on it, I'm pretty sure I'll look like the bad guy to them, even though they're doing the exact same thing that my other friend did a few years ago
when they sided with me.
Basically, I've already lost alot in the past 7 months. Girlfriend, Job, people that turned out not to be my friends (not the ones I've already talked about,) trust in
these friends i have mentioned, and my grandmother.
And really, if you cant trust someone can you even call them your friend?
Basically, what this is about....have any of you been in a situation like this? How did you handle it? If not, how do you think you would?