Catholic Charities halts all adoptions due to bigotry

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How interesting that the Archdiocese of Boston has chosen March to announce that Catholic Charities would halt all adoptions rather than have the agency allow same-sex couples to adopt. Interesting in that March is Social Work Month - and we as a profession are compelled to speak out on the issue of same-sex adoptions too.


In the last 30 years, society has witnessed both a profound expansion in the definition of family as well as changes in adoption policy and practice. Prior to the 1970s, legal adoption generally involved the placement of healthy, newborn, Caucasian babies with middle to upper-middle class, infertile Caucasian couples.

The enactment of the Adoption and Safe Families Act of 1997 facilitated the move of tens of thousands of children from foster care status into permanent adoptive families. In order to meet these new demands, child welfare officials recognized the importance of recruiting more diverse adoption petitioners including single people, those who are differently abled, ethnically diverse, and gay- and lesbian-headed households.

A 2005 report from the Department of Social Services found there are 2,630 children receiving out-of-home care - with a foster family or group home - with the goal of adoption. The good news is that 41 percent of these children are legally free for adoption and that the majority have been matched to a permanent family. The challenge remains for social workers and other child welfare professionals to recruit qualified adoptive applicants for the remaining hundreds of children who have no individual or family identified: 56 percent of these boys and girls have been in continuous care for two years or more.

It is, therefore, puzzling that the bishops should choose to limit the range of adoptive homes available to the state’s children based solely on one criterion: the sexual orientation of the petitioners.

Anyone who wishes to examine the 20 years of peer-reviewed studies on the emotional, cognitive and behavioral outcomes of children of gay and lesbian parents will find not one shred of evidence that children are harmed by their parents’ sexual orientation.

The empirical and clinical evidence suggesting same-sex parents are equivalent to heterosexual parents in their ability to care for children and provide loving homes is so compelling that there is a growing consensus among legal and child welfare experts that there is no rational basis to deny adoption to gay and lesbian couples solely on the basis of their sexual orientation.

Ultimately, there is no inherent “right” to adopt. Yet, at the same time all prospective adoptive parents should be given equal consideration and the sexual orientation of the parents should not be a determining factor in assessing suitability for adoptive parenting.

Even with so much evidence contradicting their position on this issue, the Catholic bishops are unmoved. They oppose gay and lesbian families formed through adoption, and they are entitled to their opinion. However, when their belief systems threaten to deprive children of the opportunity to be adopted into loving homes, it is time for us to say “Enough!”

Our tax dollars pay for the services provided to the state’s children through the public child welfare system, which then subcontracts with private organizations like Catholic Charities. Under the umbrella of private adoption agencies your tax dollars are still at work, so when the governor seeks to exempt Catholic Charities from Massachusetts’ anti-discrimination law, he is asking to allow our tax revenues to promote discrimination.cw-1

Not addressed by either the bishops or the governor is the untenable position in which Catholic Charities’ social workers would be placed. Bound by our Social Work Code of Ethics forbidding discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation, social workers would be forced to choose between their obligations to their professional code and obedience to the church.

As social workers, celebrating our profession this month, we hope that reason will override ideology.

http://news.bostonherald.com/opinion/view.bg?articleid=129957&format=&page=3

And just a little background info:


BOSTON, February 20, 2006 (LifeSiteNews.com) – Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney and a top government leader have told a group of bishops that their request that Catholic institutions be exempt from placing foster children with same-sex parents will be denied...

In compliance with the commonwealth’s so-called antidiscrimination laws, the Catholic adoption agency, Catholic Charities of Boston, has already placed children with same-sex couples over the past 20 years.

The bishops’ request was in stark contrast to the wishes of the agency itself, which voted unanimously in December to uphold the practice of placing children in homosexual homes.

Board members expressed “shock” to learn that a potential legal challenge of the antidiscrimination law from the bishop’s would be paid for from the budget of the agency. “I’m shocked,” said board member Donna DePrisco. “I find it hard to believe.” In what may appear to be an ulterior motive on the part of the bishop’s group, one anonymous board member said many on the board would resign if the bishop’s go ahead with their plan.....

Cardinal Alfonso López Trujillo, Vatican head of the Pontifical Council for the Family, told Fides news service in May that allowing same sex couples to adopt children, “would destroy the child’s future, it would be an act of moral violence against the child.”

http://www.lifesite.net/ldn/2006/feb/06022010.html

No abortion, no contraception, and now no adoption. Yay for family values!
 
[quote name='alonzomourning23']Yay for family values![/QUOTE]

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Got me there, these fine upstanding citizens would definitely make fantastic adoptive parents.

HAY GUYS HOPE YA LIKED THAT FULL FRONTAL MALE NUDE PIC I HAD UP HERE. AWW SHUCKS LED DELETED IT.
 
Oh fuck, I forgot that every gay man (and woman, even though none are pictured, but apparently that doesn't matter) marches down the street in leather.

Flawless argument against gay adoption.

(And who the fuck does that last guy think he's kidding, c'mon)
 
every gay guy i know is bald and loves to show his naked body... just like every hick from pittsburgh i know is a dumbshit - you make the call.
 
Well, y'know, the Catholic church has a point.

Because heterosexuals never fucked up any children at all.

Nor the Catholic church itself.
 
You do realize that if not catholics then almost certainly protestants, right? I don't see a difference there.

But, it seems that san francisco (and possibly beyond) may have a similar thing happen:

http://sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2006/03/11/BAG10HMGD11.DTL

The Catholic Charities of the Archdiocese of San Francisco could be forced to stop its adoption services because of an order from its former archbishop, Cardinal William Levada, who is now the second-in-command at the Vatican.
The archdiocese received an e-mail this week from Levada stating, "Catholic agencies should not place children for adoption in homosexual households." In the past five years, under Levada's watch, five children out of 136 were adopted by same-sex couples through the San Francisco agency.

Also, in another example of why MA is hated by conservatives:

Fifty-four percent of those surveyed said they would be more likely to vote for a candidate for governor who backed the law (allowing exemptions so religious groups won't have to adopt to same sex couples), while 21 percent said they would prefer a candidate who opposed it. Twenty-two percent said the issue would make little or no difference in their choice.
http://www.eyewitnessnewstv.com/Global/story.asp?S=4624133&nav=F2DO
 
Our tax dollars pay for the services provided to the state’s children through the public child welfare system, which then subcontracts with private organizations like Catholic Charities. Under the umbrella of private adoption agencies your tax dollars are still at work, so when the governor seeks to exempt Catholic Charities from Massachusetts’ anti-discrimination law, he is asking to allow our tax revenues to promote discrimination.

It's no good that the people's money is being spent on charities that are not acting in the best interests of the people.

Yet if we're going to keep farming out kids to religious adoption agencies, let's mix it up. I say if you're going to warp and brainwash the kids, at least make it more interesting and varied then the same flavor of rehashed xianism.
 
I don't see what the big surprise is. It's not like much religious charity work (particularly Christian) is done out of the goodness of anyone's heart. They're just looking for an in to convert people. So the church proves it wasn't really interested in helping anyone in the first place. News at 11.
 
[quote name='Dr Mario Kart']Does this mean less kids going to Catholic homes? Because I have no objection to that.[/QUOTE]

Bigotry really runs rampant.

I think that hating on the Catholic Church is becoming way too "cool" these days. Most of the church's policies promote good moral values that bring up good people.

I understand that they aren't always realistic. I also understand that being born and raised Catholic gives me an inherent bias. But I believe that growing up Catholic does no harm to a child and perhaps gives them a better chance to grow up as a better citizen.
 
[quote name='Mike23']I think that hating on the Catholic Church is becoming way too "cool" these days. Most of the church's policies promote good moral values that bring up good people.

I understand that they aren't always realistic. I also understand that being born and raised Catholic gives me an inherent bias. But I believe that growing up Catholic does no harm to a child and perhaps gives them a better chance to grow up as a better citizen.[/quote]

...if they are not female, escape being raped by a priest, and avoid being brainwashed into a Bill O'Reilly clone. But hey, donuts on Sunday morning so it isn't ALL bad...
 
[quote name='camoor']...if they are not female, escape being raped by a priest, and avoid being brainwashed into a Bill O'Reilly clone. But hey, donuts on Sunday morning so it isn't ALL bad...[/QUOTE]

Well, I am none of those...:lol:

I also don't think the woman who would be forced to keep their baby wouldn't be in the situation where she has sex. Or maybe, things are MUCH different here.
 
[quote name='alonzomourning23']I'm starting to think we need a catholic tolerance month.....[/QUOTE]

Well, y'know, this Friday we all get to celebrate great Catholic stereotypes.
 
[quote name='trq']I don't see what the big surprise is. It's not like much religious charity work (particularly Christian) is done out of the goodness of anyone's heart. They're just looking for an in to convert people. So the church proves it wasn't really interested in helping anyone in the first place. News at 11.[/QUOTE]

Wow, I'm speechless...almost. A specific charge against a specific group turned into a blanket attack on...charities. How pleasant. For an encore why don't you attack people who give food to the homeless, hold doors for people or smile? :roll:
 
[quote name='Mike23']Well, I am none of those...:lol:

I also don't think the woman who would be forced to keep their baby wouldn't be in the situation where she has sex. Or maybe, things are MUCH different here.[/quote]

Yeah, it's the woman's "fault". Let's strap her up with a scarlet A and then later on we can buy a round of shots with the guys as we laugh about it because our buddy "got some".

I went to a Catholic school, a buddy of mine's older bro committed suicide and they wouldn't perform a mass in the chapel because it was a sin against their god. What a bunch of damned swell people. I notice they weren't so high and mighty with all the Pater Pedos they had.
 
Well my school didn't perform masses when people died, suicide or not. They allowed people to leave to attend the funeral though.

But you act as if such acts are exclusive to catholics, that no other christians engage in such acts. You also can't take one belief or action and generalize it to everyone.
 
[quote name='elprincipe']Wow, I'm speechless...almost. A specific charge against a specific group turned into a blanket attack on...charities. How pleasant. For an encore why don't you attack people who give food to the homeless, hold doors for people or smile? :roll:[/QUOTE]

Darn "almost" -- I'll have to try harder next time... But I jest.

Seriously though, you'll note that it wasn't an attack on ALL charities. It was an attack on religious -- particularly Christian -- charities. I'm sorry, but I don't consider "doing good, but with an ulterior motive" to be "going good" at all. It's a step away from blackmail, as far as I'm concerned. Most of the missionaries I've known viewed their work as a mixture of "the white man's burden" ("Got to bring God to those poor heathens") and their duty to spread the Word. Genuinely giving people what they need, no strings attached, is sadly the exception rather than the rule. It's arrogant and disgusting, so yes, fuck them.

Oh, and fuck Mother Theresa, too. :lol:

http://search.barnesandnoble.com/booksearch/isbnInquiry.asp?isbn=185984054X&itm=1
 
[quote name='alonzomourning23']Well my school didn't perform masses when people died, suicide or not. They allowed people to leave to attend the funeral though.

But you act as if such acts are exclusive to catholics, that no other christians engage in such acts. You also can't take one belief or action and generalize it to everyone.[/quote]

If that was how it came off, then it was a miscommunication. I consider the majority of christians (of all denominations) to be hypocrites or charlatans.
 
[quote name='trq']Darn "almost" -- I'll have to try harder next time... But I jest.[/quote]

:lol: :)

[quote name='trq']Seriously though, you'll note that it wasn't an attack on ALL charities. It was an attack on religious -- particularly Christian -- charities. I'm sorry, but I don't consider "doing good, but with an ulterior motive" to be "going good" at all. It's a step away from blackmail, as far as I'm concerned. Most of the missionaries I've known viewed their work as a mixture of "the white man's burden" ("Got to bring God to those poor heathens") and their duty to spread the Word. Genuinely giving people what they need, no strings attached, is sadly the exception rather than the rule. It's arrogant and disgusting, so yes, fuck them.[/QUOTE]

The problem I have is the blanket assumption that all or a large portion of Christian charities do what they do with the motive being converting people. If you know anything about Christianity, you know that "love thy neighbor" is something Christians are supposed to do, regardless of whether their neighbors are Christian or not. Granted not every Christian follows these ideals and certainly there are some in it mostly to convert people (or to get money, a la televangelists), but most are genuinely interested in helping people in my experience. I just totally disagree with your conclusion. Do you have any evidence, or even anecdotal evidence, that most are the way you percieve them and not the way I do?
 
[quote name='elprincipe']The problem I have is the blanket assumption that all or a large portion of Christian charities do what they do with the motive being converting people. If you know anything about Christianity, you know that "love thy neighbor" is something Christians are supposed to do, regardless of whether their neighbors are Christian or not. Granted not every Christian follows these ideals and certainly there are some in it mostly to convert people (or to get money, a la televangelists), but most are genuinely interested in helping people in my experience. I just totally disagree with your conclusion. Do you have any evidence, or even anecdotal evidence, that most are the way you percieve them and not the way I do?[/QUOTE]

Sure. I think I have something of an informed opinion on this, since most of my immediate family is Catholic, and if they had their druthers, I would be, too. As a part of that, I went to Catholic school for quite a few years (well, it was Jesuits teaching, but my point remains), and I can still recite most prayers ... in Latin, because the vernacular is for pussies. :lol:

I've come across a lot of religious (or formerly religious) folks involved in charity work in my time, and I'll be the first to say there were some genuinely charitable people. But not as many as there should be, considering.

I get where you're coming from: "love thy neighbor" and all that. I just think there's a wide gulf between what many people say and what they do. And I certainly apply that across the Abrahamic religion board.

But that isn't really the point. It more a matter of how the whole "religious charity" institution works: There are regular bible readings to go with the meals for the homeless. There are churches built in poor villages, along with the schools and irrigation ditches. Heck, the topic of this thread is evidence of exactly what I'm talking about: charity done on the terms of the organization, not those of the people who need help. Why even identify as Christian, if, at the very least, you aren't looking for the recognition that comes with charity work?

To be fair, many of these people (and organizations) I dealt with were Evangelical, rather than Catholic, but I wasn't specifically bagging on Catholics. So yeah, it's anecdotal evidence, but with this sort of thing, it kinda of has to be.

I didn't throw the link to that Hitchens book in there randomly, either: I think he makes a pretty good case for why appearing charitable was more important to MT than actually helping as many people as she could, and I think that's another example of what I'm talking (ranting) about.
 
[quote name='trq']Sure. I think I have something of an informed opinion on this, since most of my immediate family is Catholic, and if they had their druthers, I would be, too. As a part of that, I went to Catholic school for quite a few years (well, it was Jesuits teaching, but my point remains), and I can still recite most prayers ... in Latin, because the vernacular is for pussies. :lol:[/quote]

I've had sunday school (optional, not forced), 7 years catholic school (I chose it, wasn't forced), about 9 or 10 years of religious classes (combining the previous 2, not sure how many in sunday school), grew up in an area completely dominated by catholics (I still have a hard time thinking of america as a predominately protestant place), was raised by a mother who almost became a nun, attended years of church (optional though, never forced) etc. I barely pass latin (never learned it or any other language) but, other than latin, I wouldn't say your opinion has any more basis in experience than mine, possibly less. Either way, your "credentials" are no reason for anyone here to accept your opinion. Personally, I think it's a baseless claim, only supported by credentials I doubt anyone cares about.

Also, my catholic school's campus minister was a protestant woman (ordained as a priest I believe), and 1 of the male priests (out of 3) was also protestant. I don't know the denomination of either though. If they were so intent on gaining catholic converts, those were the last they would have hired. They also wouldn't have help non-denominational masses, and allowed exemptions to those who weren't catholic. They got flack from the archdiocese actually, and were forced to tighten restrictions by requiring parental permission, as originally no permission was required (essentially making mass optional even for catholics).

Personally, I find the suggestion that the majority of religious charities are done to convert people blatantly wrong, and disgusting. I share your disgust with missionaries, and I have no interest in defending them. But many religious charities genuinely help people.

There are charitable organizations which, due to demographics, the vast majority of aid recipients are of that religion or even denomination. The vast majority of homeless shelters (which boston has an extensive network of, more than any other major city I've been to) are overwhelminly run by religious organizations. Same with soup kitchens.

And in Islam, charity is essential (compulsory actually, even if not everyone does it, they're supposed to) to that religion. And, if the goal was simply to gain converts, then you wouldn't see charities in afghanistan, Iran (about 97% muslim) etc. If christians main goal was to gain converts, then you wouldn't find charities in places such as italy, where about 97% are catholic. If your hypothesis were true, then we would see significantly more charities (disproportionate to need) in areas where the most converts can be gained, but yet that isn't true. In fact, areas dominated by a particular faith tend to have charities run by that faith. There are charities that do gain converts, but there are many charities set up in places where this is little potential for any converts. And, when you consider the place the poor have, and the place charity has, in many religions this isn't suprising.

And, in fact, some charities are set up primarily to help people of those religion. Muslims to help muslims, christians to help christians, jews to help jews etc. If you are designed to help the converted, and are established in areas where your population dominates, how many converts can you gain?

Also, many religions are not evangelical. Islam and christianity are, judaism, buddhism (the majority) etc. are not.

But that isn't really the point. It more a matter of how the whole "religious charity" institution works: There are regular bible readings to go with the meals for the homeless. There are churches built in poor villages, along with the schools and irrigation ditches. Heck, the topic of this thread is evidence of exactly what I'm talking about: charity done on the terms of the organization, not those of the people who need help. Why even identify as Christian, if, at the very least, you aren't looking for the recognition that comes with charity work?

How is a catholic church not going to identify itself as catholic? They don't have anything to hide. And why wouldn't they build schools and such in poor areas? I don't think the rich need any aid. And bible readings and such are often optional, and many times are not even arranged beyond what is normally there (ie. if homeless people wish to attend religious events they would have to go with everyone else)

Though the topic here is about bigotry towards members of a sexual orientation. They have no problem adopting to muslims, hindu's, jews etc. The issue isn't religion, it's sexual orientation. Whether the gay couple is hindu, atheist or catholic won't change the fact they're gay. That's what this is about. Not religion. They erroneously believe its harmful to children.
 
Mitt Romney was on one of the Fox shows tonight, I forget which one I was just flipping around and brought up a good point.

The oft quoted "seperation of church and state" which of course is more accurately "shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof" is being violated by the Commonwealth of Massachusetts in this instance. How is it the state can prohibit the free exercise of religous belief?

The state is imposing its will on the church from threat of lawsuit and legal action. So many countless liberals and secular humanists decry a minister, priest or rabbi making political views known and encouraging their members or followers to follow suit based on religous beliefs. Yet these same liberals and secualar humanists see absolutely no problem with making a religous institution follow the guidelines of the state despite it going against their religous doctrine.

Let's take this a step further. The state has already shown inclination into making private enterprise carry commercially available items by threat of lawsuit; Wal Mart and the morning after pill. Now what's to prevent a kosher or halaal food store from being forced to sell pork or shellfish?

Where is the legal groundwork for forcing a religous institution or charity to abide by secularist law? It's a clear violation of the First Ammendment, the state is prohibiting the free practice of religous beliefs. There are already legal protections in place for this that are centuries old and from a societal standpoint preceed even the Constitution.

The rebuttal can't be "But if it's my belief to kill people the state would be interfering with my religion." or any such thing.

"Those who seek constitutional protections for their participation in an establishment of religion and freedom to practice its beliefs must not be permitted the special freedoms that this special sanctuary may provide merely by adopting religious nomenclature and cynically using it as a shield to protect them when participating in anti-social conduct that otherwise stands condemned." (U.S. v. Kuch 288 FSup. 439 (1968))

There is already a cap on what can and cannot be tolerated in the need of religous freedom. If a Catholic charity doesn't want to follow laws contrary to their religous doctrine and dogma the state is in no position to enforce secularization on Canon Law. I'd love to see this challenged on a legal basis.

I don't think Massachusetts has a legal leg to stand on.
 
PAD, you missed one point. Catholic charities is partially funded by the state. The state has an anti-discrimination law in place which makes it illegal to deny adoptions based on sexual orientation. Since they recieve state funds they are required to follow state laws.

The state cannot use taxpayers money to fund an organization that so blatantly violates state laws.

The state is not forcing them to halt operations, the state simply will not fund them and that's why they have halted operations. They can still remain open, they simply need to find an alternative source of funds.

Romney wants to pass a law allowing religious organizations to recieve state funding, and be exempt from state laws if they violate religious beliefs. That is a law without a leg to stand on. If you recieve state funding, you must follow state laws.
 
Why? Government routinely excuses itself from laws it passes for the rest of us.

The checklist of laws Congress has excused itself from is absolutely mind boggling.

Why should a fundamental violation of religous belief disqualify a religous institution from receiving state funds? Hell, Congress exempted itself from sexual discrimination. Imposing state will on religion is still unconstitutional. Either withdraw all state funds for religous based charaties or accept that government control of religous groups through these kinds of threats are unconstitutional.

In this case the church, synagogue or mosque has the upper hand. There are no Constitutional protections for government in this issue.
 
Pad, show where a state can legally use taxpayer money to fund an institution that violates state law? It doesn't even exist on its own, as it directly takes adoption cases from state agencies. Part of the anti-discrimination laws in MA forbid refusing to adopt to homosexual couples. What basis is there for this to be allowed? There is no u.s. supreme court ruling forcing organizations to adopt to homosexuals. While there is no direct MA supreme court ruling, a 1993 ruling stated that such adoptions were in the best interest of the children. If this were to go to the MA supreme court (unlikely) then it's highly unlikely they'd side with catholic charities. But, in absense of ruling, there are laws forcing MA adoption agencies to adopt to homosexuals.

Even Romney himself has said he has no power to waive the states anti-discrimination laws through executive order. He has introduced legislation to change that. The legislation isn't expected to pass and has been largely dismissed. His bill faces another issue though, it does not exempt churches from all anti-discrimination laws, simply those in reference to same sex couples. Such legislation, while likely unconstitutional in MA, will get little legislative backing in such a state. His own Lieutenant governor has publicly opposed this legislation.

Also, a correction to a previous statement I made, to obtain a license to run an adoption agency in massachusetts you must agree to the states non discrimination policies. Massachusetts bans discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation.
 
It may ban discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation but here you have a Constitutional battle. First, is sexual orientation protected by the 14th Ammendment? The role of religous organizations is unquestionably protected by the 1st Ammendment.

It's a Constitutional argument and I believe the weight and strength of the Catholic Church is stronger from a Constitutional standpoint. There has yet to be a landmark legal decision or federal legislation guaranteeing the rights of people that identify themselves by the sexual behavior they particiapte in.
 
Well, if the charity receives state money, and is serving a secular purpose, then of course they should have to operate within state law. Seems pretty sensible to me.
 
[quote name='alonzomourning23'] *snip* ... I wouldn't say your opinion has any more basis in experience than mine, possibly less. Either way, your "credentials" are no reason for anyone here to accept your opinion. Personally, I think it's a baseless claim, only supported by credentials I doubt anyone cares about.[/QUOTE]

Hey, I was giving a frame of reference (and making a point that I'm not randomly bagging on some group of people who have no personal connection to me), not listing "credentials." If you feel you have more experience in the matter, that's fine: you're probably right. But so what? Like I said: this is going to all be anecdotal evidence one way or another. It isn't a matter of "expertise."

[quote name='alonzomourning23']Also, my catholic school's campus minister was a protestant woman (ordained as a priest I believe), and 1 of the male priests (out of 3) was also protestant. *snip*… [/QUOTE]

That's great. But religious schools indoctrinating students (in the US) isn't really my point, nor would it be, since I found the schools I went to largely unconcerned about such things.

[quote name='alonzomourning23']Personally, I find the suggestion that the majority of religious charities are done to convert people blatantly wrong, and disgusting. I share your disgust with missionaries, and I have no interest in defending them. But many religious charities genuinely help people.[/QUOTE]

Yes, many religious charities genuinely help people. But the issue is whether that's the primary goal, and your disgust aside, the available evidence makes me skeptical. I also find it ironic that you can share my distaste for missionaries, and yet accept local charity work -- where there's often great overlap in organization, staffers, and MO with missionary work -- at face value.

[quote name='alonzomourning23']There are charitable organizations which, due to demographics, the vast majority of aid recipients are of that religion or even denomination. The vast majority of homeless shelters (which boston has an extensive network of, more than any other major city I've been to) are overwhelminly run by religious organizations. Same with soup kitchens. [/QUOTE]

I think that makes perfect sense for somewhere like Boston, where the demographics simply are what they are ... and less sense in, say, many parts of Africa, where the locals certainly didn’t start off Christian, and the only available education comes with the mandatory Catholic view of birth-control, which has been doing nothing to cut down on the rampant HIV infections they’re experiencing. Now you tell me: are they genuinely interested in helping the local populace?

Are they forcing the populace to convert at gunpoint? No. But their charity is doled out on their terms, the implication being that if you don’t behave how they want, then you don’t get the help. It’s coercive at the very least, and certainly not genuine charity.

For every Tom Fox, who seems to want nothing more than the best for other people as different from him as people can be, there’s a Mother Theresa, who seems to prefer to look pious and holy – bringing recognition to her order -- to actually doing all the good she can.

Here’s another classy example:

http://www.catholic-extension.org/

They made pillows for victims of Hurricane Katrina. Great. What’s their goal?

“The Catholic Church Extension Society exists to sustain and extend the Catholic Faith in poor and remote mission areas of the United States where diocesan resources are insufficient. Catholic Extension builds national awareness and raises funds for the Church's needs in these communities so as to enable the essential mission of Catholic evangelization.”

Charity work and missionary work go hand in hand.

[quote name='alonzomourning23']And in Islam, charity is essential (compulsory actually, even if not everyone does it, they're supposed to) to that religion. And, if the goal was simply to gain converts, then you wouldn't see charities in afghanistan, Iran (about 97% muslim) etc. If christians main goal was to gain converts, then you wouldn't find charities in places such as italy, where about 97% are catholic. … Also, many religions are not evangelical. Islam and christianity are, judaism, buddhism (the majority) etc. are not. [/QUOTE]

Fair point about evangelical religions. But I think you’re off base otherwise. First of all, even when we look at groups whose direct goal is conversion, it’s not like they shy away from places where the people already have a religion. After all: “Of course, our basic Christian doctrines are universal and must be taught everywhere and at all times. Muslims do need the redeeming grace of Jesus Christ just like the rest of us.”

http://bgc.gospelcom.net/emis/special articles/middleeastsignals.html

They’re also doing it in Iraq.

http://www.boston.com/news/packages/iraq/globe_stories/042003_mission.htm

So no, a 97% Muslim population doesn’t mean anything where conversion is concerned. And why would they attempt to “convert” people who already follow their religion? The same reason the Catholic Extension people spend their time in the Bible Belt: many people just aren’t serious ENOUGH about their religion, or so the mentality says. You know: they might start tolerating gays or something, unless we show up periodically to remind them how much they need us.

[quote name='alonzomourning23']Though the topic here is about bigotry towards members of a sexual orientation. They have no problem adopting to muslims, hindu's, jews etc. The issue isn't religion, it's sexual orientation. Whether the gay couple is hindu, atheist or catholic won't change the fact they're gay. That's what this is about. Not religion. They erroneously believe its harmful to children.[/QUOTE]

Those aren’t different topics. Sexual orientation is a matter of religion to these people. You might see it differently, but to them it’s a sin, and that’s that. Whether you want to believe that they don’t discriminate against, say, Hindu couples, because the issue isn’t religion, or whether you believe they damn well WOULD discriminate against Hindus, gays, and everyone else they disapprove of if they thought for one second that they could get away with it … that’s up to you. You can guess where I fall.

EDIT: I probably should have taken that to e-mail or PM. Sorry everyone who had to scroll through all that crap.
 
[quote name='trq']Those aren’t different topics. Sexual orientation is a matter of religion to these people. You might see it differently, but to them it’s a sin, and that’s that.
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I'm sorry, but using that as an excuse is complete bullshit. Just because a bigoted idea is part of some religion doesn't make it right and it doesn't make it exempt from the law.
 
[quote name='evanft']I'm sorry, but using that as an excuse is complete bullshit. Just because a bigoted idea is part of some religion doesn't make it right and it doesn't make it exempt from the law.[/quote]

Your tagline is hilarious.
 
I don't understand why this is a big deal. The Catholic church doesn't believe in same sex marriage. Why would they participate in something that goes against church doctrine. My grandmother was adopted from a boston based catholic agency. She is upset about it, due to her history, but she understands there position. Why is this a shocker to anyone?
 
[quote name='evanft']I'm sorry, but using that as an excuse is complete bullshit. Just because a bigoted idea is part of some religion doesn't make it right and it doesn't make it exempt from the law.[/QUOTE]

Uh ... what? I forgive you if you didn't read my stupid long post, but that's not even remotely what I said.
 
[quote name='ryanbph']Why would they participate in something that goes against church doctrine.[/QUOTE]

I agree. Don't let the church deal with foster children, their placement, or anything about them. That way they can't fuck up the children or violate church doctrine.
 
[quote name='trq']I get where you're coming from: "love thy neighbor" and all that. I just think there's a wide gulf between what many people say and what they do. And I certainly apply that across the Abrahamic religion board. [/QUOTE]

Well, this is true for the entire human race, religious or not. But I do see your point. Else why would we have people like Pat Robertson around?

The Hitchens book looks pretty interesting. I don't know too much about Mother Theresa so I can't really come to a conclusion, of course.
 
[quote name='PittsburghAfterDark']Constitutional law always supercedes state law.[/quote]

What's the conflict? There's no constitutional law saying that the state must fund the charity. There's no constitutional laws stating that the state should not set its own adoption agency licensing policies. There's no federal or constitutional law stating that only X groups can be in anti-discrimination legislation, and there's no federal or constitutional law stating that the states can't dictate who can operate adoption agencies based on their dicrimination policies. Every state runs their adoption agencies differently, in same states homosexuals can't even adopt at all.

Like I said: this is going to all be anecdotal evidence one way or another. It isn't a matter of "expertise."

My point was when you were asked to back up your claim you just rattled off personal experience with catholics.

Yes, many religious charities genuinely help people. But the issue is whether that's the primary goal, and your disgust aside, the available evidence makes me skeptical. I also find it ironic that you can share my distaste for missionaries, and yet accept local charity work -- where there's often great overlap in organization, staffers, and MO with missionary work -- at face value.

If the primary goal of charity was to gain converts, then no non-evangelical religion would engage in charity on any scale. Yet that's not true.

and the only available education comes with the mandatory Catholic view of birth-control, which has been doing nothing to cut down on the rampant HIV infections they’re experiencing. Now you tell me: are they genuinely interested in helping the local populace?

Well, many africans are followers of islam, voodoo and various other nature religions.

But you can see in the u.s., and most other countries, the widespread opposition to contraception. It's misguided and misinformed for the most part, but if they didn't care at all then they wouldn't bother. Denouncing contraception doesn't gain converts.

But their charity is doled out on their terms, the implication being that if you don’t behave how they want, then you don’t get the help. It’s coercive at the very least, and certainly not genuine charity.

You won't find any religious charity of stature in boston that meets such criteria. Very few religious pure charities only aid their own faith. Hell, even pat robertsons charities don't discriminate by religion. Now his charities are among the worst offenders of attempts to convert, but they don't force it and they don't require it for aid.

They made pillows for victims of Hurricane Katrina. Great. What’s their goal?

“The Catholic Church Extension Society exists to sustain and extend the Catholic Faith in poor and remote mission areas of the United States where diocesan resources are insufficient. Catholic Extension builds national awareness and raises funds for the Church's needs in these communities so as to enable the essential mission of Catholic evangelization.”

Charity work and missionary work go hand in hand.

Charity goes with missionary work, but missionary work doesn't always go with charity.

Besides, what difference does it make if someone insignificant religious charity makes pillows. Bring evidence that the largest, most effective, religious charities are engaged primarily to convert people then you will have a case.

Those aren’t different topics. Sexual orientation is a matter of religion to these people. You might see it differently, but to them it’s a sin, and that’s that. Whether you want to believe that they don’t discriminate against, say, Hindu couples, because the issue isn’t religion, or whether you believe they damn well WOULD discriminate against Hindus, gays, and everyone else they disapprove of if they thought for one second that they could get away with it … that’s up to you. You can guess where I fall.

Well, considering that the board is outraged that they're being forced to stop adoption to same sex couples, and considering that there's no evidence or complaints of them actually practicing bigotry (even against gay couples, which they've adopted to previously), I don't see much to suggest they discriminate against hindu's, muslims etc., or that those in charge of the catholic charities of boston would be in favor of such practices.

I don't understand why this is a big deal. The Catholic church doesn't believe in same sex marriage. Why would they participate in something that goes against church doctrine. My grandmother was adopted from a boston based catholic agency. She is upset about it, due to her history, but she understands there position. Why is this a shocker to anyone?

I dunno, you might want to ask them why it took about 20 years to cease participation in such things.

The Hitchens book looks pretty interesting. I don't know too much about Mother Theresa so I can't really come to a conclusion, of course.

Mother theresa has been criticized for caring more about saving souls than saving people. I remember an interview with a man who traveled to india to work with her. The man said that while she clearly was a benefit, and she did aid people, comforted the sick and dying etc. there were problems. The one that stuck in his mind the most was when he had the opportunity to arrange to have a dying man transfered to hospital care and she refused, due to her being more concerned about saving his soul. That is consistent with other reports I've heard (as well as other things he said) about her refusal to utilize medical support when available, and to put any consideration into providing such things for those in her care.

I basically agree with him. She was a big asset, but there was also some real problems with her.
 
[quote name='trq']Uh ... what? I forgive you if you didn't read my stupid long post, but that's not even remotely what I said.[/QUOTE]

Well let's look at the quote:

[quote name='trq']Those aren’t different topics. Sexual orientation is a matter of religion to these people. You might see it differently, but to them it’s a sin, and that’s that. Whether you want to believe that they don’t discriminate against, say, Hindu couples, because the issue isn’t religion, or whether you believe they damn well WOULD discriminate against Hindus, gays, and everyone else they disapprove of if they thought for one second that they could get away with it … that’s up to you. You can guess where I fall.
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I said that using that as an excuse was bullshit. Of course, I wasn't directing that at you, but rather at the idea that someone would use that as an excuse.
 
another thing to consider about MA, and gay marriage/adoptions, was this wasn't enforced by the state or chosen by the people. It was written into law by the court system. If you agree with it or not, they way it was down was wrong. A judge can't legislate from the bench.
 
Gay marriage is based based on anti-discrimination laws in massachusetts. The constitution of massachusetts does not define marriage, but discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation is illegal in massachusetts.

When judges are presented with a case before them where a couple was denied marriage, are you suggesting that the only way they can rule is that such an action is constitutional? Their job is to decide whether actions are consistent with the states constitution and state laws. There was no basis for such discrimination in massachusetts. They found that anything short of marriage essentially relegated homosexuals to second class citizens, which is illegal.

Gay adoption has nothing to do with the courts. Discrimination laws (which include sexual orientation) were the creation of the legislators. The laws for giving adoption licenses had to do with laws and regulations of the relevant agencies. The support for such a ban is also not present in massachusetts, even though it would likely be ruled unconstitutional.
 
I haven't paid much attention to politics since the election, but I don't believe there is anything in the constitution that refers to gay marriage. When females/blacks were given rights, wasn't there amendments to the Constitution/Bill of Rights. I am not sure, but if I remember from my history classes from over 10 years ago, that was the case. The laws that are there now, are up to interpretation, how one views the laws. Being married, is not a right that is guaranteed to us by living in this country. One could argue that life/liberty/property would qualify. But that is up to debate as one conservative(liberal)person view will differ from another conservative(liberal).

Regardless if you agree with the decision or not, being a judge does not allow for you to tell the state gov't take care of this by xxx date, or gay marriage will become law. The republic that we live in allows for us to pick the lawmakers, not the judges who are supposed to enforce current law. The proper ruling would have been to defer, and request the legislation put it on a ballot. The general public voices were not heard in this ruling. If might have passed, it might not have, but thanks to the judges we will never know. If what you say is true about making them 2nd class citizens, then why can gays only be married in MA. From what I was able to pull up, CA has domestic partners and Oregon/VT/CT will allow for civil unions, not marriage. http://lesbianlife.about.com/cs/wedding/a/wheremarriage.htm

Granted it has only been about 2 years since the MA ruling came into effect, but I don't think there has been much headway in other states.
 
[quote name='ryanbph']I haven't paid much attention to politics since the election, but I don't believe there is anything in the constitution that refers to gay marriage. When females/blacks were given rights, wasn't there amendments to the Constitution/Bill of Rights. I am not sure, but if I remember from my history classes from over 10 years ago, that was the case. The laws that are there now, are up to interpretation, how one views the laws. Being married, is not a right that is guaranteed to us by living in this country. One could argue that life/liberty/property would qualify. But that is up to debate as one conservative(liberal)person view will differ from another conservative(liberal).

Regardless if you agree with the decision or not, being a judge does not allow for you to tell the state gov't take care of this by xxx date, or gay marriage will become law. The republic that we live in allows for us to pick the lawmakers, not the judges who are supposed to enforce current law. The proper ruling would have been to defer, and request the legislation put it on a ballot. The general public voices were not heard in this ruling. If might have passed, it might not have, but thanks to the judges we will never know. If what you say is true about making them 2nd class citizens, then why can gays only be married in MA. From what I was able to pull up, CA has domestic partners and Oregon/VT/CT will allow for civil unions, not marriage. http://lesbianlife.about.com/cs/wedding/a/wheremarriage.htm

Granted it has only been about 2 years since the MA ruling came into effect, but I don't think there has been much headway in other states.[/quote]

State judges rule based on state laws and state constitutions. The federal constitution does no address same sex marriage. Same with MA's constitution. There is no definition of marriage in MA's constitution, simply marriage is mentioned. Discrimination is against the states constitution, and state law specifically forbids discrimination based on sexual orientation. All adults must be treated equally under the law.

Judges can tell the state to do X before X date, if the current laws or practices are in violation of the state constitution, as found by a judicial ruling.

If a constitution does not define marriage as between a man and a woman, but legislation and/or the constitution prohibits discrimination based on sexual orientation, then for a judge to allow the prohibition of same sex marriages to continue would violate exisiting laws banning discrimination based on sexual orientation.

Though California last year actually did pass legislation to allow same sex marriage. Despite the majority support by legislators, the bill was vetoed by schwarzeneger. He stated that the decision should be made either by the people or, ironically for conservatives, by judges. I think oregon may have come close to passing a similar bill, but I'm not certain.
 
[quote name='elprincipe']Well, this is true for the entire human race, religious or not. [/QUOTE]

Agreed.

[quote name='alonzomourning23']You won't find any religious charity of stature in boston that meets such criteria. Very few religious pure charities only aid their own faith. Hell, even pat robertsons charities don't discriminate by religion. Now his charities are among the worst offenders of attempts to convert, but they don't force it and they don't require it for aid.[/QUOTE]

I think of, say, the Hasidic volunteer ambulance driver who left Gavin Cato on the street in Crown Heights while driving the jewish man who struck Cato to the hospital, and I wonder, taking what you say at face value, how much of that lack of discrimination is because it's wrong, and how much is just knowing they can't get away with it.

[quote name='alonzomourning23']Besides, what difference does it make if someone insignificant religious charity makes pillows. Bring evidence that the largest, most effective, religious charities are engaged primarily to convert people then you will have a case.[/QUOTE]

Well, leaving aside the idea that significant numbers of insignificant charities working like I suggested CAN make a difference, I think that bringing up Mother Theresa -- certainly the most famous face of Catholic charity and an example to who knows how many other charity givers -- counts as bringing the evidence you suggest.

Now, if this seems like a selective quote-&-reply ... that's because it is. You made some good points, and while I haven't fundamentally changed my mind, I see I could stand to refine the focus of my ire somewhat.

[quote name='evanft']I said that using that as an excuse was bullshit. Of course, I wasn't directing that at you, but rather at the idea that someone would use that as an excuse.[/QUOTE]

Ah. My mistake. I thought you assumed I was advocating that position. It is indeed bullshit.
 
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