[quote name='DuelLadyS']Hmmm.... says she takes personal checks.... tell her you're leery of a money order for such a big purchase becuase it could be stolen, and send a check. Also, try to get her to send 'same time'- in other words, give a delivery confirm # (I'm sure someone here will tell you if the sequence is OK or if the number's fake.) Lastly- postdate the check. Since she says she'll send priority, you know it needs to be there in 3 days at most. if it goes longer, you can put a stop-payment on the check.
I doubt you'have have an easy time convicing the seller, but if she's legit and reasonable, she'll understand how fishy it looks and at least try for a compromise.[/QUOTE]
Postdating checks rarely works. Bank tellers typically don't pay all that close of attention, and there are other, shadier places to cash checks.