Found old girlfriend on the net, we are both married respectively....

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This is the thing folks.....12 years back , I went out, with a girl we fell in love, but she was on a relationship with another guy, I met her at work back then....when everything began, I really didn't knew how serious she was with that guy......we spent a hell of a lot together ....we really felt strong emotions for each other, but things got kind of ugly, like my mom got to know she had a boyfriend, so we never told we were like going out, but what the hell.....so the relationship was then in a downhill slope....

She told me she did'nt knew what she really felt, And I accepted that and continued anyway.....the thing is she decided to quit both of us....and the she said she wanted to be friend with me....

My choice was of course to hell with her, so I broke all kind of relationship with her, even in work all the folks kind of like knew something was wrong with us, cause we were very good friends at work, but nobody knew we were going out.......

The thing is, I found another work, left the old job, forgot about everyone in that workplace, even some cool guys I used to hang out with, cause I didnt wanted to have anything related to that workplace that had hurted me so much with her.....

But after all of these years, in that damn place classmates, I got on october a message saying that she visited my profile, after 12years folks, she was trying to contact me.....

And I'm telling u at that time I hated her and wished her not too good things....but after time I got married and kind of like forgave her for what she did to us.I even prayed for her to be good and happy, anywhere she were.But now she appears, from nowhere.......

Now she lives in another state, and she is also married with kids, and I am married with kids also....but since yesterday we been sending emails, and chatting through mesenger, even WE have talked by cell phone...It kinda like strange that I king of like miss her, and I dont hate her anymore, she's happy and all, but we kind of like continue to talk to each other, and I want to continue the friendship....but its strange, this feeling for her at this time in life?

I am sure as hell that if we were singles, the way we are talking and how we feel good talking again, that if we were singles, we would've hooked again, we feel damn good talking again!

How strange is this life ain't!

If any of u got a damn email from classmates, dont answer them, its dangerous situation, we have.But the only thing that gets me back on earth is that we are a couple of states divided.....
 
[quote name='hcamacho']This is the thing folks.....12 years back , I went out, with a girl we fell in love, but she was on a relationship with another guy, I met her at work back then....when everything began, I really didn't knew how serious she was with that guy......we spent a hell of a lot together ....we really felt strong emotions for each other, but things got kind of ugly, like my mom got to know she had a boyfriend, so we never told we were like going out, but what the hell.....so the relationship was then in a downhill slope....

She told me she did'nt knew what she really felt, And I accepted that and continued anyway.....the thing is she decided to quit both of us....and the she said she wanted to be friend with me....

My choice was of course to hell with her, so I broke all kind of relationship with her, even in work all the folks kind of like knew something was wrong with us, cause we were very good friends at work, but nobody knew we were going out.......

The thing is, I found another work, left the old job, forgot about everyone in that workplace, even some cool guys I used to hang out with, cause I didnt wanted to have anything related to that workplace that had hurted me so much with her.....

But after all of these years, in that damn place classmates, I got on october a message saying that she visited my profile, after 12years folks, she was trying to contact me.....

And I'm telling u at that time I hated her and wished her not too good things....but after time I got married and kind of like forgave her for what she did to us.I even prayed for her to be good and happy, anywhere she were.But now she appears, from nowhere.......

Now she lives in another state, and she is also married with kids, and I am married with kids also....but since yesterday we been sending emails, and chatting through mesenger, even WE have talked by cell phone...It kinda like strange that I king of like miss her, and I dont hate her anymore, she's happy and all, but we kind of like continue to talk to each other, and I want to continue the friendship....but its strange, this feeling for her at this time in life?

I am sure as hell that if we were singles, the way we are talking and how we feel good talking again, that if we were singles, we would've hooked again, we feel damn good talking again!

How strange is this life ain't!

If any of u got a damn email from classmates, dont answer them, its dangerous situation, we have.But the only thing that gets me back on earth is that we are a couple of states divided.....[/QUOTE]

your name isn't jimmy is it?
 
[quote name='Michaellvortega']Dude, DONT fuck SHIT UP, let the past be the past.[/quote]
No shit man listen to this guy for fucks sake. Let the past be just that, and in fact right now cut all contact with her because if you don't I have a feeling you'll fuck it up somehow.
 
[quote name='Michaellvortega']Dude, DONT fuck SHIT UP, let the past be the past.[/quote]
QFT. You are happy. She is happy. Don't mess things up and make this more complicated.
 
You just said if you were both single then you'd both hook up, but since you both have kids why the hell would you even talk to her? You're only gonna fuck things up, but oh well, I shouldn't care because it's your life and not mine.
 
[quote name='Quackzilla']There is no harm in having a woman as a freind, as long as you stay just freinds.

Just don't fuck up and ruin your family![/QUOTE]

That's pretty horrible advice. I'm sure his wife wouldn't be amused to learn that he's become "friends" with an old flame.

OP - break things off with the old girlfriend *stat* and never speak of this again, especially not with such poor use of the English language.
 
[quote name='Scobie']That's pretty horrible advice. I'm sure his wife wouldn't be amused to learn that he's become "friends" with an old flame.

OP - break things off with the old girlfriend *stat* and never speak of this again, especially not with such poor use of the English language.[/QUOTE]

The thing is I wrote that in a hurry.....And also english is not my first language, I'm a latin guy, but hey it's ok, there's no excuse in having such a bad grammar, sorry guys,

and thanks for the advice!
 
Put yourself in your wife's shoes. How would you feel if SHE was flirting around with her lover from high school online? Thinking "Oh, he's only a state away!".

If you are already having these kind of thoughts about her, you can't maintain a friendship with her without ruining your wife and kids lives. Stop while you're ahead.
 
one side wants me to advise you to cut off all communications with her because it's not worth it and it's a disaster waiting to happen...the other side wants me to advise you to do anything besides stay with your wife and kids...it's not fair to them that you're so easily able to have feelings for another woman...the fact that it's a woman you have had a past with just makes matters worse

whatever you do, for christs sake, take care of your goddamn kids
 
You were my husband? I'd kick your ass from here to kingdom come. It's not the email old girlfriend thing, he has plenty of female friends, it's the "if we were single. . . " thing that makes this ass kicking worthy.
 
[quote name='hcamacho']

How strange is this life ain't![/QUOTE]
Couldn't have said it better myself. Wait. Yes I could have.

Anyway, stay away from this girl, tell your wife an old girlfriend said "hi" to you via email, laugh it off, and break it off now.

Of course, that's just what I'd do. If I was happily married. Like you.
 
fuck your relationship worries, you need to get your ass back to school.

You have kids too?!?! Do them a favor and never help them with their homework.

Ever.
 
wow...

Even though half of me hates my ex, the other half feels sorry for her. Lately I've been feeling very horny and thinking about the great sex I had with her when we were together (great fitness stamina she had). My left hand is worn out so I gotta get some real quick :O

My advice is what ever one else said here, just let it go. If you want to be friends...as long as both the spouses have no problem with the two of you in a previous relationship, then its ok to be JUST FRIENDS. If you bang her in each other's current marital state, you both are stupid.
 
[quote name='jPoD']ITD, are you really a teacher? =X[/QUOTE]


IA

working on my license

taught Summer school computer graphics for 2 years.

Teaching after school computer graphics AND photography now.

Once this freaking licensure requirements are done, THEN YES I will be a full time teacher :)
 
This is like an adult version of the countless how do I handle girls threads we see on here. My advice is to stop and go no further the further down the path you go the harder it will be to veer off.
 
[quote name='jlarlee']This is like an adult version of the countless how do I handle girls threads we see on here. My advice is to stop and go no further the further down the path you go the harder it will be to veer off.[/QUOTE]


listen to master yoda you must.
 
[quote name='Quackzilla']There is no harm in having a woman as a freind, as long as you stay just freinds.

Just don't fuck up and ruin your family![/QUOTE]

The only friend you should care about is your wife. I feel like you are treading on dangerous ground. You say that your luck a state seperates you, but then you decide to see her. You think, "We're just friends. Its okay to see her." Next thing you know ...
 
[quote name='Dante Devil']The only friend you should care about is your wife. I feel like you are treading on dangerous ground. You say that your luck a state seperates you, but then you decide to see her. You think, "We're just friends. Its okay to see her." Next thing you know ...[/QUOTE]

The thing is ...... once a year she comes to my state, in 9 months to be exact.......I should steer away certainly.......
 
[quote name='horrido']Doesnt sound like she loved you in the first place as she had a boyfriend that WASN'T YOU!

You got played.[/QUOTE]

QFT
 
[quote name='crushtopher']BAH! *mind explodes from countless grammar and spelling errors[/QUOTE]

You say that as if you're 100% perfect in life.
 
You can always just be freinds with her. It could be like a family relationship where you are really close but never that close.

Then again if your a super religious nut job or you feel that your wife might think differ then I guess you might not want to talk with her. Again does your wife have freinds or whatever that talks with her or you and her know or she just knows.

However it is better to know people then forget about them. Then again your world must be filled with so many people you no need extra set of freinds, buddies, chums, or pals at the side.

I guess we all can't live in a make believe world where everybody loves and respects each other.
 
[quote name='gaelan']pics?[/QUOTE]

For what the fuck?The thing is more than physical now,dude, imagine that the thought of ............if in the end of my life my wife passes away first and if her husband passes away first if there is a chance of living the last years of our lives together I won't hesitate and go with her, man love is more than just two pieces of flesh having intercourse!

Man!
 
[quote name='hcamacho'] ............if in the end of my life my wife passes away first and if her husband passes away first if there is a chance of living the last years of our lives together I won't hesitate and go with her, [/QUOTE]

You suck.
 
[quote name='hcamacho']For what the fuck?The thing is more than physical now,dude, imagine that the thought of ............if in the end of my life my wife passes away first and if her husband passes away first if there is a chance of living the last years of our lives together I won't hesitate and go with her, man love is more than just two pieces of flesh having intercourse!

Man![/quote]Your wife deserves better than such a douchebag of a husband.
There is NO excuse for thinking like that.
 
If you are in a sexually liberated part of the world such as Europe, I say go for it.

Otherwise (as you can see by the responses) society will hang you up by your ears for daring to defy their conventions and your family will probably split due to the pressure if your affair ever becomes pubic.

Plus, to be honest this girl doesn't sound like all that much of a winner, so it's probably going to work out better for you if you sleep in the bed that you have made.
 
[quote name='hcamacho']man love is more than just two pieces of flesh having intercourse!

Man![/QUOTE]

To my knowledge it DOES primarily consist of two pieces of flesh except it's only used one at a time, one the bottom and the other on top.
 
[quote name='Sarang01']To my knowledge it DOES primarily consist of two pieces of flesh except it's only used one at a time, one the bottom and the other on top.[/quote]

That is the worst description of sex that I have ever heard.
 
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