Hi CAG,
I live with 2 other people at the moment and two of us is having a problem with 1 roommate (girl). I moved in over the summer and me and the guy got along great. We then needed to find a third roommate because one of the other roommates was leaving. We came across this girl who we thought was nice and her schedule fit into ours.
A few months go by and she loses her job (gets fired) she then goes into school and gets a part-time job, which results in her being home alot more, which is fine. She then proceeds to change the whole house according to her taste. She moves our food to corners of the kitchen to make room for hers. She also bitches about every little thing. It got so bad one time that she wrote an apology letter for me for being such a bitch. Her reason was because she was on her period. She is disrespectful and gives the landlords a hard time. She complains about rent, heat, and any little thing you can think of. She is a pain. Now she is eating my food and sticking baking soda and all this crap on my side of the fridge when she clearly has plenty of room on her shelf!!!!!
I spoke to the landlord on Friday and ask her to write out a lease for my roommate and I to sign because currently there is no lease in existence (month to month). From there we are thinking of giving her a 30 days notice and then giving her the boot. But, what if she doesn't leave? What are the legalities behind this roommate eviction? Any ideas?
UPDATE 2: We Live in NY for those asking.
UPDATE 3: I have a picture here for those who want to see. Before you click I would like to give another update. She texted me last night telling me to talk to her like a man and stop hiding behind text, sticky notes, and making idle. She said her "MAN" wants to speak to me and straighten me out. I responded say i'm not going to put up with her shit anymore and to be careful with what she says.
Next morning she puts the tv all loud and starts banging shit in the kitchen to try and wake me up, which she did. I ignored her and went back to bed. Woke up later and went to go get ready. She stops me in the hallway and tells me she needs to talk to me. She then threatens me again saying that her "MAN" is going to take care of it. She then states the following:
1. I should stop living in this fantasy world of an Actor. I'll never make it. Its a fantasy. Face reality. Contribute to the world. Contribute to the people.
2. Go back to sleep and sleep for another 15 hours because thats all I do.
3. I'm cheap because I don't pay and contribute towards the tv bill
I respond:
1. I rather be following a dream and a passion then be a pathetic 30 year old women with no established job, unstable relationship, and a person who's solution to there mid-life crisis is nursing school.
2. Thank you, I will go back to sleep because I actually make a shitload of money from my computer freelancing business and I can take off the next six months if I want to. I didn't drink, smoke, and party my who twentys.
3. Why should I pay for tv when I don't even use it? I pay for netflix. I rather not sit down in front of a tv for 4 hours watching mindless reality shows that make you feel empty inside.
She started crying and continued to insult me. I finished getting ready and left. I then went to the landlord after work and told them about the situation and they are all for getting her ass out. So it's 4 against 1.
Update will follow later in the week. Oh, and i'm unplugging that
ing tv in the living room.
PICTURE TIME!!!
http://$$$$$$$/kmwOa
UPDATE 4: First of all, Thanks for all the advice guys! I'm def not going to
with any of her shit. I'm going to go about this legally. I replaced the lock on my bedroom door. I also went to speak to the landlords and they are on board for throwing her out. I will be sitting down with her and my other roommate as soon as he gets back from cali. Next week is the big meeting and we will see what she says. She has not left any notes, texts, or any sort of messages. I sorta tested her by leaving dirty dishes in the sink for 2 days just to see what she would do. I think she suffers from bi-polar. Some days she is fine and dandy and other days she just depressed out of her mind.
Regardless, keep the ideas coming and any other legal advice that would help in this situation. Sorry about the broken link! Thats what she looks like on the inside.
I live with 2 other people at the moment and two of us is having a problem with 1 roommate (girl). I moved in over the summer and me and the guy got along great. We then needed to find a third roommate because one of the other roommates was leaving. We came across this girl who we thought was nice and her schedule fit into ours.
A few months go by and she loses her job (gets fired) she then goes into school and gets a part-time job, which results in her being home alot more, which is fine. She then proceeds to change the whole house according to her taste. She moves our food to corners of the kitchen to make room for hers. She also bitches about every little thing. It got so bad one time that she wrote an apology letter for me for being such a bitch. Her reason was because she was on her period. She is disrespectful and gives the landlords a hard time. She complains about rent, heat, and any little thing you can think of. She is a pain. Now she is eating my food and sticking baking soda and all this crap on my side of the fridge when she clearly has plenty of room on her shelf!!!!!
I spoke to the landlord on Friday and ask her to write out a lease for my roommate and I to sign because currently there is no lease in existence (month to month). From there we are thinking of giving her a 30 days notice and then giving her the boot. But, what if she doesn't leave? What are the legalities behind this roommate eviction? Any ideas?
UPDATE 2: We Live in NY for those asking.
UPDATE 3: I have a picture here for those who want to see. Before you click I would like to give another update. She texted me last night telling me to talk to her like a man and stop hiding behind text, sticky notes, and making idle. She said her "MAN" wants to speak to me and straighten me out. I responded say i'm not going to put up with her shit anymore and to be careful with what she says.
Next morning she puts the tv all loud and starts banging shit in the kitchen to try and wake me up, which she did. I ignored her and went back to bed. Woke up later and went to go get ready. She stops me in the hallway and tells me she needs to talk to me. She then threatens me again saying that her "MAN" is going to take care of it. She then states the following:
1. I should stop living in this fantasy world of an Actor. I'll never make it. Its a fantasy. Face reality. Contribute to the world. Contribute to the people.
2. Go back to sleep and sleep for another 15 hours because thats all I do.
3. I'm cheap because I don't pay and contribute towards the tv bill
I respond:
1. I rather be following a dream and a passion then be a pathetic 30 year old women with no established job, unstable relationship, and a person who's solution to there mid-life crisis is nursing school.
2. Thank you, I will go back to sleep because I actually make a shitload of money from my computer freelancing business and I can take off the next six months if I want to. I didn't drink, smoke, and party my who twentys.
3. Why should I pay for tv when I don't even use it? I pay for netflix. I rather not sit down in front of a tv for 4 hours watching mindless reality shows that make you feel empty inside.
She started crying and continued to insult me. I finished getting ready and left. I then went to the landlord after work and told them about the situation and they are all for getting her ass out. So it's 4 against 1.
Update will follow later in the week. Oh, and i'm unplugging that

PICTURE TIME!!!
http://$$$$$$$/kmwOa
UPDATE 4: First of all, Thanks for all the advice guys! I'm def not going to

Regardless, keep the ideas coming and any other legal advice that would help in this situation. Sorry about the broken link! Thats what she looks like on the inside.
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