[quote name='alexandertyler']Might want to try here, they specialize in all kinds of higher end and production quality notebooks. The also have models for the budget minded buyer. I highly recommend.
http://www.sagernotebook.com/default.php[/QUOTE]
I would also recomment that... A friend of mine just purchased a high end laptop from them and loves it.
and do not buy a 8600M! I have an 8600M GS in my hp and I have to overclock it to get decent performance on tf2 and ut3... go with a go 7950 or an 8800M. more power and with the later dx10 support (also on the 8600M card but at the cost of the power)
3 gigs ram isn't good or bad, ram is pretty cheap, and as long as you have 2 gigs vista should be fine for games.
blu-ray is a really expensive option... only get it if your really going to use it a lot... (make sure you have an HDMI port for using with a big screen tv as well)
2.0 ghz dual core processor should be fine as long as you have a good video card to back it up. I have a 1.5 ghz dual core and it gets the job done but 2.0 would be ideal for gaming.
Good luck finding the right laptop, I thought I had the right one but 5 months later the 8600M is showing me how weak it really is. oh well I'm going to build another gaming desktop in a year or two anyway.