My cat of nearly 20 years had to be put down tonight.

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We got Rocky back in '88 at the local pound. A fairly young couple also wanted him, but their apartment complex didn't allow pets, so we got him. Little did we think that he'd still be around 18 years later. He was fully grown then, and the concensous at the vet's office was that he was probably 22-25 years old.

A few months after getting him, he ran through a screen door leading to our backyard and we thought for sure he was gone. Then in '93, hurricanes hit VA and we came home early from our vacation to find him with a giant, open red sore on one leg. We took him to the vet and were told that if we hadn't come back early, he'd have lost a leg. '01 was his next health scare, when he had an infection in his back. We expected to find him dead somewhere in the house, or worse, on the street. After that, he was fine up until a few weeks ago when he started jumping up on the sinks and drinking water out of the spigot. He was a little scrawnier than usual, but still moved around a lot so we didn't think much of it.

Then the other day, he started to get really secretive and hide around the house. I did some research and thought that it might've been his incredibly strong flea collar making him sick. At about 1:25 AM EST, we found out that wasn't the case - his kidneys were about 85% gone, the condition was irreversible, and he had maybe two weeks to "live". After the most frantic minute I've experience, I finally said the words I never wanted to say in my life and agreed that Rocky should be put to sleep as soon as possible.

At around 1:30, we said our goodbyes to Rocky, told him we loved him, that we'd never forget him, and let the doctor administer the first shot. That floored him. His legs gave way without hesitation, but he was still breathing, so we decided to pet him, and as the last shot was given, he passed away purring loudly like he did all the time for much of his life, while the two people who loved him more than anyone else petted him into heaven. He died in the most painless manner possible, and I said a few days ago that if any creature on the face of the Earth deserved a painless death, it was him. The doctor noted that he was a beatiful cat, since he'd retained a youthful appearance even until the end.

He lived many years longer than anyone ever expected, since he was an indoor/outdoor cat for his whole life (up until two nights ago), and had very few health crises considering that. Despite being neutered, he was able to raise our third cat, Gracie's daughter Spud as if she was his own. The last cat he was with was Spud, and was on my bed bathing and coddling her as if she was a newborn - just as he'd always done her entire life. I'll never know exactly when his life began, but it ended on November 15, 2006 at around 1:30 AM - roughly two weeks before I was set to be born in '83, and about 10 days from when my grandmother died in '92. I'll always remember Rocky no matter what happens in my life; he gave everything he could to everyone he loved, but his body just couldn't keep going.

Here he is sleeping, and looking as peaceful as was when he passed on -
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Wrapped up in a blanket a few years ago -
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Sleeping next to Gracie a few years ago -
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Another shot of them together, with her babying him -
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Here he is with his pride and joy, his adopted baby girl, Spud -
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[quote name='JimmieMac']One less mouth to feed and one less thing to keep you from getting an apartment.[/QUOTE]

You fail at life.

OP: Im so sorry about your kitty. That was a heartwarming yet heartbreaking story. It sounds as if your cat had a beautiful life that he lived to his fullest. That is a wonderful thing. I know the pain of having a pet pass away like that. My dog Star had kidney failure too at a rather early age (10 yrs old) and she had to be put down. I was not there for that... but did have my guinea pig die on the vet's table and that was traumatic as well. Its just so sad that anything has to die, but atleast it was in the most humane way possible. Animals really suffer horribly when their kidneys fail so it was the best. My thoughts are with you and the kitties too. They are going to miss him too.
 
Know that you did the right thing for your pet.

Know that it lived a good long life with an owner who obviously loved it very much, and therefore that it was a happy life.

And, as other posters have said, remember the good times.

My condolences.
 
My mother and I have been remembering the good times, and the goofy stuff he did, like walk me to the bus stop in elementary school (and even once in high school), as well as walking as to 7-11 sometimes. Reflecting on the good times has helped us cope with what happened tonight, and we're in agreement that we did the right thing for him.
 
so sorry to hear that OP, from what you said, we know that the cat actually cared about you and you of it :)..it knew that you did the right thing in end so dont be sad, you gave it a great life :D!
 
My sympathies. :cry: My cat is over 13 years old now, and she is really a part of the family even though she is the bitchiest cat I've ever met. She won't let ANYONE pick her up. But we love her anyway. She has been incredibly healthy these 13 years, and good thing, since I don't think she'd allow us to take her to the vet. :lol:
 
We had to put a 20 year old cat to sleep that my parents found shortly after getting marriage. That was several years ago, but looks like your cat.

My cat now will be 16 in January and right now is doing well. A few months ago I thought she was going to die because she got sick, and then got better so we didn't bring her to the vet. She then got even sicker and we brought her in. She was sneezing up blood, not moving, not eating or drinknig. He gave us some pills and within 2-3 days the cat was fine. Got to love medicine.
 
Sorry for your loss, I know it's a rough thing to go through.
But you were more fortunate than most having one live
such a long and wonderful life. My little guy came close to
dying a few months back and it tore me up inside and I've
only had him a few years I would hate to think how much
it would hurt after such a long time. Thanks for sharing
your story.

Here's my little guy snoozing away...
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sorry for your loss. it hurts when you have to put an animal to sleep. Many people dont understand this cause they say its just a animal. They dont understand that they become a part of you and your family. we just had to put our cat down we had of 9 years back on June 13 cause she had female cancer (a fast growing tumor)

what was sad about that is the doctor said it would cost almost 400 to 500 bucks to remove it (we didnt have the cash and we had another cat we did this too back in 1999 and she still died) . well the doctor said if we didnt do anything at least we would still have 6 month to have it

that idoit doctor didnt know what they were talking about and we had to put her down just 12 days later (she couldnt walk, couldnt drink couldnt do anything)

belive me the first year is the hardest cause you start to think about Well this is the first summer without them. its the first halloween without them, the first thanksgiving the first xmas ect

we treated our cats like family so they got dressed up for halloween and ate turkey with us and we always took the cats to see santa LOL. its going to be a sad time this year

again sorry for your loss
 
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Wow, thanks for sharing, very moving story. I have a cat that looks similar to Rocky, although she's more similar to Spud. Sounds like he was an awesome cat and had a great life.
 
Cute cat.. really sorry to hear about that. I know how painful it is to lose a pet you've had for ages, it's like losing a friend. :cry:

I've had my cat Morgan for.. damn, 19 years or so, ever since I was a baby pretty much.. so I grew up with him. He's always been active and healthy, but that has started changing slowly lately. So I know the day is going to come sooner or later when he's going to go.. kills me just to think about it.
 
sorry to hear about Rocky, he looks like he was an awesome cat, but you did the right thing. It was awesome that you guys were petting him and he was purring as he passed.
 
Yeah sorry to hear that. I've heard people say that putting one of your pets down is really hard, especially if you've had them a long time. I've had a lot of pets over the years, it really sucks when something happens to one of them. At least you can confide in the fact that you did the right thing by putting him down.
 
sorry to hear about that. I had an 11 year old cat die, but my 20 year old cats are still going...but it;s rough when the day comes. I even bought a kitten last year that had to be put down after 3 weeks...which was really tough.

And no, not all these cats lived under one roof.
 
Soory about your loss. My friend just had to put down their 8-year-old cat because of a tumor. But, on a brighter note, my cat has the same collar, so I fell really sad now. But, It'll make a great story one day. You culd write a childrens book about all of his perils.
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Jeez, this post made me tear up a little. In 2001, we had to put my cat Twinkles to sleep after 20 years. We had gotten him 3 weeks after I was born, and a couple months before I turned 20 his body started failing him. Was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do.
 
[quote name='JimmieMac']One less mouth to feed and one less thing to keep you from getting an apartment.[/quote]

You forgot to add "cats don't go to heaven."

Sorry OP - that is too bad. At least you got 18 good years with him!
 
Sorry for your loss. I just lost my 14 year old dog in July this year and my girlfriend lost her 18 year old cat in March. We know what you're going through. My mom still isn't over our little girl.
 
[quote name='javeryh']
Sorry OP - that is too bad. At least you got 18 good years with him![/QUOTE]
That's what I've been thinking. We were very fortunate to get that much time with him, and now he's reunited with his ancestors.
 
[quote name='JaytheGamefan']We got Rocky back in '88 at the local pound. A fairly young couple also wanted him, but their apartment complex didn't allow pets, so we got him. Little did we think that he'd still be around 18 years later. He was fully grown then, and the concensous at the vet's office was that he was probably 22-25 years old.

A few months after getting him, he ran through a screen door leading to our backyard and we thought for sure he was gone. Then in '93, hurricanes hit VA and we came home early from our vacation to find him with a giant, open red sore on one leg.[/QUOTE]
That sucks. When I had to put my dog down at age 11 due to cancer, I cried like a little girl.

But am I the only one actually reading this thing? You got the cat in 1988, it ran away a "few months after getting him", and then he returned in 1993? That's the most amazing part of this whole story, and no one has brought it up!
 
"A few months after getting him, he ran through a screen door leading to our backyard and we thought for sure he was gone. Then in '93, hurricanes hit VA and we came home early from our vacation to find him with a giant, open red sore on one leg."

Was he missing for 5 years, or were they supposed to be 2 separate events?
 
Jay,

Sheena was my cat. Much like Rocky, she was an outdoor cat. We'd let her out and she'd roam the neighborhood. She'd also be waiting on the deck to come in around 10:00 PM at night or so. I'm surprised she lasted she long as she did... you'd think so many things could go wrong for them running around out there.

The day before the last night of high school, we camped out in the school's yard -- about 20 of us seniors did. We pulled an all-nighter and I was absolutely exhausted when I got home... I did something I was accustomed to doing -- I came home, grabbed Sheena and she layed on my chest purring as I fell asleep.

Why do I bring this up? It was the last time this would happen. I knew the entire time this would be the last day of Sheena's life. When I woke up, I knew it was over. My mom told me she was out in the garage, and suggested I say my goodbyes. I went delusional for a second, and thought she was still alive. But quickly, I came to my senses. I walked out to the garage, and I saw the lifeless body of my cat. Like you were saying, though... she looked peaceful. I pet her and was chilled by the fact that she was completely cold. It sounds obvious, but it's a strange sensation when you touch a dead body like that...

I then layed in the grass balling my eyes out -- 18 years old at the time -- while my dad dug a grave for that cat.

I remember that night I feel just awful. Friends called me to hang out but I was heartbroken and I didn't do anything. I just sat around. I felt like crap for a while. I still do from time to time. Just typing this up is making my eyes water.

I feel like I relate to you a lot. Similar stories, similar topics [note that JimmyMac trolled my topic, too] and things, and by all accounts, similar cats...

In summary, I know exactly how you feel. It's just like losing a family member. If people give you crap, who cares? Chances are they never had a pet that was close to them. If you're feeling bad take solace in knowing it gets better.

From someone who's been there, you have my condolences.
 
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