[quote name='smalien1']No, all I said was "I don't think that we should revere First Ladies as we do, they may do some good but only because they are put in a position where it is expected of them."
Then some preppy idiot cut me off and the teacher resumed teaching.[/QUOTE]
Well, some first ladies have done a lot, outside of what is expected of them. Eleanor roosevelt and hillary clinton probably the most notable. Laura bush is undeserving of the reverance, as she owes her fame entirely to her husband. There are a few woman who essentially ran the white house when their husbands became ill. It wasn't expected of them, but there husbands had to step back for them to step up so they're somewhere in the middle. Eleanor was very strong and independent but would have been unknown otherwise. Though she still went above and beyond what was expected (often against what was expected) and did so on her own initiative.
Hillary was politically active and had the makings of a politician before bill ever came around. Without him I wouldn't be suprised if she still reached the house or possibly the senate. Her husband made it easier for her and gave her a more visible platform, but her involvement in politics are not the result of her husband being president.
Basically I think some first ladys are essentially housewives and fit your description. Some have gone above and beyond whats was expected. And there are a select few who truly deserve the respect they recieve, if not more. Personally I don't think your opinion is really sexist even if I don't really agree. But, considering how broad the statement is, it doesn't suprise me that some find it that way.