Your examples don't really apply to the situation, even though they all involve marriage situations that currently aren't legal. Your whole arguement is a pretty big slippery slope: "well if we let the gays marry, soon we'll have to let EVERYONE MARRY! People with animals!"
Start tinkering with one type of activity that defies a social norm, and your going to have to deal with all of the other related issues.
It would be completely hypocritical to say that homosexual marraige would be ok, but polygamy should still be illegal.
Incest is different because of the medical risk it would put any offspring in, and thus saying that homosexaul marriages should be legal and incest illegal is far more tenable.
The first thing that i see wrong with the legalization of Polygamy are the potential benefits. Would the tax-breaks be proportional to the number of spouses?
Does it really matter? That's really a non-issue when considering the morality and necessity of a change in laws.
If that is the case, it can be easy to see how quickly this would be exploited.
Marriage can already be used as a tax shelter. A change like legalizing polygamy wouldn't change that. Heck, if they legalized same sex marriage, business partners could enter a legal union for the expressed purpose of creating a tax shelter. People could use your same thinking as a con point for the legalization of same sex marriage.
Morally, I don't agree with this.
That's deeply hypocritical.
Note: I morally think that gay marriage is fine. I'll explain later.
I'll be waiting.
Siblings marrying? The genetic consequences of them having children are something to consider. Knowingly concieving children that will be genetically deformed should be considered abuse. So, two siblings getting together wouldn't be "their own business", as a child would be directly and adversely affected by this. Again, morrally i don't agree with this at all, and the comparison between this and gay marriage is silly.
Technically, it isn't silly when comparing them on the basis that both are unions that violate current societal norms. However, I do agree that there is a societal benefit for having incest be illegal.
I guess a person's view on this more-or-less hinges on the way they view homosexuality: as a sexual preference or as a disease. In NO way can incest be looked at as anything other than a disorder (the product of a traumatic upbringing, or severe sexual abuse).
That seems fairly shortsighted.
Polygamy could theoretically be looked at as a sexual preference, so it's slightly more valid of an arguement. If that's your thing, go to Utah, I hear there's plenty of it there.
Heck, why don't you just tell homosexual people to move to San Fransico?
Both statements are just terrible distasteful, hateful, and bigoted.
You're not doing your point of view any benefit by saying something like that.
As it stands however, there is no need to even address this issue.
As it stand, I see no real need to address homosexual marriage.
Of course, gay men and women would disagree with me. Just like poligamists would disagree with you.
So far, you're post is just rife with hypocrisy.
If there were millions of pro-polygamists lobbying for equal rights, then maybe we would delve into the issue a little deeper.
Why is it any more wrong that one's class' rights are being trampled, but because another class is less vocal that thier rights are less important and less valid to be concidered?
Which way to you want it? If homosexuality is sexual preference, you can't downplay the viability of poligamy. If homosexuality is a disorder, you couldn't downplay the viability of incest.
If you believe that homosexuality is a disease, then well, I can't argue with you because I don't agree with it at all (and I would think that you're stupid
).
Yet you quickly relegate incest to the same fate. You realize that this includes stepfamilies, where the children could be of legal age, and of no blood relation to the stepparent? (and possibly even the same age)?
While it's distasteful in the eyes of some, so is homosexuality.
But, I believe that homosexuality can be a natural thing. There is enough evidence to show that homosexuals can live in and promote healthy family environments, that they are normal people who function just like everybody else in society, and as I said before, can be more deserving of marriage than many of the heterosexual couples that marry today.
Yet you talk down poligamy? There's more proof of poligamy as being natural (look at pack animals. The alpha male is often the sire of every single child in that pack.)
You're letting your beliefs blind you. That's a dangerous place to be in.