I saw them getting them in a shipment at EBGames the other day when i was there. I'm assuming they're gonna make you preorder in order to get it at EB also though.
Yeah, these are supposed to only be given with a preorder. Some places, depending on how well you know the people, may give you one for free, but preordering it is no big deal. That $5 can be moved to a different game, whenever you want...
I went to EBGames today, went to the cashier and asked if they had any RE4 demos. He says "yes we do" and grabs one from a stack that happens to be on top of the counter but was hidden behind some cardboard standee and hands it to me. I say something like "cool" or "awsome" and i leave.
I preordered at EB to get the disc. They also gave me a GT4 lanyard, which could end up being a real collector's item if the game never actually gets released .