An odd and very adult topic. Can excessive masterubation have side effects?

Alright, im sure this is going to go off topic fast and be full of so many jokes that they loose all meaning(and sure im going to be cracked on alot)but iv got an honest question that im having a hard time finding an answer to.

Can excessive masturbation(by this I dont mean 2 times a day either but more like 10-30) have side effects other then the feeling of disgust with yourself? Iv tried googling this and it brings up all sorts of answers.....but 95% of the sites it brings up while having answers are also trying to sell some kind of herbal shit making them highly questionable.

I would ask a doctor in a hearbeat if I was having some kind of problem but im as healthy as a horse both sexually and non sexually. Most of the problems listed were crap like premature ejaculation and the inbabilty to keep hard which as I said Im not having.

The one side effect that seems like it could make sense though and iv experienced first hand(and the reason I was googling this in the first place)is reduced potency of your semen. The more you wank it the more your semen comes out watery vs thick, and eventually you just pretty much feel like you had an orgasm but nothing comes out. I could see it being true that the more you masturbate the less potent your semen is, or atleast the lower your sperm count is? So if anyone knows about this id be really interested to hear.

Chaffing

make sure you use some kind of lotion or you'll rub it raw

Your fellow CAGs might surprise you. When I started my post about the trouble I was having with my sack I was ready for a barrage of off topic posts but for the most part people stayed serious and on topic.

EDIT: I stand corrected... It has begun....

Hairy palms.

[quote name='fart_bubble']make sure you use some kind of lotion or you'll rub it raw[/QUOTE]

Actually I do it in a very unusual way and it causes no chaffing even though I do it raw without lotion, spit or any other lubricant. Iv never known anyone to do it the same way and my fiancee said none of the guys she was with before me did.

I think its part of the reason I do it excessively, because it only takes me like 15-45 seconds to finish myself where most guys take several mins with lotion.

So you have a fiancee and you're jerking off 10-30 times a day?

Do you see the issue here?

[quote name='lordwow']So you have a fiancee and you're jerking off 10-30 times a day?

Do you see the issue here?[/QUOTE]

Hey she is not home all day and she also doesn't want to have sex all the damn time. I mean we go at it once or twice a week, and a few nights of the week she does other stuff to help me out....but less your girl is a freaking nympho guys have a hard time having sex with their girl everyday let alone several times a day.

Besides even when we do have sex at least 25% of the time it does nothing. My sex drive seriously is monstrous and it usually takes me 2 goes to feel calmed down.

Jesus Christ.. 10-30.. sometimes its hard to find the time to rub out a quick one before bed.

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[quote name='CouRageouS']Jesus Christ.. 10-30.. sometimes its hard to find the time to rub out a quick one before bed.[/QUOTE]

Hehe ya well not working gives you alot of extra time, and as I said I do it differently then most guys. It never takes more then a minute for me to do and most of the times its more along 30 seconds.

That's not something to brag about, man. |

30 seconds? Sucks for your fiancee.

No way you do it 10-30 times a day.

You'd rub it right off.

[quote name='Liquid 2']That's not something to brag about, man. |

30 seconds? Sucks for your fiancee.[/QUOTE]

I didnt say it took 30 seconds to have sex I said to wank off. Sex lasts as long as she wants heh. And thats not bragging its the truth im not a stud physically but you cant beat my stamina!

Senor, id say about 10-15 is the average. Early in the day twice and hour, later in the day once every other hour or so and once my fiancee gets home not at all. Iv had crazy days though where I know 30 wasnt an exageration but those were mostly when I was like 15-20 and that was also with a bad porn addiction which iv for the most part over come.

That's still insane.

No in' way.

Well, to add to your original topic, seriously, it's not bad for you, unless you're feeling seriously distressed about doing it so often.

See: http://sexuality.about.com/od/masturbation/a/masturbation1.htm

you have ing way too much time on your hands

[quote name='MSI Magus']you cant beat my stamina![/QUOTE]

Your hand begs to differ.

[quote name='linkpwns']Well, to add to your original topic, seriously, it's not bad for you, unless you're feeling seriously distressed about doing it so often.

See: http://sexuality.about.com/od/masturbation/a/masturbation1.htm[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the link, but im still really curious about potency. That was my main reason for asking the whole thing. Still again thanks good to see another site say no effect.

Welcome to CAG 2.0

Jesus Christ, stop caring about your sperm count. No kid needs a father who is constantly ing his own hand.

[quote name='pitfallharry219']Jesus Christ, stop caring about your sperm count. No kid needs a father who is constantly ing his own hand.[/QUOTE]

Actually im the opposite of you(what is the opposite of an asshole anyways?). I DONT want her to get pregnant. If me jerking off reduces my sperm count on a temporary basis its actually a damn good thing. If thats seriously the only side effect then maybe I should add in another 4 or 5 times a day just to be safe

Seriously though. Im a really responsible person. Because I dont work and our money is so limited I sacrifice more and plan for our future more. I would rather not have a kid till im 30 and even then if it wasnt for my fiancee wanting her own flesh and blood(part of me does too)I would just adopt instead of having a kid of my own. Too many damn people in the world as it is and too many kids without good homes.

IBTL

just sayin

dam man, i cant even go more than 3 times a day without my prostate gland/testicles getting real sore.

It has to reduce your sperm count. You must be emptying the sack completely by the end of the day. I think you have some OCD issues with your wanking.

Soon you will be so desensitized that you'll resort to using sandpaper. When that happens, please don't post it. Thanks.

This doesn't sound very healthy at all.

10 times a day?!? I think the most I did in a day was 6 times, that was when I was a young strapping 15 year old, whos parents left for a weekend. I scored some new porno, vhs style. damn i had fun.

[quote name='ArthurDigbySellers']It has to reduce your sperm count. You must be emptying the sack completely by the end of the day. I think you have some OCD issues with your wanking.[/QUOTE]

See and thats what im thinking, but at the same time I didnt know if maybe our bodies were equiped to produce semen at a faster rate if we are using up or supply or not. I didnt think so, but I figured it had to be that the more you wank the less potent your semen is and the lower the sperm count.

As for OCD meh, psychologist I saw when I was like 17-20ish for a psych evaluation says I have really horrid OCD tendencies but I tend to not put too much wait in stuff like that. Causes people to focus on what their diagnosed with vs the symptoms they are suffering from.

@ radioactiveman - Hehe I can remember those days. Was always great as a kid whenever you scored new porn. I mean I got a PC around that age so became desensitized to it pretty fast. But before the internet, man it was great being a 11-15 year old and finding some porn in the woods or having an older cousin buy some for you!

When you do it that much, doesn't it loose it's excitement/pleasure?

Holy crap, man. The only downside I would see to this is, well, less of an "explosion" when you're actually having sex. ...and for the most part, I think that's a pretty important and fun aspect of sex!

But shit, man, as long as you're not in pain, I guess it's a healthy, self-gratifying, confidence-raising, harmless activity!

[quote name='Simon D I']Holy crap, man. The only downside I would see to this is, well, less of an "explosion" when you're actually having sex. ...and for the most part, I think that's a pretty important and fun aspect of sex!

But shit, man, as long as you're not in pain, I guess it's a healthy, self-gratifying, confidence-raising, harmless activity, right?[/QUOTE]

Ah true, however on the flip side you have no freaking idea how good it feels then on days where I cant get off(like Christmas or some other stay at my parents or in laws houses)or force myself not to for a day or so. The "explosion" as you put it rivals anything out of a porno and feels incredible.

[quote name='MSI Magus']Ah true, however on the flip side you have no freaking idea how good it feels then on days where I cant get off(like Christmas or some other stay at my parents or in laws houses)or force myself not to for a day or so. The "explosion" as you put it rivals anything out of a porno and feels incredible.[/quote]

Ah, good point! ...maybe you're right, dude,....maybe your semen production has increased somehow? If the body thinks it needs to produce more at a higher rate....who knows?


MSI Magus, you are living proof of "Sexual Evolution!"

I have to agree on the OCD - good call by ArthurDigbySellers.

Long-term it can't be good for you. Anything you overdo with your body is going to wear it out over the long haul. All athletes know this, and 10-30 times per day is the athletic equivalent of running a marathon every day. It's way beyond what is healthy.

Psychologically it can't be good either. Fulfilling a need that you are designed to fulfill with another person has got to water down the real thing quite a bit, and I can't imagine your wife won't start to feel a little like a third wheel in the future. It's like cake - an awesome dessert, but if you eat cake breakfast, lunch, dinner, and 12 more times in-between it stops being special.

If I were you I would be tempted to go back to the psychologist and figure out what's going on to bring about these "symptoms". I would say the same thing if somebody said they were taking a shower 10 - 30 times per day. Sure it's nice to be clean and there's worse things to be OCD about, but even so behavior that is this over-the-top raises a giant red flag.

Just my 2 cents.

[quote name='chosen1s']I have to agree on the OCD - good call by ArthurDigbySellers.

Long-term it can't be good for you. Anything you overdo with your body is going to wear it out over the long haul. All athletes know this, and 10-30 times per day is the athletic equivalent of running a marathon every day. It's way beyond what is healthy.

Psychologically it can't be good either. Fulfilling a need that you are designed to fulfill with another person has got to water down the real thing quite a bit, and I can't imagine your wife won't start to feel a little like a third wheel in the future. It's like cake - an awesome dessert, but if you eat cake breakfast, lunch, dinner, and 12 more times in-between it stops being special.

If I were you I would be tempted to go back to the psychologist and figure out what's going on to bring about these "symptoms". I would say the same thing if somebody said they were taking a shower 10 - 30 times per day. Sure it's nice to be clean and there's worse things to be OCD about, but even so behavior that is this over-the-top raises a giant red flag.

Just my 2 cents.[/QUOTE]

Well I can agree one some points. I agree that psychologically there has to be a reason for it, and id love to hear it.....but I cant afford a shrink he. Im a very open person and dont get embarrased about anything really so im ok to talk about to a pro if I can ever afford one. I agree that maybe long term it may have some kind of effect and its why iv constantly tried to reduce the amount I do it and its why I worked so hard to kill my porn addiction. I mean seriously back in the day I used to spend like 3 or 4 hours in the mourning saving porn pics on the net and got off on average I bet 2-3 times an hour every hour of the day(as the day went on maybe it would fall to once an hour). Iv gotten it down in the past few years to spending 10-20 mins in the mourning after I wake up downloading crap. 2 times and sometimes 3 in the first 3 hours or so and then after that its once an hour to once every other hour till my fiancee gets home at 4.

It still may seem crazy to you guys but think about the difference between the before and after. Iv known for a long time that iv got OCD and addiction issues with sex stuff, but you know without any help from anyone iv slowly gotten better in every possible way. And despite my sex drive and at times a desire that can cause me to go into cold sweats iv never cheated on my fiancee and before I met her I only slept with 1 other girl. And that girl whenever I told her I didnt want to date her said that I could just be a sex buddy and come over and sleep with her whenever I wanted.....again despite my sex problems I stayed with her for a few hours talking and trying to help her then never looked back.

So I recognize this stuff is a problem.....and iv worked on it. But iv always moderated myself where its most important. Heh and O the one spot I disagree with you, you said its like having cake for breakfast and dinner. I disagree, I think its like having pizza all day long and then when my fiancee gets home having the cake. Ya this whole thing is fattening to my system and gonna kill me in the long run, but damn its enjoyable all the time

Edit - @ Simon D - Heh ill let my fiancee know that im just sexually evolved and she has to help me out more unless she wants to stand in the way of evolution.

Actually, the more you masturbate, the more motile your sperm is, and therefore the higher chances you'll get a girl pregnant if/when you have sex.

So if your reasoning behind this is so you won't get her pregnant, stop.

Drink Mountain Dew 10-30 times a day instead.

10-30 times!? Good lord. I should try that some day. My personally best for a day is like, 3, 4 maybe.

[quote name='Rocko']Actually, the more you masturbate, the more motile your sperm is, and therefore the higher chances you'll get a girl pregnant if/when you have sex.

So if your reasoning behind this is so you won't get her pregnant, stop.[/QUOTE]

Could you go into your reasoning behind this logic and where you get it from? Im not questioning you in the sense that I think your wrong, just anytime someone says something thats a bit more reasonable and that at least sounds scientific im definitely interested in hearing more.

And no my reason for wanking isnt to reduce the chance of getting her pregnant, I was just curious if it might not be a positive side effect.

Gettin' some 2-3 times a week is pretty good. Just wait till you're married, you'll wish you could get it that often!

The fine art of self gratification is your friend.

Magus, you are somethin' else.

[quote name='Chitown021']Gettin' some 2-3 times a week is pretty good. Just wait till you're married, you'll wish you could get it that often!

The fine art of self gratification is your friend.[/QUOTE]

Trust me I understand. We only have sex this often because we have had alot of fights about it after 2 years or so of dry spells. When we first got together she told me how she loved to give oral and about 3 months into the relationship how I deserved a threesome at some point(which she is now dead set against).

She was abused by a couple guys in the past though and really was terrified id leave her, then she went through a deep hard depression which just further screwed things up. Everything slowly pulling together though.......im hoping that maybe because im so honest and she screwed up early on the sex wont compltly evaporate after getting married.

Note to self: never use the handtowels at Magus' house

[quote name='fart_bubble']you have ing way too much time on your hands[/quote]

That aint the only thing in his hands!

I know, know, that was awful

[quote name='MSI Magus']Actually I do it in a very unusual way and it causes no chaffing even though I do it raw without lotion, spit or any other lubricant. Iv never known anyone to do it the same way and my fiancee said none of the guys she was with before me did.

I think its part of the reason I do it excessively, because it only takes me like 15-45 seconds to finish myself where most guys take several mins with lotion.[/quote]

Youtube instructional video in the making?

[quote name='Pookymeister']Youtube instructional video in the making?[/QUOTE]

sounds like as good a reason as any to start a CAG blog.

[quote name='Pookymeister']Youtube instructional video in the making?[/QUOTE]

Heh you would like that wouldnt you? Thats the second time in this topic you brought up how I do it!

Anyways, in reality im planning a book. Could save men a good hour a week!

[quote name='MSI Magus']Heh you would like that wouldnt you? Thats the second time in this topic you brought up how I do it!

Anyways, in reality im planning a book. Could save men a good hour a week![/quote]Make sure to get the pages laminated.