[quote name='Salamando3000']To the OP, here's what I'd suggest. Get a pen and paper, browse IGN or metacritic or whatever, and make a list of games you want to buy for each system. Then factor in console differences, such as Blu Ray on one, Netflix on the other, etc. Become as well-informed about the consoles as you can. Then make your own decision, instead of relying on random internet people.[/QUOTE]
This is by far, the best advice given in this thread. From reading the posts, I'm sure you've figured out that die-hard PS3 fans will
always recommend the PS3, and die-hard 360 fans will
always recommend the 360. You need to do a little research on your own to determine which console best suits you (in terms of games and/or features), instead of relying on the opinions of anonymous people on the internet.
At the end of the day, they are both great consoles that have their share of great games. There certainly may be deals to be had on Black Friday, though as others have mentioned, they will probably be bundle deals, which may require you to purchase games and/or accessories that you may not want, but could be 'forced' into buying as a part of said bundle.
In any case, good luck in whatever you decide, and enjoy the games for whichever platform you choose.