Hey, yo! 
I'm not sure if maybe talking about things would help, like the two issues you mentioned about your gal but didn't want to say in the Xbox forum (gee, wonder why? hehe), but if you ever want to chat, or need to, drop me a PM. I don't know if I can help, but I know one thing I can definitely do is listen! I'd imagine PMs would be a more comfortable place to discuss such things. Whatever the case, I certainly wish you the best!
I'm not sure if maybe talking about things would help, like the two issues you mentioned about your gal but didn't want to say in the Xbox forum (gee, wonder why? hehe), but if you ever want to chat, or need to, drop me a PM. I don't know if I can help, but I know one thing I can definitely do is listen! I'd imagine PMs would be a more comfortable place to discuss such things. Whatever the case, I certainly wish you the best!