[quote name='Big St3ph3n']At a young age kids learn the difference between right and wrong. when i become a parent, ill let them make the decision what they want to play/listen/read. Its their choice. If you raise your children with the right mind and know the difference between right and wrong and that videogames are a virtual world, not representing the choices in real life. Your child will be fine.
I grew up listening to gangsta rap in cali. A fat little white kid living in a mostly black and mexican little city. My parents raised me in the ways of knowing right and wrong. They let me have my freedoms of listening to rap music and playing whatever game i wanted to play. when i was younger i remember for my birthday i got PS1 with resident evil directors cut. and the Marshall mather LP by Eminem. Memorized both of them, and did i bring a gun to school? or smart off badly? nope and that even with going through a divorce between parents and my mom devolping a mental illness.
I was raised right and knew the difference between right and wrong and respect. To this day, i uphold myself in public, i have a good respectable job, and still play shit loads of games and listen to rap music. Im such a bad kid....that shit is bullshit.
Most of the kids that do badshit when they are young are the kids that are sheltered and looked at like they are so perfect. give your kid some space and let them know the real parts of life.
Im gonna go back to playing me some dead space. who knows, i might bring my plasma cutter to school one day.
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Yes, judging by the intelligent manner in which you present your argument, you seem to be a model citizen. My point isn't a "video games are evil" Jack Thompson rant. But that many parents use them to babysit (or even raise) their children. In those cases, how can you be a proponent for kids playing M rated games, when they're not even being given attention, let alone a lesson in "right and wrong"? That's pretty much exactly what this situation is.
I'm generally a pretty liberal thinking person, but regardless of how "mature" or "responsible" the 11 year old is, I fail to see the need for he/she to be playing games with excessive violence/gore, explicit language, or depictions of sex. At 11 years old, it's not necessary. And I would apply that logic to all forms of their entertainment. It's not a matter of "sheltering" your child. It's a matter of LETTING them be a child.
You mention your own childhood of getting a PS1 with RE: DC (which released in 1997) and the Marshall Mathers LP (released in 2000). Now, of course, you may not have received the PS1 with RE right when it came out, but how old were you when your parents got those gifts for you? Surely, you had to be older than 11.