Hey Cheapy (and Wombat)!
First off, I'd like to congratulate you on the launch of CheapAssGamer v2.0. Nice work! The site looks really great and I'm excited to use the new site to its' fullest potential.
Second(ly?), I would like to ask your honest opinion about living in Tokyo. I recently took a week vacation there alone (21 year old Amerika-jin exploring the city) and had a blast. I spoke close to no Japanese before I got there, but after hanging around a few days, I picked up most of the important phrases. Now, I've lived and visited a lot of places in my young life. I've lived in Arizona most of my life, while spending 3 years off and on in Georgia for college. I've been to NYC a few times, SF and LA a whole bunch, London, France, etc. But I'm getting off track.
What I'm really trying to get at is, Tokyo has by far been my favorite destination in all of my travels. Now I realize my perspective is probably skewed, seeing as I was on vacation, and not really working in the city, as well as knowing very little of the language. However, from what I gathered, Tokyo is one of the largest cities in the world, without the big city attitude that comes with NYC, London, etc. The Japanese are so polite (some might say overly so) that it makes being in the environment extremely rewarding, as I felt like I was part of a system, without actually being part of it. It's very difficult to put into words, but I'm sure you have some idea what I'm talking about.
I realize I probably sound like a Japanophile, but truth be told, I am not the type of kid who would travel to Japan to visit Akihabara and blow all his bank on anime, hentai, and video games. I'm just a somewhat average guy who really enjoyed Japan for what it was. Am I being delusional?
I regret not getting in contact with you sooner, so perhaps we could have met up and chilled a little bit.
So, finally, I'd like to ask you how you like living in Japan? I hear (from gaijinpot.com) that many people are disillusioned with Japan, but once they move there, they are unhappy. Is there much truth to this? Did you know much of the language before moving there with your wife? How is the language barrier now? Any tips on picking up the Japanese language faster? Finally, what part of Tokyo are you in? I was staying in Higashi-Koganei with family friends, and I was just curious what the cost of living is like as well.
I know it'll probably be years before I can remember even half of the Kanji that appears in the newspaper. But I'd like to give an honest attempt at exploring living in Japan. I intend on finishing my last year of my Graphic Design degree and studying Japanese privately with a tutor/program of some sort. Then, perhaps I will make an attempt at setting foot on Japanese soil for good.
Please let me know what you think.
Thanks!
Your fellow gaikokujin and friend,
Sean