I personally am for less government across the board. The Patriot Act, in general, merely collected existing laws under one document, thus making if more efficient. Not a bad thing. [The worth of the laws themselves, of course, can and should be debated.]
I personally am against gay marriage. But I'm honestly on the fence as to whether it should be 'illegal'. I don't think it merits a consitutional amendment, I think it should be left to the states.
My problem with 'gay marriage' is the fact that random judges decided to basically flout the law and 'force' gay marriage upon the states. That's not what judges are supposed to do. If the *people* wanted to vote for or against gay marriage in their states, then that's fine. If the elected legislators did the same, fine. Judges should react and test existing laws, not pro-act to create their own.
When people revolt against the laws, that's civil disobedience. When the people who are supposed to uphold the laws, make them up as they go, that's abuse of power. Roy Moore got fired for that. The cops in the Rodney King case were toasted by the media. But when a judge ignores existing law and says 'I'm allowing gay marriage, contrary to the laws of this state', to me, that's breaking the law. If the people appointed/elected to uphold and interpret the laws don't follow them, that is the utmost in hypocrisy, and leads to despotism.