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My wife is getting insulting emails from an 'anonymous' (or so the sender thinks) emailer with an offensive name.
For reasons I wont mention, this email stood out from the typical spam and junk, upsetting my wife enough to show it to me.
So I "back-traced it" :lol: with the x-header info and needless to say, the guy "dun goofed."
From the IP (a very small town in rural GA) she was shocked as she immediately and without hesitation knew who the sender likely was-
An employee of client who was very recently fired for the following:
Sexual harassment (via direct comments to co-workers, indirect comments to outside-contracted employees, and he also confessed to another worker a predilection for sniffing the office-chairs and other seats of females who were working there)
General ineptitude
A likely connection to some financial fraud & embezzlement.
. . . so this is definitely a quality individual we're talking about and my wife and her co-workers' personal complaints coupled with their other findings were the coup de grâce for his troubled employment.
Now, with the IP address revelation, I've succeeded in completely freaking my wife out and I am trying to figure out how to handle this guy and help her.
I've encouraged her to calmly document it and wait and see if he emails again or threatens her; Doing so with the hopes that he is probably just blowing off some steam.
We've contacted her office's IT dept to sort, save and document any future and current emails from his email addy and/or this specific IP and IP range (we believe some additional emails may be going to her co-workers that were also connected to his employer and firing).
Because my wife has experienced a stalker before the "calmly ignore it" suggestion is falling on deaf ears.
I am reluctant to call the police yet as no threats have been made and, so far, it's just been done via email.
In fairness to her, I don't personally know this man (just his address, neighbors . . etc.) and she does.
From her experience with this guy and his personality she is inclined to think that this will escalate.
Thinking about some guy with a huge grudge and nothing but time on his hands has me worried.
Watching her deal with a stalker once before was terrible, I can't imagine doing it again.
Any advice is appreciated.
My wife is getting insulting emails from an 'anonymous' (or so the sender thinks) emailer with an offensive name.
For reasons I wont mention, this email stood out from the typical spam and junk, upsetting my wife enough to show it to me.
So I "back-traced it" :lol: with the x-header info and needless to say, the guy "dun goofed."
From the IP (a very small town in rural GA) she was shocked as she immediately and without hesitation knew who the sender likely was-
An employee of client who was very recently fired for the following:
Sexual harassment (via direct comments to co-workers, indirect comments to outside-contracted employees, and he also confessed to another worker a predilection for sniffing the office-chairs and other seats of females who were working there)
General ineptitude
A likely connection to some financial fraud & embezzlement.
. . . so this is definitely a quality individual we're talking about and my wife and her co-workers' personal complaints coupled with their other findings were the coup de grâce for his troubled employment.
Now, with the IP address revelation, I've succeeded in completely freaking my wife out and I am trying to figure out how to handle this guy and help her.
I've encouraged her to calmly document it and wait and see if he emails again or threatens her; Doing so with the hopes that he is probably just blowing off some steam.
We've contacted her office's IT dept to sort, save and document any future and current emails from his email addy and/or this specific IP and IP range (we believe some additional emails may be going to her co-workers that were also connected to his employer and firing).
Because my wife has experienced a stalker before the "calmly ignore it" suggestion is falling on deaf ears.
I am reluctant to call the police yet as no threats have been made and, so far, it's just been done via email.
In fairness to her, I don't personally know this man (just his address, neighbors . . etc.) and she does.
From her experience with this guy and his personality she is inclined to think that this will escalate.
Thinking about some guy with a huge grudge and nothing but time on his hands has me worried.
Watching her deal with a stalker once before was terrible, I can't imagine doing it again.
Any advice is appreciated.