I remember when I decided to give the game a try years back and I was in my early to mid 20's and I crashed shortly after joining with one other guy to do some grinding. Well, I came back into the game and the jackass started bitching at me non-stop and then I found out later he was in the largest zerg guild on the server. So he decided to blacklist me and any party I tried to join seemed to of had at least one member and they'd always say "Whelp, it's so and so, either I leave or they do" but far less elegantly. Quit shortly there after since the game crashed a little too frequently for me.
I was reminded on why I hate people who who take MMOs way too seriously, even if that MMO has some exp loss on death.