[quote name='vocab']Fast forward to 3-4 years later. Me and the same friend go to play FO3. This time I have high end hardware, and he has low - mid range hardware. We are both on Windows 7.[/QUOTE]
I'm just going to be nitpicky here, but Fallout 3 came out in fall of 2008. That was just over 2 years ago.
Anyway, the fact remains. Fallout 3 is a mess. Even with all the mods, I couldn't seem to get the game to run for more than a half-hour without a CTD. The mods made it more bearable and gave me a desire to play more, but the mod system is so
ing complicated. The following are mod tools I have downloaded and used to get mods working : Fallout Mod Manager, Fallout Script Extender, FO3Edit, ArchiveInvalidationI Invalidated!, FO3 Configator and BOSS.
BOSS is supposed to help with your load order (you need to load the mods in a certain order otherwise it will cause major problems). Sometimes BOSS works, but there are so many mods (and many different variations of single mods) that there will be still issues if you have play with a ton of mods. Especially the overhaul mods. Fallout 3 is great, but it's just a huge pain in the ass to get it working and then trying to get all the mods working as well.
I wish more games had simple modding like Torchlight. Simply download TorchLeech and you can view and download all the mods via that program without having to deal with all that extra crap in Oblivion/Fallout 3 (I know it's pretty unrealistic with a massive RPG, but I can still dream).