[quote name='VanillaGorilla']Well, when a light is RED, shouldn't someone be in the process of slowing down, and not going 55-60 miles per hour like this guy was? And yes, when a light is red, I expect the driver behind me to see the light, and think to himself "Red means stop, so I should at least slow down". Someone that dangerous behind the wheel could have done a lot more damage. He could have pushed my car onto the sidewalk, which could have injured or killed many people. So, someone who drives recklessly and dies in the process deserves no sympathy from me, when they themselves have no care for their own well being or the well being of others.[/QUOTE]
We've all had momentary lapses of judgement, and I'm sure most people remember a time where they didn't see the red light (either it was newly placed, they were in a strange area and the area didn't seem like a normal place for a light, they were trying to figure out where to go etc.). I understand the reasoning for not caring, but it just seems callous to me. Unless you believe he intentionally hit you or endangered you, I don't understand why you wouldn't show any concern. A person is a lot more than a momentary lapse in judgement, or even their driving ability itself. I know some very good people who suck at driving (one of them even hit a parked cop car, while the cop was in it). Again, if there was reason to believe it was intentional then that's something else.
Though, from my own experience, I almost rammed someone going 60 miles an hour on the highway once. I was going 70 (in a 65), and it was one of the instances were there was a traffic jam ahead but behind it traffic was full speed. I hit my break, and my car slowly creeps down, after about 4 or 5 seconds it was only down to 60 and I figured "I'm going into this guy", suddenly my car started shaking, my breaks sounded like rocks were turning, and my car stopped within inches of the car in front.