[quote name='msdmoney']I generally try to get in 1-2 hours of gaming a day, usually it's how I unwind at the end of my day. Instead of watching TV I play games. I'll generally play more on the weekend, I may play 4-6 hours on a weekend day if I don't have anything going on. But that all depends on other commitments, and especially my work schedule. I may go a whole week without touching any games if I'm working 15 hour days.
To the original poster, 4-5 hours a day would be a lot for me to still balance work + girlfriend, + everything else. But it's all individual. Only you can really judge whether they are being unrealistic, or you really are focusing too much time on gaming at the expense of other commitments.
One thing I have found is that people tend to not look at gaming time the same as they would view tv watching or other hobbies, when talking about how much is too much. Do the family members voicing opinions on how much you game, watch 4-5 hours of tv a night? Does your girlfriend expect you to spend hours of your time with her watching her television shows, while not reciprocating with your gaming? I notice a lot of friends and family's concerns over gaming usually stems from their underlying feelings about the hobby, and not really the amount of time.[/QUOTE]
Yeah actually i never really though about it like that, they do watch probably about the same amount of tv as I do play video games.