Obese Women have a harder time finding a sexual partner than Obese Males.

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LONDON - Scientists say being fat can be bad for the bedroom, especially if you're a woman.

In a new study, European researchers found obese women had more trouble finding a sexual partner than their normal-weight counterparts, though the same wasn't true for obese men, and were four times as likely to have an unplanned pregnancy. Fat men also reported a higher rate of erectile dysfunction.

Experts interviewed nearly 10,000 French men and women aged 18 to 69 about their sexual experiences and analyzed the results based on their Body Mass Index.

Obese women were 30 percent less likely than normal-weight women to have had a sexual partner in the last year. In comparison, there was little difference among obese men and normal-weight men as to whether they found a sexual partner.

The results were published online Wednesday in the medical journal BMJ. The study was paid for by several French government agencies.

People with a BMI of 18-24 are considered to have a healthy weight. Those with a BMI of 25 or above are considered overweight and people with a BMI of 30 or more are classified as obese.

Previous studies have found similar trends, but researchers were surprised by the discrepancy they found between the genders as to how excess weight affects peoples' sex lives.

"Maybe women are more tolerant of tubby husbands than men are of tubby wives," said Kaye Wellings, a professor of sexual and reproductive health at the London School of Hygiene and Tropical Medicine and one of the BMJ study authors.

Experts said the problems faced by obese people were probably due to a combination of physical problems linked to obesity as well as other issues, like low self-esteem and social prejudices.

Obese people are at higher risk anyway for diabetes, depression and urinary stress incontinence, all of which can hinder sex. If people are extremely heavy, they might also have muscular or skeletal problems that make sex challenging.

The researchers found that obese women were less likely to ask for birth control services, and thus, four times more likely to accidentally get pregnant. Pregnant fat women and their babies also faced a higher risk of complications and death than normal-weight women.

Dr. Sandy Goldbeck-Wood, a specialist in psychosexual medicine at a London sexual health clinic, said physicians must talk to obese women about birth control.

"Doctors need to get over their own embarrassment and ask the difficult questions," she said. Goldbeck-Wood was not linked to the study but wrote an accompanying editorial in the BMJ.

Wellings and colleagues found obese men and women with a partner were no different from normal-weight people in terms of how often they had sex.

They also found that women tended to have partners with a similar body shape. Nearly 70 percent of fat women reported having a partner who was also heavy, while only about 40 percent of fat men had a similarly proportioned partner.

Some experts said the growing obesity epidemic in the West would worsen sexual dysfunction problems.

"This is not a heart attack or a stroke...but it's an important quality of life factor and a public health problem," said Dr. Andrew McCullough, an associate professor of clinical urology at New York University of Medicine and director of male sexual health at NYU's Langone Medical Center.

He said the study's findings should provide another reason for people to trim their waistlines.

"It seems like a no-brainer," he said. "If you lose weight, you will feel more attractive and that could improve your sex life."

I would think that "Obese" males would have a much much harder time getting laid or just finding a mate. I guess I'm wrong.
 
Why would they interview a fat 69 year old bitch???

What's the purpose of that?

"Ma'am, is anyone fucking your old, fat ass?"

Plus, I'm sure the French culture is dramatically difference than our US culture, where I'd tear a fattie up...
 
Interesting. I as well thought women would have an easier time. I guess men may be more picky in wanting that attractive wife, but when I think of the feeder community and such, it seems like the females that get all the attention.
 
[quote name='WeaponX2099']I would think that "Obese" males would have a much much harder time getting laid or just finding a mate. I guess I'm wrong.[/QUOTE]

Even fat women have "standards".
 
I always assumed fat girls would have an easier time getting laid, since there are always going to be desperate guys willing to fuck anything with a vagina, no matter how grotesque. Bless their hearts.
 
Obese women have chubby chasers and certain demographic of males who go after fat women. There are a ton of men out there who like their women thick. Fat guys only get laid by fatter women, hookers or by being rich and getting gold diggers.
 
FALSE. Assuming there were equal numbers of men and women, the worst looking dude would be jerking off and the best looking dude would be having a 3-way. Girls can always get laid no matter what. If they aren't then they are not trying hard enough.
 
[quote name='javeryh']FALSE. Assuming there were equal numbers of men and women, the worst looking dude would be jerking off and the best looking dude would be having a 3-way. Girls can always get laid no matter what. If they aren't then they are not trying hard enough.[/QUOTE]

That is the point. Women will focus on trying to have a relationship when the men will focus on showing their "O" face.
 
I would assume big girls are having a harder time getting laid due to the increase in "lift it, fat chicks can't jump" bumper stickers being used. Before people were aware that fat chicks cant jump, they had lower vehicles which allowed big girls to get in. Now with this new information more people are lifting their vehicles thus decreasing the big girl vehicle entrance. I figure this will eventually lead to their extinction
 
[quote name='2DMention']I see alot of fat women who have kids.

I'd be curious to see how this varies among different races in the U.S.[/QUOTE]

Consider how many women keep their weight after childbirth though. Not everyone slims back down afterward. I imagine a lot of fat mothers were skinny or not as fat beforhand.
 
You know what creeps me out. Really hot slim chicks from the waist up that look like that secretary from the Drew Carey show from the waist down.
 
[quote name='crunchb3rry']You know what creeps me out. Really hot slim chicks from the waist up that look like that secretary from the Drew Carey show from the waist down.[/QUOTE]

I hate that. With a desk or table in the way, it fucks you up.
 
Thats bullcrap.

I guarntee you that if a semi attractive guy and a obese woman went into a bar at the same time that obese woman would have a guy out the door for sex before the other guy could even get a conversation going with a woman. A fat woman could turn guys over like dominos if they wanted because on the whole, men are horned up dogs in heat. And no matter what they say about fat women, if they were horny and none of their friends would find out, they would fuck one.
 
[quote name='tankass']No Fat Chicks. there, I said it.[/QUOTE]

Damn it, I came in here just to say that...I figured someone had probably already beat me to the punch though.
 
France USA
It's as simple as that. American men have more or less evolved to tolerate fat chicks than French men. As an un-evolved man in this respect, I'm a little grossed out on a regular basis when my friends keep chubby chasing. I used to think "whatever makes them happy", but now I think "this could be the real reason obesity is on the rise, and you're just contributing to it bro."
 
It's a biased study. French dudes have a higher quality of trim to choose from. Whereas Americans are getting so fat that t-shirt sizes are not even the same as they were a decade ago.
 
Speaking as a male who once had some good "friends" with female French room-mates, I can tell you that French women are hairy, smell like ashtrays and can be very unpleasant. Sweeping generalisation I know, but this thread already has a few and I was feeling left out.
 
I think the one thing that hasn't been mentioned is: When is the last time a guy ever told the truth about how much tang he's getting? I assume this study wasn't done with people following people around to verify. Women are generally more honest about their sausage quantity, but guys? No way. Their tail count is always 5x more than it really is.
 
[quote name='powercreep']I think the one thing that hasn't been mentioned is: When is the last time a guy ever told the truth about how much tang he's getting? I assume this study wasn't done with people following people around to verify. Women are generally more honest about their sausage quantity, but guys? No way. Their tail count is always 5x more than it really is.[/QUOTE]

Are you saying I'm sharing with four other guys?

Man, my wife is a whore and, apparently, I'm not the only guy with this small of a wang.
 
My fat friend has guys all over her all the time, and none of them are overweight. She probably thinks fat guys are gross. Girls have it so easy...
 
Wait. Fat women have harder times finding sex partners (DUH), but are more likely to get accidentally pregnant? How can that be if you need a sex partner to get pregnant accidentally? Clearly they're not having a wide choice of men.
 
[quote name='powercreep']I think the one thing that hasn't been mentioned is: When is the last time a guy ever told the truth about how much tang he's getting? I assume this study wasn't done with people following people around to verify. Women are generally more honest about their sausage quantity, but guys? No way. Their tail count is always 5x more than it really is.[/QUOTE]


Women are just as bad, if not worse, just the opposite. Women love to diminish the amount of dick they've tasted. Shit, many of them dilude themselves to the point where they honestly believe what they're saying; just because they don't want to feel like "a ho."

Hell, my current girlfriend lied to me about it when we first started dating (I didn't ask, she told me). She slipped up a few months later when we were talking casually about our past sexcapades. But I really don't care either way as long as I'm still hittin' it, and she agrees.

I don't really get why people lie about something so stupid. :cool:
 
[quote name='crunchb3rry']It's a biased study. French dudes have a higher quality of trim to choose from. Whereas Americans are getting so fat that t-shirt sizes are not even the same as they were a decade ago.[/QUOTE]

So how long did you live in both countries so you could have a correct observation?

Hate to break it to you but unattractive people are the vast majority of the world. France is a country populated with just early 20's women that are perfect.

Life isnt like the movies where you only find fat people when a comedic bit is needed or some sort of gag thrown in the.
 
I'm a chunky dude(which is why I LOL'd @ Strell's picture of El Hoardo)and I've only had maybe one slimmer chick in my lifetime. The rest have been 'a few extra pounds' to 'WHOA MAMA'.

Fat chicks need love too, ya know. And FYI, they usually bend over backwards to keep yer ass happy.;)
 
[quote name='IAmTheCheapestGamer']And FYI, they usually bend over backwards to keep yer ass happy.;)[/QUOTE]

I'd prefer if they bend over forewards so I can keep their ass happy. :hot:
 
[quote name='gargus']So how long did you live in both countries so you could have a correct observation?
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Seriously dude, are you trying to be King Prick on CAG? Because you are definitely in the running based on 90% of your thread replies.

I'm a large part French and spent plenty of time. I still have family there, close to Paris, not some backwoods hillbilly part of France. People outside our nation are, by large, not nearly as fat as Americans. That is fact. So sit the fuck down.
 
[quote name='crunchb3rry']People outside our nation are, by large, not nearly as fat as Americans. That is fact. So sit the fuck down.[/QUOTE]

While not France, I have been to Spain and crunch is COMPLETELY right. American's are fat. Go to Europe and look at the people. Only the ocean separates us physically, but we're worlds apart besides. Most of it is because of food portions. Those big ol T-bone steaks Americans love don't exist acorss the sea. You have small pieces of meat(LOL!) and that is a single serving. Even something like America's best recent invention, the KFC Double Down, wouldn't fly over there.
 
The double down completely halted my workout progress I was making

It was like I relapsed....until my wallet said "you just ate 7 dollars worth of goodness"
 
Strongpimphand, just going by your sig, but are you from MS? I currently go to MSU, almost went to Ole Miss, and my parents are USM alumni.

Anyway, I haven't been to Europe but I know two or three people who have. They put it exactly like some other users have. Their portions are much smaller over there. As result, their average weight is much lower. Whereas over here, I know plenty of people who are full before they finish their meal when they go out, yet finish it anyway. They don't think twice about it b/c that's just the social norm. After all, they "paid for it" and "there's just not enough left to take home". lol
 
Over here it's the "Baker's Dozen" scenario. They give you massive portions so you don't piss and moan that your meal cost so much and you didn't get a lot. But with some people, they don't like to waste food (especially if the meal is on someone else's dime) so they gorge themselves on the oversized portions.
 
There are groups of guys who get off on fat chick porn. I seriously doubt there are many girls who fantasize about large dudes.
 
[quote name='shieryda']I seriously doubt there are many girls who fantasize about large dudes.[/QUOTE]

You can bet they fantasize about large men with even larger bank accounts. Money puts the blinders on any kind of physical shortcoming.
 
Men are less likely to overlook appearance in favor of personality is my guess.

Sure seems like you I've always seen more overweight guys with attractive girls than overweight girls with attractive guys, so the results don't surprise me.
 
Yea, I just have to assume our cultures are different here in the US than France.I can't tell you how many times I have seen larger woman with skinny ass dudes. I see it all the time. It's funny because I don't see large women with just naturally large (in a healthy way, not like overweight large but just a large male) men. It's really strange how I always see marginally obese women with these super skinny guys. Sometimes the woman are very pretty looking but often times they are nothing to look twice at yet they always got a man. And the guys are often (by my male estimation) not too shabby looking.

Now conversely, I RARELY see an overweight man with a woman who isn't very overweight. Obviously the power players and guys with money can get chicks like that sometimes but I rarely see it under normal circumstances. I don't think big women have nearly as many issues finding an weight weight guy as a big guy does finding a average weight girl. Don't forget all the people that have BBW fetishes and things like that.

There are some really sharp looking bigmen and they still struggle to get sex while I think an attractive looking bigwoman wouldn't have to struggle as hard at all. Yea, she probably wouldn't be able to get action as regularly as the hot average girl but she could still pull a lot more ass than her attractive male counterpart unless he was just a charismatic confident beast.


I mean on TV and Hollywood I see the big guys with hot chicks but on the streets, it's a lot less common than the big chicks with skinny guys.
 
This is obvious! Fat women are just nastier than fat men. Half the time it looks like they have like 3 sets of tits. Not to mention no guy want's to have to hunt through slabs of fat to find the entrance to the fat cave anyway.
 
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