[quote name='BIG5']How do you deal with the leveling problem? Turn down the difficulty? Efficient leveling? I followed efficient leveling up to level 8, which was when I finished the main quest line, but I haven't touched the game since because it got way too restrictive managing skill increases. I want to just PLAY the game without having to worry about over-leveling or wasting skill points. What's the answer? Do I just need to stop being so anal? Help me, I really want to enjoy this game again.[/QUOTE]
I haven't played Oblivion in quite a while but as I remember I didn't really have any problems with the leveling. I just distributed the points equally to each attribute every time I did level up. Some of the accessories/clothing you wear can also help out your points in sneaking, striking, magic, etc.
Also I would do two things at once, for instance I would jump and cast a spell (illusion, summoning, etc.) over and over and over again until I eventually leveled up. The reason I jump over and over again is because if you swim, jump, etc. enough your acrobatics skill would level up. I know that sounds stupid and it's sort of hard to explain but it works.
There are also certain people in the game that can train you, which is essentially you paying to level up.
Also if you read certain books in Oblivion you will level up an attribute, sorta like Fallout 3 does.