I am sure many will disagree with me, but I would suggest going iPad. I have a little tablet experience (NookColor, Xoom, Asus Transformer, Xoom FE, HP Touchpad, iPad 3) and I've given android many chances. The main problem you start to see with android is the future, which is not a problem with the iPad.
Lets look at the Xoom FE. When this released, it was on android 3.1 despite 3.2 being out. The original Xoom was given 4.0 (ICS), but the FE was still on 3.1. While the FE was brand new, cost more and all that, it wasn't expected to get ICS till Q2?! The update came out in December and it takes 5+ months to port it to your device? The Xyboard, which was another updated Xoom was expected for Q3... so you start to see painfully slow updates. This is a problem across android and while you can root it, not everyone is looking for that much effort. A lot of tablets go in a limbo waiting for an update.
For this alone I went iPad, though if you're okay with being on one firmware for a while or hacking it... you might want to try one at BestBuy.