[quote name='lain21us'][. The only incentive for posting a deal, really, is earning the respect of the CAG community. .[/quote]
this is the best point made here.... people are in no way required to post anything about the deals they find. Most could probably care less about earning the respect of other CAG members, they could just take advantage of the deal themselves and let everyone else here find out when it's old news.... all the while taking advantage of the deals that everyone else are posting.
That's gonna suck cause we will inevitably miss out on a cool deal(or get in on it really late) because the guy who finds the deal is basically thinking "screw those jerks it's not worth the trouble, they can find out about it themselves"... never posting, only taking advantage of what others have found.
..and as far as this whole thing about people being scared of being flamed, get serious. We know it's not about that, it's about these people perceiving that most people on the forum are jerks... so why bother contributing to the site when they can just sit back and take advantage of other people's finds.
seriously though, asking for some confirmation(is possible for the OP) is one thing by why auto-flame new people that might be helping you out? To get the most out of this site(I would think) you'd really need everyone to want to help eachother out.