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I was thinking that I'm young, and I'm probably gonna fuck up quite a lot of things in my life from now until when I die. I'm going to end up regretting a lot of things.

What do you regret doing/not doing when you were a younger person?
 
In all honesty, I regret letting my mom's emotional and physical issues dictate my choices in life. Because I am an only child of a divorced parent and was raised to respect family (in general a good thing, I'm not dissing that part), I didn't do a lot of things because my mom wasn't healthy. I wanted to teach overseas, travel more, move to different parts of the country, and I didn't. I ended up resenting her far too much for MY choices, but they weren't 100% my choices, iykwim.

If there's something you want to do, that's a reasonable life decision, even if those in your family may not be happy with it, do it. It's better to have short term bad feelings than long term resentment.

A word of advice is if you're planning on getting education, do as much as you can before having a spouse/family. I see SO many people who take 10 years to get through a four year degree, because people vastly underestimate how truly difficult it is to make a marriage and family work, without adding the pressure of school.
 
In my opinion, everything that do in life, defines who you are, even the choices that you now regret. Therefore, don't be regretting bad decisions that can't be changed, instead realize how they affected your outlook on life and how it made you who you are and be determined to learn something from them.
 
[quote name='ItsTrueItsTrue92']I regret not being more aggressive throughout my adolescence with certain females.[/quote]

HERE HERE


Glad to see no one has thrown out the stupid "I have no regrets" card.
 
[quote name='ItsTrueItsTrue92']I regret not being more aggressive throughout my adolescence with certain females.[/QUOTE]



this and the first three years of college
 
I really shouldn't say this, because this will just lead to people making fun of me again, but I'm going to be 100% honest here.

-Getting a driver's license. Getting it while you're 16-18 is much easier than your 20's. When you're young, you really want freedom now, more energetic and willing to take risks, along with less experience (when you hear about friends getting into series wrecks around your age, or even being in an accident yourself, it makes wanting a license go down). When you get older, too many other things on your mind, not as energetic about wanting freedom (because you'll pretty much get it when you go away to college), and so on, it just gets way harder. My recommendation would be to learn to drive as soon as you can, but please be responsible and not do stupid stuff like some Teen Driver's do.

-Not doing more with my true friends over the years. I constantly hung out with people who were the wrong people to hang out with. They made fun of me for racial stuff, gave me a hard time over stuff, and so on, but I continued staying close with them. It only made me dislike people more. If I were to spend more time with a few people I knew, who didn't make fun of me, probably had more similar interests as me, I would have been better off. Part of it had to do with, just wanting to hang with the popular folks. My recommendation is, hang with people who are nice to you, share the most interests with you, regardless if they are popular or not. You'll be happier that way.

-Not asking out a girl at another H.S., who I'd see at every football game. She was the girl I really wanted and by the way she looked, she was the girl I really wanted. I knew her name and everything, but never had the courage to ask her out. I missed the opportunity 4 times. My recommendation is to ask a girl out, regardless of how tough it is.

-Spending tons of money on video games and having a collection of over 600 games I one point. I use to think competiting for the biggest game collection along with having a crapload of games would make me happy, but it ended up depressing me more. That's why I've sold off a ton of games. Feel better now, but would still like to get rid of more. My recommendation is only buy what you have time to play, unless you're very rich and buying many games won't put any dent in your income.

-Kind of regret not changing my major earlier to something computer programming related (instead of Electrical Engineer). I like electronics, but I prefer computer programming. However, at the time I chose my major, I never had any computer programming and never thought I'd like it. As a recommendation, try a little of everything early on, to see what you like.

-Kind of regret choosing summer school over summer interns. Interns give you more work experience along with better confidence in the work environment. Summer school might get you ahead class wise, but put you behind in the workforce IMO.
 
Not having sex with certain women when I had the chance. Usually there is a reason like someone cock-blocking me or I have an headache or something...
 
Joining the Marines! Leaving an awesome girlfriend who dumped me while I was at bootcamp really messed me up. I'm out now after five years and found a job working on planes, but I still sometimes wonder if going off to the military was better for me than to go straight to college, or f*cking off for a year. It seems that I am ahead of my peers career wise, but they had more fun along the way. But running into people from hs that never got out of the whole drug thing makes me feel pretty good about joining up when I did. The big thing that I've learned is to never pass up on an opportunity to try something different or let being uncomfortable keep you from succeeding. The whole Carpe Diem phrase rings true here. Why keep fear of anything(girls, trips, career choices) from bringing you happiness? No matter how bad the mistakes you make in life are, nothing will keep you awake at night like the opportunities you passed up on.
 
Honestly my life regrets are weird.
I don't look at big things and go "OH SHIT, I REALLY WISH I HAD____" because I would be different today. I
 
[quote name='lilboo']Honestly my life regrets are weird.
I don't look at big things and go "OH SHIT, I REALLY WISH I HAD____" because I would be different today. I
 
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[quote name='Ugamer_X']Not buying that bulletproof vest.[/quote]

What about shouting "fuck" several times in front of your PE teacher while a black kid was throwing dodgeballs at you?
 
[quote name='Access_Denied']Wait, let me get this straight. You ex-boyfriend is bisexual, and you stole his bisexual boyfriend away from him?[/quote]

Thats what I got out of that too.
 
Really only one thing I can think of right now.

Not talking to girls. I mean where I go to school most girls look like they just been on MTV, but there are some that don't. I regret not getting to know some of them. Then again I am one of the shyest fuckers ever, lol. :cry:
 
I co-signed on a car with a gal and she turned out to be a bitch who never made car payments and fucked up my credit.

I also regret my senioritis in high school, if I hadn't slacked off in the last year, I would've had a completely different life.
 
[quote name='lilboo']My regrets are so dumb. I'm someone that takes so long to order food because I'm always torn between 2 choices. I always get one, and wish I had gotten the other. Sadly, those kind of things are what I regret the most. Food. Can you fuckin believe it? What a fat asshole I am.[/quote]

Must be common amongst all us fat people. I do the same thing with restaurants. It will take me a good ten minutes to decide where I want to go to, or order from, and then I get into the price battle. Then I spend a half hour debating with myself which place gives you best deal for the price. A giant pain in the ass.

The only thing I regret is not staying in touch with my old friends from school, or childhood. Doesn't really bother me that much though.

Forgot one thing I regret so much. My semi-step sister (Dad never married her mother) had a crush on me, and I know I could have hit that now. I was too damn young to realize it, and now she's married. I could have been one of the cool kids who lost their virginity before they hit puberty. :(
 
I think you should regret actually regretting that. You would NOT have been a cool kid if you lost your virginity to your sister, no matter how unrelated she was :)
 
[quote name='Okari']Must be common amongst all us fat people. I do the same thing with restaurants. It will take me a good ten minutes to decide where I want to go to, or order from, and then I get into the price battle. Then I spend a half hour debating with myself which place gives you best deal for the price. A giant pain in the ass.

The only thing I regret is not staying in touch with my old friends from school, or childhood. Doesn't really bother me that much though.

Forgot one thing I regret so much. My semi-step sister (Dad never married her mother) had a crush on me, and I know I could have hit that now. I was too damn young to realize it, and now she's married. I could have been one of the cool kids who lost their virginity before they hit puberty. :([/quote]
I fucking hate people like both of you. The people that sit there and stare at the menu for 10 god damned minutes while theres a line a mile long behind you, and your holding it up making my life more difficult. Sheesh, just pick something. So next time your thinking about being a prick and holding everyone else up, just think we can make KillJoi's life easier if we just fucking pick something, and you'll feel good no matter what you choose.

/rant.

THINK NEXT TIME!
 
[quote name='KillJoi99']I fucking hate people like both of you. The people that sit there and stare at the menu for 10 god damned minutes while theres a line a mile long behind you, and your holding it up making my life more difficult. Sheesh, just pick something. So next time your thinking about being a prick and holding everyone else up, just think we can make KillJoi's life easier if we just fucking pick something, and you'll feel good no matter what you choose.

/rant.

THINK NEXT TIME![/QUOTE]

10 minutes? OH NOES that's 10 minutes you could be using to play gamezz!!!

Boo hoo.
 
[quote name='The Mana Knight']I really shouldn't say this, because this will just lead to people making fun of me again, but I'm going to be 100% honest here.

-Getting a driver's license. Getting it while you're 16-18 is much easier than your 20's. When you're young, you really want freedom now, more energetic and willing to take risks, along with less experience (when you hear about friends getting into series wrecks around your age, or even being in an accident yourself, it makes wanting a license go down). When you get older, too many other things on your mind, not as energetic about wanting freedom (because you'll pretty much get it when you go away to college), and so on, it just gets way harder. My recommendation would be to learn to drive as soon as you can, but please be responsible and not do stupid stuff like some Teen Driver's do.

-Not doing more with my true friends over the years. I constantly hung out with people who were the wrong people to hang out with. They made fun of me for racial stuff, gave me a hard time over stuff, and so on, but I continued staying close with them. It only made me dislike people more. If I were to spend more time with a few people I knew, who didn't make fun of me, probably had more similar interests as me, I would have been better off. Part of it had to do with, just wanting to hang with the popular folks. My recommendation is, hang with people who are nice to you, share the most interests with you, regardless if they are popular or not. You'll be happier that way.

-Not asking out a girl at another H.S., who I'd see at every football game. She was the girl I really wanted and by the way she looked, she was the girl I really wanted. I knew her name and everything, but never had the courage to ask her out. I missed the opportunity 4 times. My recommendation is to ask a girl out, regardless of how tough it is.

-Spending tons of money on video games and having a collection of over 600 games I one point. I use to think competiting for the biggest game collection along with having a crapload of games would make me happy, but it ended up depressing me more. That's why I've sold off a ton of games. Feel better now, but would still like to get rid of more. My recommendation is only buy what you have time to play, unless you're very rich and buying many games won't put any dent in your income.

-Kind of regret not changing my major earlier to something computer programming related (instead of Electrical Engineer). I like electronics, but I prefer computer programming. However, at the time I chose my major, I never had any computer programming and never thought I'd like it. As a recommendation, try a little of everything early on, to see what you like.

-Kind of regret choosing summer school over summer interns. Interns give you more work experience along with better confidence in the work environment. Summer school might get you ahead class wise, but put you behind in the workforce IMO.[/QUOTE]

Wow, we have a lot in common. That's freaking scary.

Top regrets:

1) Not being more active in life.

2) Unhealthy Addiction to Games.

3) Going to my old HS, instead of the one I was supposed to.

4) Giving up on my original goal of writing.

5) Being extremely reclusive in my childhood

6) Falling in love with a alcoholic whore.

7) Giving up on the other girl I had strong feelings for.

Lots of regrets, and I constantly think about them. I'm trying to learn to put all that behind me. The past is the past, etc etc.
 
[quote name='Moxio']10 minutes? OH NOES that's 10 minutes you could be using to play gamezz!!!

Boo hoo.[/quote]

No. I am speaking for the worker who has to take that dumbasses order along with the 50 people behind him.
 
[quote name='KillJoi99']I fucking hate people like both of you. The people that sit there and stare at the menu for 10 god damned minutes while theres a line a mile long behind you, and your holding it up making my life more difficult. Sheesh, just pick something. So next time your thinking about being a prick and holding everyone else up, just think we can make KillJoi's life easier if we just fucking pick something, and you'll feel good no matter what you choose.

/rant.

THINK NEXT TIME![/quote]

I don't waste time with the menu. I'm picky when it comes to food, so I know exactly what I want before I even go inside. It's just the whole figuring out where to eat process that kills me.

I'll be sure to take 20 minutes now just for you. :)
 
My biggest regret is not following the career path that I now know that I truly wanted to do. My job title is Systems Support Specialist (aka Help Desk) for a small clothing company in the Bay Area. This is my first tech job and I've been there for about 2 months, and I know that I have a long road ahead of me and plenty to learn. The potential of getting a good salary for tech jobs is nice, but at the same time I've always wanted to dive into Culinary Arts. While it might not pay as much as jobs in the computer industry, Culinary is another thing that has always caught my interest.
 
This one time I went on a two-day drug binge and blew all my money, then got arrested.

Afterwards, I decided the best course of action was to talk about it on the internet,
 
[quote name='Haggar']Many things, but mostly not having a better relationship with my father, and now that he's dead, I never will.[/quote]

Was one of them becoming the Mayor of Metro City?
 
I'd say my only regrets thus far are:

1) over looking the girls in high school that were in to me, while I went after the unattainable girls
and
2) allow a manipulative bitch walk all over me for a year. I should have called shit quits at like 4 months or so.
 
[quote name='Full_Throttle']What about shouting "fuck" several times in front of your PE teacher while a black kid was throwing dodgeballs at you?[/quote]

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
 
Leasing a brand new Pontiac G6 when they first came out. Tried to impress my well-off girlfriend at the time and it ruined my life. $713/month from car payment and insurance and I was only 20. Couldn't go to school, had to work 3 jobs to make sure I had enough $$$ to pay all my bills. Yeah...big regret there.
 
my biggest one so far is running out in front of a cavalier that was doing 40.
fucked up my leg pretty bad.


future regret i can see coming a mile away:
not calling the hot girl in my art class that wants me. =(
 
Watching Gundam Wing when I was poor misguided young adult for starters.

But on a more serious note I have plenty of deep seeded life alternating regrets, but I strongly believe posting them here will serve as nothing more than yet another monumental step in the wrong direction. I don't need any reminders of the path I should have taken but rather the unyielding courage and motivation required in order to get over the past already and move on.
 
Not going to college. But I'm going to change that. . .

Also, I regret not playing drums earlier, like when I was 15 or something. Shit, I'd be godlike right now.;)
 
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