gregthomas77
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OK, so if you have been reading this thread, I decided earlier to save what I can while staying where I am. And, I just found out that I made this decision none to soon.
Turns out, even though this whole thing was my mother in law's idea, she had not even talked to my father in law about it until today (she proposed this to us weeks ago). His response was that he was ok with it, as long as we didn't try to live there permanently and as long as our mother in law put together a list of rules before we moved in. Right away, this tells me he does not like this idea, and, it turns out, when she brought it up to him, she told him we asked for this. TOTAL BULLSHIT.
Luckily, she told us this after we called to tell her we weren't taking her up on the offer. Now I have to talk to my father in law about this because I don't want the weirdness that I am willing to bet will arise from it being presented to him as if we were trying to impose on him.
I figure there are a lot of "told you so"'s coming. At least we didn't decide to say yes, because it looks like it could have gotten really ugly.
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OK, so I thought I would take a poll and see what the collective CAG intelligence thinks of my situation.
I am currently living in a home that I rent (its a nice home and my rent is 800 a month), and given my financial situation, it seems like I am going to be renting for the rest of forever (I have no savings to speak of, and as of right now I am not making enough to really start to build any at this point and time). However, things are still good, as I love the house (it has a workshop for all of my woodworking, and it is about a mile from my work) and my wife and kids do too.
Recently, I have been presented with an offer. My in-laws bought a house recently, and they have several extra rooms in the house. Furthermore, my father in law is not in the country because he is an overseas contractor. With all of this in mind, my mother in law has suggested that I move my family into her house (and pay nothing except groceries) for a year or two to put money away for a deposit on a home. I have done the math, and if we moved in with the in laws, I could easily bank (I do have other bills I would have to continue to pay) 25,000 into savings in a years time. However, in return for that, I would:
1. be living with my mother in law
2. be about a 25 miles from work (I have figured the gas into my costs)
3. have to get rid of most of my possessions (I have a house full of furniture) or store them (which I probably wouldn't do)
I don't think I could manage more than one year, but 25,000 (maybe more) in cash could go a long way toward getting a home. (By the way, in my area, a nice home will run me between 125 to 200 thousand).
What would you do?
OK, so if you have been reading this thread, I decided earlier to save what I can while staying where I am. And, I just found out that I made this decision none to soon.
Turns out, even though this whole thing was my mother in law's idea, she had not even talked to my father in law about it until today (she proposed this to us weeks ago). His response was that he was ok with it, as long as we didn't try to live there permanently and as long as our mother in law put together a list of rules before we moved in. Right away, this tells me he does not like this idea, and, it turns out, when she brought it up to him, she told him we asked for this. TOTAL BULLSHIT.
Luckily, she told us this after we called to tell her we weren't taking her up on the offer. Now I have to talk to my father in law about this because I don't want the weirdness that I am willing to bet will arise from it being presented to him as if we were trying to impose on him.
I figure there are a lot of "told you so"'s coming. At least we didn't decide to say yes, because it looks like it could have gotten really ugly.
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OK, so I thought I would take a poll and see what the collective CAG intelligence thinks of my situation.
I am currently living in a home that I rent (its a nice home and my rent is 800 a month), and given my financial situation, it seems like I am going to be renting for the rest of forever (I have no savings to speak of, and as of right now I am not making enough to really start to build any at this point and time). However, things are still good, as I love the house (it has a workshop for all of my woodworking, and it is about a mile from my work) and my wife and kids do too.
Recently, I have been presented with an offer. My in-laws bought a house recently, and they have several extra rooms in the house. Furthermore, my father in law is not in the country because he is an overseas contractor. With all of this in mind, my mother in law has suggested that I move my family into her house (and pay nothing except groceries) for a year or two to put money away for a deposit on a home. I have done the math, and if we moved in with the in laws, I could easily bank (I do have other bills I would have to continue to pay) 25,000 into savings in a years time. However, in return for that, I would:
1. be living with my mother in law
2. be about a 25 miles from work (I have figured the gas into my costs)
3. have to get rid of most of my possessions (I have a house full of furniture) or store them (which I probably wouldn't do)
I don't think I could manage more than one year, but 25,000 (maybe more) in cash could go a long way toward getting a home. (By the way, in my area, a nice home will run me between 125 to 200 thousand).
What would you do?