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people seriously worry too much about fucking everything.  there is not a single thing you can do about the speed at which you hurtle towards old age - you can deflect some of the external signs of wear by eating at least a little healthy, actually using your body sometimes and sleeping reasonable amounts but if you don't give a fuck about that on a semi-daily basis you shouldn't complain about the results.  and it's just not a big deal.  that grey hair.  the stretch marks from being pregnant.  the lines under your eyes.  all of it tells a part of your history like the rings of a tree and you can wear it with pride as something you lived through or as a reminder to not make the mistakes you made in the past.  whatever.  but fretting over little inconsequential shit like that is what makes you feel old.

 
qbanita said:
I'm just more sensitive to it since I was chunky in middle school, then dropped my weight in high school and was always made fun of regardless. Me not losing weight I guess reminds me of that. I've gotten a lot better at getting over it, but some days it comes back.

As far as fun, I want to join a bowling team. I loved doing that, I don't know anyone who bowls in real life though. I would do soccer but I have bad knees
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Take solace in the fact that those middle school assholes, are now old assholes. Who have probably gotten fat, and ugly, and have terrible personalities, and their favorite TV show is the biggest loser. Followed closely by the bachelor and fuller house.

 
Speaking of hair stuff, When I was put on an anti-depressant last year I developed alopecia areata. I have 3 spots on my neck/beard area and one huge one on the side of my head. I've grown my hair out now so you can barely notice it, and just have to keep my face clean shaven. We don't know if the medication caused it, the stress I was under, or a combo of both. Basically it causes your immune system to see hair follicles as a foreign body and it attacks them. Shit sucks. Started out as a quarter-sized circle I noticed after a haircut and ended up being probably baseball-sized or bigger. One of the three spots on my beard area is pretty huge as well, pretty much the whole left side or my neck.

Now I have hair a little over 1/4 inch long in the spot on my head, but it's clear and fuzzy, like a peach. No telling when it'll be back to normal. My self-esteem took a pretty big hit from it to begin with but I finally realized it wasn't a big deal. I have a woman at home that loves me anyway and no need to look good for anyone else.

So like Gator said I just said fuck it and moved on since I couldn't change it. Maybe that helps a little Q.

 
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Zimm108 said:
qbanita said:
I'm happy, but it's like I have issues I didn't used to have.

I know once thing that's frustrating me is that I still haven't gotten to my pre pregnancy size, and I don't think I ever will. My weight completely redistributed itself. I have these damn massive thighs and butt now, and while I know my husband loves it, it's frustrating buying pants and seeing my old tiny ass pants in the closet. My metabolism has already changed. I have a crap of white hairs that I need to dye all the time.

I guess this is more a girl problem though.
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What the hell is that thing?
 
Getting old sucks, I just turned 32. I seem to have gotten lucky with that Scott Wolf syndrome from that show Party of Five though, where everybody just assumes I'm 23 or so, which makes me feel good. Chicks are generally amazed when I tell them how old I am. I even have the beard going strong for past few months and still look like a damn kid lol. 

Also I think I'm gonna go ahead and pull the trigger on Bully, I don't have the self control to wait for sales on games like this smh

 
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GatorBeerGeek said:
Not sure how beer is any different than other alcohol in terms of making you sleepy. I could see it making a difference for the heartburn stuff though.
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Its very different for me. halfway through 2 beers at home and im done. I can have two big rum and cokes and still be good. beer just makes me sleepy.

 
Backlog_Overload said:
Speaking of hair stuff, When I was put on an anti-depressant last year I developed alopecia areata. I have 3 spots on my neck/beard area and one huge one on the side of my head. I've grown my hair out now so you can barely notice it, and just have to keep my face clean shaven. We don't know if the medication caused it, the stress I was under, or a combo of both. Basically it causes your immune system to see hair follicles as a foreign body and it attacks them. Shit sucks. Started out as a quarter-sized circle I noticed after a haircut and ended up being probably baseball-sized or bigger. One of the three spots on my beard area is pretty huge as well, pretty much the whole left side or my neck.

Now I have hair a little over 1/4 inch long in the spot on my head, but it's clear and fuzzy, like a peach. No telling when it'll be back to normal. My self-esteem took a pretty big hit from it to begin with my I finally realized it wasn't a big deal. I have a woman at home that loves me anyway and no need to look good for anyone else.

So like Gator said I just said fuck it and moved on since I couldn't change it. Maybe that helps a little Q.
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Thanks.

Look I never post anymore cause I'm all busy and when I come back I go all emotional on you guys. Sorry!!!!

As far as the alopecia I had a coworker who got it, the doctor told him it was stress. To either get rid of his girl or his job. He minimized his stress and it started growing back like a year later.
 
Wow that Thighmaster commercial is pure comedy gold.  I think my favorite part may be the man and woman using it for an upper body workout while they fuck each other with their eyes while avoiding the glare of their bright neon workout clothes.

 
qbanita said:
Thanks.

Look I never post anymore cause I'm all busy and when I come back I go all emotional on you guys. Sorry!!!!

As far as the alopecia I had a coworker who got it, the doctor told him it was stress. To either get rid of his girl or his job. He minimized his stress and it started growing back like a year later.
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Yeah I was really worried and depressed about the whole divorce and kid situation. Once I realized the worrying didn't help things my life has been much better. Not perfect, but better. Like I said my hair is back but not at full strength. It still looks bald unless you're inspecting it. I mean the beard parts are still gone but I've never been able to grow a beard anyway so no worries there. Just sucks that it happened where my goatee was, the only facial hair I could grow.

 
MildObstruction said:
people seriously worry too much about fucking everything. there is not a single thing you can do about the speed at which you hurtle towards old age - you can deflect some of the external signs of wear by eating at least a little healthy, actually using your body sometimes and sleeping reasonable amounts but if you don't give a fuck about that on a semi-daily basis you shouldn't complain about the results. and it's just not a big deal. that grey hair. the stretch marks from being pregnant. the lines under your eyes. all of it tells a part of your history like the rings of a tree and you can wear it with pride as something you lived through or as a reminder to not make the mistakes you made in the past. whatever. but fretting over little inconsequential shit like that is what makes you feel old.
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And stay the fuck out of the sun, young CAGs.

 
MildObstruction said:
people seriously worry too much about fucking everything. there is not a single thing you can do about the speed at which you hurtle towards old age - you can deflect some of the external signs of wear by eating at least a little healthy, actually using your body sometimes and sleeping reasonable amounts but if you don't give a fuck about that on a semi-daily basis you shouldn't complain about the results. and it's just not a big deal. that grey hair. the stretch marks from being pregnant. the lines under your eyes. all of it tells a part of your history like the rings of a tree and you can wear it with pride as something you lived through or as a reminder to not make the mistakes you made in the past. whatever. but fretting over little inconsequential shit like that is what makes you feel old.
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It takes someone pretty self-actualized to really live like that tho. I wouldn't be surprised if you are Mild, but it's still much easier to say than to do.

 
simmias said:
I need to check my mailbox more often. Got a $23 class action check and coupons for two free delicious E.Coli burritos.
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If that's chipotle I wouldn't go

I gave mine to someone at work

My husband and I ate at two different ones and both got really sick. Never again.
 
I know Susanne Summers mostly as a punchline, so I don't count myself as old on that one. Woohoo young! Gonna go listen to some TLOP. Young people are still listening to that, right?

 
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MildObstruction said:
people seriously worry too much about fucking everything. there is not a single thing you can do about the speed at which you hurtle towards old age - you can deflect some of the external signs of wear by eating at least a little healthy, actually using your body sometimes and sleeping reasonable amounts but if you don't give a fuck about that on a semi-daily basis you shouldn't complain about the results. and it's just not a big deal. that grey hair. the stretch marks from being pregnant. the lines under your eyes. all of it tells a part of your history like the rings of a tree and you can wear it with pride as something you lived through or as a reminder to not make the mistakes you made in the past. whatever. but fretting over little inconsequential shit like that is what makes you feel old.
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So true. My ex wife worries about everything and its the main reason I divorced her. #divorcetalk

As much as I hate everything I dont truly worry about much of anything. Shit is the way it is and I cant change anything on my own so I dont worry about it. Do I wish certain things were different? Sure. Do I bitch about them sometimes? Sure. But I dont really worry about them.

I also have the worst diet of anyone I know and yet have 0 health problems from it. No heartburn, regular bowel movements etc with no issues.

Seriously hope that wasnt too condescending. Wait, am I worrying about something now? Oh God please help me!

 
I'm all for a healthy and active lifestyle but life is too damn short to really get depressed about things you can't control. Not worth that kind of negative energy.
 
My family is Dutch aka white as fuck so I have to later up in SPFs every time I go out anywhere in the summer. Every one of my aunts and uncles have skin cancers removed and most of them have wrinkly old skin like that trucker guy in the picture (to be fair two of them worked construction and another one is in his car all day like that trucker).

 
AvengedBacklog said:
I'm all for a healthy and active lifestyle but life is too damn short to really get depressed about things you can't control. Not worth that kind of negative energy.
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I'd love to live this way but unfortunately, having actual clinical depression, it's next to impossible. Somedays I just feel like shit and that the entire world sucks and there's nothing I can do about it. I will say surrounding myself with positive people(aka, people who aren't my ex) has helped tremendously though. I just take it day by day and try to focus on the good things in life.

 
I eat and drink unhealthy food every single day and other than being maybe 10-15 pounds heavier than ideal I am in damn near perfect health for such a terrible diet.

I feel really lucky I can eat pretty much anything and everything and not be 300 bills.

Every time someone questions my diet or what I am eating or looks at me funny cause I tell them I eat Celeste frozen microwaveable pizza, I just remind them that they, like me, are going to die some day and we dont know when so might as well do what you want to do as long as your not hurting anyone else.

#noworries

 
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qbanita said:
I know none of you probably will understand, since I think the majority of you all are in your 30s? But ever since I turned 27 I feel old. I wonder if it's because I'm going to hit 30 soon? I don't even get carded anymore....I always thought I had a baby face :(
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LOL.
 
Zimm108 said:
What the hell is a TLOP? Jesus
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It's the newest trendy thing I could think of, it's Kanye's new album.

And my friend showed me the supposed "best" track on it and it was fucking dogshit. So yeah I'm not cool at all. Felt exactly like that South Park episode where Stan puts on headphones and the music just sounds like shit.

 
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