[quote name='speedracer']I've really enjoyed reading this thread and wanted to contribute, but couldn't really find anything more to add. I'm in the same place Javery is ($200k+ annual pre tax income) and yet and I certainly don't feel rich in any way apart from this weird external sort of realization that I'm

ing fabulously wealthy.
Anyway, this page really spoke to how I personally feel about being rich and not at the same time. It's a great read if you've got 5 minutes.
http://sociology.ucsc.edu/whorulesamerica/power/investment_manager.html[/QUOTE]
Welcome to the club! This seems strangely reminiscent to where I really entered the vs thread. Though *technically* I'm not in the club any more, I know what you're feeling. Try not to take it too personally when you get pelted with the "you're rich, dont complain" lines.
[quote name='dmaul1114']Well, the key to security is to not live like you make $200k+ even though you do.
Live way under your new means and you can save a lot more toward retirement, pay down any debts quickly etc.
Too many people see a big income increase and go and up their lifestyle to where they still can't save a whole lot more than they did before.
The key is to find the right balance. Up your lifestyle some to take some advantage of your hard work and having more money, but don't go crazy with it and still focus on living well below your means and saving up.[/QUOTE]
Having savings and all is nice, but you'll still never quite feel rich (at least I didnt/wont) until you have "

you!" money. You still will always know that your lifestyle could collapse, even catastrophically, if "something bad" happens. To me that's the difference between "comfortable" and "rich", but I see many make no such distinction.
[quote name='dmaul1114']While I agree with what you're saying generally, I don't think many people really aspire to be rich. I think most people know that realistically it's probably not going to happen for them.
Most people I know just strive for a comfortable living. Being able to afford a decent house in a decent neighborhood, own a decent car, have no worries in paying for utilities (including luxuries like internet and cable/satellite) or taking a family vacation every summer etc.[/QUOTE]
I'd generally agree with this. It seems some on the boards though think that even this is 'extravagant'.
I've always thought the American dream was more that--the notion that you can work hard and at least achieve a nice, middle-class lifestyle.
Of course, for many even reaching that level of success is difficult do to all the obstacles they were born into, so the American Dream--even at this level--is a farce for many.
This is what I refuse to believe, though. There is no doubt that some have more obstacles to overcome than others, but I've been of the belief that far too many people 'give up' in the face of these obstacles rather than take advantage of the help that is available to them. Today, in this economy it's much harder, but I saw this 'giving up' even during the high times of the late 90's. People who had access to the tools to "move up", didnt go after them because doing so would be 'uncomfortable'. I'd rather focus on those that are at the end of their rope.
But I've not known many people who actively believed they could achieve more than that and truly had a goal of being a millionaire etc. Most just want job security and enough money for a nice middle-class lifestyle and a decent retirement.
I never thought much about being a millionaire, but now, I know I *will* be one. Of course, being a millionaire is not what it used to be so it's more of a hollow achievement now.:lol: