[quote name='Retom7']I suppose there are those who had gay sex as teens even though they were straight, but thank god none of my friends ever propositioned me for it. I never got into the idea of being naked around my male friends let alone experimenting with them. I wonder just how common of an occurance that really is or if you're justifying your decision to take a dick in your ass? I've heard of little kids (like gradeschoolers) who experimented before anyone knew what sex was, or being forced to by parents or friends of the family or something.
I have no problems with people having gay sex, but since the curiousity has never been there to even diddle my brown eye with a finger, I'm confident that I would turn down any open offers. It's hard enough to think about the idea of getting a doctor to check me out sooner or later... why can't they just use a damn camera??[/QUOTE]
Its not a justification it is perfectly common. First off in my case I was a fat loser kid that had no shot with girls, I needed to get laid and I took what I got. I never thought sexually about guys and never have since. Iv been married for 2 years and with my wife for 7 years. Iv had a threesome with her and another girl before and she lets me sleep with other women as long as I am safe about it(meaning no strangers, use a condom and dont hit on her family). I think as far as straight guys go its pretty obvious I am not a closet case
. That said if something happened to her and I was in some odd situation where my only way to get laid was with a guy, I would not be surprised if I took that shot.
Its not uncommon though. Look at men in prison and the way that on the outside most of them live perfectly heterosexual life styles yet when presented with no other option they will perform homosexual acts regularly. Then there are all the cultures that have existed throughout history that did not look down on this type of behavior or actually encouraged it. I believe it was the Greeks that actually encouraged their young men to sleep with each other at one point in time as a deterrent to teenage pregnancy. They recognized that boys just have that urge to
all the time and recognized that they would either impregnate a lot of teen girls or worse rape women in general.
Iv read a lot of books on this subject and find it really fascinating in general. I think people just have such a stick up their ass about it now days, every man must be really macho and tough and as a result cant even begin to question their own sexuality. Look at the way that women make out with each other in bars and have a higher level of openly bisexual women. Its because we sexualize women in our culture so its not just acceptable but actually hot for women to be bisexual or in many cases not actually bisexual but open enough to do something with another women and realize it does not make them gay/bi. Its actually really sad. I did stuff with I think 3 or 4 guys and all of them are straight except one and all of them try and act super macho and tough. The 1 guy that ended up being gay says he was with quite a few people we know that are straight and that most of them act the same way(and that Im the only straight guy that admits openly stuff happened). Sometimes I wonder if most of the guys out there that act like alpha males and wig out about homosexuals had gay experiences themselves as young teens(or have regular thoughts at least)and do it just as a defense mechanism.
Low blow strell.
