Are girls with boyfreinds off limits?

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Well?

I mean, there is this girl, and we hit it off really well, and she keeps giving me signals and stuff... but the thing is that she has a boyfreind.

and uh, yeah, does "stealing" a girl make you a bad person?

eh, life is for living, you gotta take risks.
 
Think of it if you're the boyfriend. I did vote for no since I believe everyone has the right to make up their mind on who they want to be with. That being said, I never even look at a girl if she's with a dude. If she's by herself, that's another story.
 
[quote name='Ikohn4ever']they usually like people who spell boyfriend right[/QUOTE]

Hehe, that's what's wrong with the title.

No wait, it's spelled wrong in the OP too.


Touché.
 
Look at it this way - any gal willing to dump her current boyfriend to be with you will likely be willing to dump you to be with another guy later.

It's kinda like a "those what will gossip to you will gossip about you" type of deal.
 
[quote name='captainfrizo']Look at it this way - any gal willing to dump her current boyfriend to be with you will likely be willing to dump you to be with another guy later.

It's kinda like a "those what will gossip to you will gossip about you" type of deal.[/QUOTE]Yeah, that's my position on it, too.
 
Women are never off limits and you can probably rationalize away any misgivings you have about butting into someone else's relationship. Happens more than we'd like to admit.

The problem is you open up a whole different can of worms. Absolutely forget about stealing a girl for a relationship because it isn't going to work. Sorry. You can sleep around all you like but you're going to have to worry about the SO, keeping secrets, and a lot of lonely nights while you play second fiddle to a girl's husband or kids. If this is a one off thing then I'd say go for it but watch your ass. Try not to make a habit of it.
 
Well I knew this girl from Jr. High and she looks really amazing. Red hair, non white but light skinned, and had bright eyes. I have seen her alot with guys, And allways it si the most healthiest guy in the school yard/Lunchroom.

The point is she went threw so many guys who looks grade A Stallions but in her case she was anybodys game ( As long as you was Serlon material). I could have had her if I took the plunge but forsaken me and my family shack living like puritans barely any money household would not allow me to have a piece of that which would have been no problemo.

Anyhow the point is this. If a girl, woman, womenly girl or whatever is freindly with you take the plunge and go for it if you can. Do not look back and if there is ever a chance get a kiss in. If you make freinds with girls now when they become women of flull flesh they will be more easier to be with and you will have something to buld upon.

About that like other guy who decides to go afer women besides Clinton and Itakgi who went after women when they shouldn't in the end while these "women" might be be more freindly towards you some of there lives might be derailed by your advances.

Anyhows your under 18 by law and can't get arrested unless your in CA. Go for it. Aobut that girl I mentioned I never was physical but I did get ride her back like a pack muel for a couple of minutes while she was wearing her bookbag me thinks:roll:

Then again hey if she wants to and you want to then do it. Do like the mouses
and rats before puberty hits and you have to bring Biology into the eqaution.


More important you could allways be her freind................. :wall:
 
Never break up a happy home, at least that's what I think. But it's really up to you if you think it's worth it. Just don't make a big fuss if karma comes back around to bust your chops.
 
To hell with alll these people just do it and find out. It is better to try then not try at all. Would you rather spend the rest of your life wondering?

No you wouldn't

She is right there with open arms and here is you chance to tie another notch to your thing to do list. So when you tell your grand kids about the many types of women you had and feats you over came they will be like dang grandad you be a player.

So go out there and score one for the home team. I believe in you can do it and leave an inch in somebody elses life.

Don't be a dreamer be a go get er and go get her:bouncy:
 
So i'm in the same boat as Quack, but at the same time, it's just a LITTLE different. You see--there's this girl at my school who I only met this year. We really hit it off and all that jazz. Only one problem--She has a boyfriend--In Florida. We're in Pennsylvania. Yeah.... So I enlisted the help of my best friend's girlfriend (who happens to be good friends with my love interest) to get the scoop as to whether or not this long distance relationship is 'anything'. So we'll see. Hopefully it's not. I like her a lot :)
 
[quote name='RegalSin2020']Well I knew this girl from Jr. High and she looks really amazing. Red hair, non white but light skinned, and had bright eyes. I have seen her alot with guys, And allways it si the most healthiest guy in the school yard/Lunchroom.

The point is she went threw so many guys who looks grade A Stallions but in her case she was anybodys game ( As long as you was Serlon material). I could have had her if I took the plunge but forsaken me and my family shack living like puritans barely any money household would not allow me to have a piece of that which would have been no problemo.

Anyhow the point is this. If a girl, woman, womenly girl or whatever is freindly with you take the plunge and go for it if you can. Do not look back and if there is ever a chance get a kiss in. If you make freinds with girls now when they become women of flull flesh they will be more easier to be with and you will have something to buld upon.

About that like other guy who decides to go afer women besides Clinton and Itakgi who went after women when they shouldn't in the end while these "women" might be be more freindly towards you some of there lives might be derailed by your advances.

Anyhows your under 18 by law and can't get arrested unless your in CA. Go for it. Aobut that girl I mentioned I never was physical but I did get ride her back like a pack muel for a couple of minutes while she was wearing her bookbag me thinks:roll:

Then again hey if she wants to and you want to then do it. Do like the mouses
and rats before puberty hits and you have to bring Biology into the eqaution.


More important you could allways be her freind................. :wall:[/QUOTE]
If you're of loving her, in the full flesh, she will of loving you in the return, until the girl deform.

To kiss is of the ease of mind, whether she haves an intimationairanistic relationship with another man, in the full flesh of the time in which we become mens.

Just plunge inside, for you will not be of the regret. Rather, you will not be of the regret, but be of the lovings when you passionately pressing your face within the bosoms of love and life, dipping deeply inside, in the full flesh, of the plunge that they have been called "lovings of the full".

Much similar to what a wise man had once spoked, "plunge deep inside, study your Biology and put puberty into the equations".

Right, am I, RegalSin?
 
if you are friends with the current boyfriend, you leave her alone. if not, then go for it.

of course, chances are she'll end up crushing your soul, because that's what girls like that tend to do.
 
I'm going for it. Hell, I'm 20 and in college, thats as good an excuse as any to make rash, irresponsible decisions. :)

And I think she really likes me. I mean, I smoked my first joint with her... she gave it to me, actually. And she keeps hitting on me but I hesitated because of her boyfreind. If it came to it, I think I could kick his ass, though, although I detest violence.

She is really awesome, she smokes weed, she swears all the time, she likes all the same music, movies, and shows that I do... and last week she took LSD for the first time. She said it was the most amazing experience she ever had in her entire life.

p.s. I know, drugs are bad, blah blah. Please don't comment on it. My body, my choice.
 
[quote name='thatstoobad']if you are friends with the current boyfriend, you leave her alone. if not, then go for it.

of course, chances are she'll end up crushing your soul, because that's what girls like that tend to do.[/QUOTE]
Yep. What goes around, come around.

It happened to me, once. I don't regret doing it, but, as you put it, it crushed my soul for a while there.

It's not worth it... then again, I think Quackzilla is a douchebag, so my advice is: DO IT!
 
[quote name='Quackzilla']I'm going for it. Hell, I'm 20 and in college, thats as good an excuse as any to make rash, irresponsible decisions. :)

And I think she really likes me. I mean, I smoked my first joint with her... she gave it to me, actually. And she keeps hitting on me but I hesitated because of her boyfreind. If it came to it, I think I could kick his ass, though, although I detest violence.

She is really awesome, she smokes weed, she swears all the time, she likes all the same music, movies, and shows that I do... and last week she took LSD for the first time. She said it was the most amazing experience she ever had in her entire life.

p.s. I know, drugs are bad, blah blah. Please don't comment on it. My body, my choice.[/QUOTE]

Ah dude she seems so much like a rebel. :points to Bold Text:
 
[quote name='Quackzilla']She is really awesome, she smokes weed, she swears all the time, she likes all the same music, movies, and shows that I do... and last week she took LSD for the first time. She said it was the most amazing experience she ever had in her entire life.[/QUOTE]
See? You two douchebags were made for each other.
 
as stated before. If a girl would leave her boy for you, she would leave you for another boy. So...

1) Gun it and hope she leaves the dude, but beware of Karma.
2) Just wait until they break up. it WILL happen. Unless they're perfect. In which case you're boned regardless.
3) Rent porn.

Choose wisely.
 
Let me throw something else out there:

If I found out about a guy sniping my girlfriend, I'd do the Italian jig on his head, turning his lights on and off in hopes that he suffers or winds up mentally retarded for the rest of his days.

If I found out my girlfriend was toying with a guy, I'd leave my girlfriend and maybe do what I posted above.
 
I'd say as a general rule they're off limits, but of course it all depnds on their relationship. If she's hitting on you (and you're not interpreting it differently than she intends) then chances are she doesn't have the best relationship or doesn't care.

So if they don't have a good relationship then it's like she doesn't really have a boyfriend anyway ya know?

Where the hell is her boyfriend when she's smoking and shit with you anyway?
 
[quote name='Quackzilla']I'm going for it. Hell, I'm 20 and in college, thats as good an excuse as any to make rash, irresponsible decisions. :)

And I think she really likes me. I mean, I smoked my first joint with her... she gave it to me, actually. And she keeps hitting on me but I hesitated because of her boyfreind. If it came to it, I think I could kick his ass, though, although I detest violence.

She is really awesome, she smokes weed, she swears all the time, she likes all the same music, movies, and shows that I do... and last week she took LSD for the first time. She said it was the most amazing experience she ever had in her entire life.

p.s. I know, drugs are bad, blah blah. Please don't comment on it. My body, my choice.[/quote]

Oh my god.... just go to a rave. You'll meet hundreds of girls like that. It's in their nature. Just hit TaO @ the LA sports arena.
 
[quote name='Quackzilla']I'm going for it. Hell, I'm 20 and in college, thats as good an excuse as any to make rash, irresponsible decisions. :)

And I think she really likes me. I mean, I smoked my first joint with her... she gave it to me, actually. And she keeps hitting on me but I hesitated because of her boyfreind. If it came to it, I think I could kick his ass, though, although I detest violence.

She is really awesome, she smokes weed, she swears all the time, she likes all the same music, movies, and shows that I do... and last week she took LSD for the first time. She said it was the most amazing experience she ever had in her entire life.

p.s. I know, drugs are bad, blah blah. Please don't comment on it. My body, my choice.[/QUOTE]

Wow, you both sound like real winners!

Great minds think alike!

...

:joystick: :joystick:
 
There may be some rare exceptions to the rule, but I had to vote for off-limits. Of course, that may be why I am still single . . .
 
[quote name='Magehart']Oh my god.... just go to a rave. You'll meet hundreds of girls like that. It's in their nature. Just hit TaO @ the LA sports arena.[/QUOTE]
well, it's not just the rebellious stuff, I really like her...
 
I say don't do it. Not because she has a boyfriend, but because she will likely screw you over if you succeed. I've dated a girl like that before. She may seem like tons of fun, but trust me, she will fuck you over for one reason or another.
 
There are two types of girls I think...

The first is the kind of slutty girl who will leave her boyfriend for you until she gets bored of you and then goes and does the same thing with another guy...I guess that's ok as long as you know you're going to get what you set yourself up for.

On the other hand, there are some girls who have boyfriends and are nice girls, but just happen to meet someone that they really connect with. In that sense, it's less taking away and more the girl is committing herself to a new relationship while she's still in one. It's just a matter of bad timing.

Personally, I don't think there is a such thing as "stealing" girlfriends. You're not kidnapping anyone, so it's the girl's choice.

I do believe that doing that to a married girl is more wrong from a moral standpoint. Also, if it's your friend's girlfriend, then at least have the decency to talk it out or do something, but even in that case you'll probably seem like an asshole.
 
[quote name='Brak']Let me throw something else out there:

If I found out about a guy sniping my girlfriend, I'd do the Italian jig on his head, turning his lights on and off in hopes that he suffers or winds up mentally retarded for the rest of his days.

If I found out my girlfriend was toying with a guy, I'd leave my girlfriend and maybe do what I posted above.[/QUOTE]

Agreed I would do the same thing as you Brak. If you can't fucking wait for them to break up *rent* a hooker, because it sounds like this girl and hookers have a lot in common go check them out sometime!
 
[quote name='-Blood_Rayne-']Agreed I would do the same thing as you Brak. If you can't fucking wait for them to break up *rent* a hooker, because it sounds like this girl and hookers have a lot in common go check them out sometime![/QUOTE]
Dude, if you talked about one of my freinds like that to my face I would kick your ass. You are lucky you have the internet to hide behind.
 
[quote name='Quackzilla']well, it's not just the rebellious stuff, I really like her...[/quote]

Meh - it sounds like you hardly know her. Seriously, most chicks will eventually annoy you anyway, so why try to start something with a girl who you know already has baggage.

If you are hell-bent on doing this, make sure that you have an exit strategy (this can blow up in your face more then you might think). Plan on being able to walk away from anything that connects both of you, from a free email account up to your circle of friends. As they say on the Sopranos, don't shit where you eat.

Or just take that other dude's advice and goto a rave FTW
 
Let me just say this, a guy tried to steal my girlfriend and now I want to beat the shit out of him. Only, someone else recently did so i wont do it. I think trying to do that is fucked up. If the girl actually flat out tells you she's interested then i guess you can try...
 
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