[quote name='dohdough']Everyone has biases built into them due to the environment be it prejudice, pacificism, racism, aggression, etc. The trick is to recognize what they are, learn where they come from, and figure out its effects on broader society.
As a male, I have male privilege in society that women don't. I am, by design of the patriarchal culture that we live in, sexist. It's only by recognizing the sexist elements within me, that I can correct my behavior to be less sexist. It's not driven by guilt, it's all about being equitable.[/QUOTE]
Your second paragraph there, I'm almost with you. Follow me out on a limb here if you would please. Does that sexism imply "the little things" (throwing like a girl, WNBA is silly, girls can't lift heavy things, bad drivers, can't change a tire, etc...) or the overt things (glass ceiling, blatant sexual harrasment in the office, barefoot in the kitchen and pregnant is the only place to be, etc...) or some combination of both?
If it is some combinatino of both, isn't there a better term that isn't so all encompassing? Because really, saying that someone throws like a girl and denying an actual girl a promotion or the job entirely is very different.
Also, and I think if you can agree to this you and I might have some sort of breakthrough here:
It's only by recognizing the sexist elements within me, that I can correct my behavior to be less sexist. It's not driven by guilt, it's all about being equitable.
So, are you still sexist if you recognize that gener comes into play in your interactions, but don't base your actions upon the difference of gender? That, to me, is quite similar to judging a person by the content of their character and not by the colour of their skin (or for our example here, if you're an innie or an outtie in terms of genitalia). I've heard that before somewhere, smart dude said it. That's how I try to go about my day. Doesn't that portray the desire to be equitable?