[quote name='thesuzukimethod']no idea about 360, but no major issues on ps3 (there are occasional framerate dips, but not usually in combat...blighttown is the exception, but i made it through there just fine).
there are some forums that should give a sense of how active the MP community still is for each platform...i suspect it's core die-hards plus the transient passers through..
the servers are not region specific (iirc), so the multiplayer is global (again, iirc) -- i ended up playing against a lot of japanese players during some of my runs, and since 360 is basically nonexistent in Japan, there's that.
this thread has some (early) comments about platform...
http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/606312-/60514572
edited to add: there is no easy way to join friends in this game. (there are workarounds, but it is not likely), fwiw.[/QUOTE]
Thanks again for the help. I thought I might prefer the controls on the 360, but now I am leaning towards the PS3. It looks like there are no major discernable differences with either version, so it is looking like a win-win decision really! Thanks guys.