I cant stress enough to everyone that no matter if you think someone is fine, nothing appears to be wrong, tell them you love them. Hug them and let them know you care. What they mean to you. If they arent near by, call them. You never know when they wont be there anymore and youll kick yourself for not doing it more than you thought you did.
My apologies for the cryptic msg...I didnt want to post why I posted that because I wasnt looking for sympathy or condolences etc.
Long story short my stepfather who came into my life when a boy needs a man to show him the way. He did a solid job and even though he wasnt my blood, he was without a doubt my father. Hands down the biggest influence of my life. I had gotten hit with a super bad feeling monday morning at work and I dropped what I was doing and all I knew was I had to get home and I found him on the floor dead from an apparent heart attack.
I dont regret anything but I think I would have been more vocal than I was and its a shame that you dont think about these things until something like this happens.
Basically just stop and smell the roses regardless of how much time you think may have etc.
My apologies for the cryptic msg...I didnt want to post why I posted that because I wasnt looking for sympathy or condolences etc.
Long story short my stepfather who came into my life when a boy needs a man to show him the way. He did a solid job and even though he wasnt my blood, he was without a doubt my father. Hands down the biggest influence of my life. I had gotten hit with a super bad feeling monday morning at work and I dropped what I was doing and all I knew was I had to get home and I found him on the floor dead from an apparent heart attack.
I dont regret anything but I think I would have been more vocal than I was and its a shame that you dont think about these things until something like this happens.
Basically just stop and smell the roses regardless of how much time you think may have etc.
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