[quote name='x0thedeadzone0x']No, it's quite the opposite. If you pick right, and you develop a relationship based on trust amongst other important things, that girlfriend will turn into a wife or at least start living with you and you can "snack" on her however much you may like, so you don't need to paint your sheets white when you see pamela anderson on the tv.[/quote]
[I'd worry about the thread getting derailed, but it looks like political stuff has been reference, so I imagine this will go off the original topic quick anyway.]
I'm absolutely not talking down to you here (you're the 14 year old one, right?), but in adult life it can be tough to co-ordinate romance when you have work and whatnot to contend with (not to mention differences in sex drives.) Your partner isn't always guaranteed to be in the mood for lovin' at the same time you are and it's unfair to expect that of them, no matter how much trust your relationship is based upon. It's not fair to expect your partner to go sexually frustrated either, so masturbation is the best outlet available in a monogamous relationship. Now, if you don't want your man (or woman, to be fair) ogling others in porn form you'd better be prepared to take some pictures of yourself for them to enjoy, because, like it or not, men, at least, are visually oriented, sexually, and there's not much changing it at this point in evolution.