[quote name='bmulligan']
You are really going to hate this one, but, it seems to me that if these peiople really cared about their own survival, they would stop having indiscriminant sex with each other. Why should the whole world give a damn about people who don't choose to live with the consequences of their actions. Now before you start giving me the raping and unprovoked attack scenarios and other various vignettes let me just say that such an epidemic cannot solely be caused by non-consenting people. These people are irresponsible and no amount of "aid" is going to get them to stop such behavior. Sometimes people just have to learn for themselves that certain behaviours are going to KILL them. [/quote]
It isn't indiscriminate sex, we have indiscriminate sex. It is unprotected sex that's the problem. Education and empowerment of women can help this. Some in africa believe, being told by the church, that condoms actually cause aids (the disease is put into the condom). Many don't even know how you get aids. Groups that our government funds are not even allowed to instruct them to use condoms, or they risk losing their funding (and having to close down). And aids is more common in poorer, rural areas, where women have less control over their body. Women often don't have the authority to tell a man (such as her husband) to put on a condom or resist sex even if she wanted to (or could get condoms), this is in normal circumstances (not classified as rape by them, though it may be by us). You aren't going to win against human nature, safe sex is the key.
So directing people to government instead of churches will cost society in the following ways:
They will have more freedom to live without consequences, They will be more insensitive to killing or aborting human life, and more prone to deviant and hazardous sexual behavior while using contraception which is not 100% effective and run the risk of having more unwanted babies and aborted fetuses.
Right now you have the freedom to go to a charity or the government (you want to remove the freedom to go to the government), you have the freedom to oppose (which in turn removes the freedom for a woman to control her body) or support abortion. The contraception argument is ridiculous, do you honestly believe there is a chance in hell that people will stop having sex outside marriage? It won't happen, condoms are highly effective, especially if used properly (more often than not when something goes wrong it's because they were put on wrong), and the only realistic solution. By not teaching them about contraception you will create more babies, you will create more std's, that is true no matter what country you go to. In sweden for example, the kids are more sexually active than in the u.s., but have less std's, and less pregnancies. The government even publishes a magazine designed for teenagers teaching sex ed and safe sex. If you want to teach them about both then go right ahead. Humans are animals, we are not something biologically separate from nature, we are sexual beings. If you want to deal with some unattainable ideal fine, but you are playing with peoples lives for a goal you will never accomplish.
You want more freedom, yet there is a COST to that freedom. And you would rather have all of us pay that price instead of those that choose to excercise it. The cost of their freedom is the claim on MY freedom. My freedom is based on My life, my property, and my money. You would have anyone make a claim on it based on their right to do whatever the hell they want to. Sorry, it's not supposed to work like that. Freedom also means the freedom to fail, the freedom to feel pain, and the freedom to live with the effects of your own behavior and not seek repayment from everyone else.
Yes, but any child who has grown up poor, in a ghetto etc. is not living with the effects of their own behavior, even if you argue that all poor are poor because it's their fault, they would then be suffering for someone elses behavior. Wealthy people believe that they give their children more advantages to succeed, private schools, etc. But when people without the advantages fail to perform as the same as wealthier children, they often argue that their is no reason for that other than their own incompetence. It's often as if when given those advantages help greatly, but there is no difference when those advantages aren't there. It doesn't make sense.
You forget that everything starts with "you own little world". This is the basis of our society. We OWN our freedom and it should only be taken from us if we have transgressed on the freedom of someone else. You want to help your AIDS people and your POOR people at MY expense and that's wrong.
Our society is not a truly free society, those do not exist, and for good reason. I'm not very concerned with economic freedom (within reason of course, a modern western european democracy is within reason), social freedom is what is really important. I don't like giving money to a giant military, I hate that as much as you hate helping people, but I know it is within the governments right. But with your argument (whether you take it that far or not) taxation is wrong because it takes away some economic freedoms, the freedom to keep all the money you have earned. Social freedom is far more important in my mind. Taking away a little of your tax money or letting a family live on the street, your tax money vs teaching people how to stay safe, if I have to make those decisions, I don't give a damn about your tax dollars. So what? You have to buy a toyata instead of a lexus, I don't care. No just society should.
I'm not suggesting, look around you. The whole reason for this argument is the fact that YOUR system of helping people has failed. If it were working we would be arguing, would we?
In addition, how can you show a model of a system that has never been tried before? They said the same thing to the founding fathers: Self-rule? You're crazy !! It's never been done before, it'll never work. Guess what? We're here 230 years later with the freedom to argue crap like this on a freaking electronic message board !!
Well, democracy is not an american invention, as you seem to be suggesting. And the idea that we are only discussing it because the system has failed, look around you, we discuss foreign policy all the time. Countries may have completely opposite foreign policies, yet debate over whether they are succesful does not mean they have failed, it is simply debate over whether it has failed, needs some work but on the right track (my argument) , or is fine as is. And I think your policy would be a disaster, and I don't believe our system has failed, so what would make me want to even think of supporting a radical (I'm not using that in a negative sense, but compared to what is normally suggested and what is actually done, that is what it is) system such as that. Because we are arguing over whether the system has failed, that means the system has failed. That's your argument, think about that, does that make sense?