Well, where I live, to even get to the grocery store you need a car. It's that or call a taxi (expensive, probably 5 plus tip), walk (an hour or so) or ride a bike. So to do pretty much anything you need a car. That's true for new england, maybe other regions have good suburban and rural public transit systems, but nothing in RI, MA, VT, NH or ME.
Basically, unless you got a friend you can keep borrowing a car from (though you'd still need a license) or just get lucky (ie. girl is content to do all the driving, doesn't care, or figures "what the hell?" and then falls in love with you) you're not getting a date really. Also, kinda difficult to even meet people, since you can't get to college, club etc. without one.