I am confused and Dissoriented, I have nothing left,sad day

[quote name='cag1000'][quote name='JSweeney']its all about making her want you and her come back.
Why? Unless you are actually in love with that person more than all others and all things, there's no reason to. People are replacable, except in the very rare situations.

UUH dumbass yes you want a girl to want you isn't that the point, who wants to pine over a girl that doesnt want them
Pimp yourself out.
That's just wasteful. Pimping yourself out suggest a wasteful use of money and gaudy, tasteless, yet expensive crap, just because it's expensive. True connesseiurs know that money is best spent on elegant, understated things, not brash, show crap. Ask any of the old money in the Hamptons. They'll be happy to go on endlessly about the nouveau riche
and thier incessant need to "pimp thier shit out".

Yes being successful with a non piece car, an education and nice clothes does tend to bring girls better than that viewtiful jow shirt fat computer gut and pale i play games all day skin.
make more money get your own apartment (alone).

That would suggest the only thing the girl cares about is money.
If that were the case, she'd be nothing but a low grade whore... If whores were his thing, he could afford a much better one for much less money..
renting would be much better than leasing in this situation.

He was going to get a place with her at the end of august right soooo still get the place himself. Watch how fast she comes back. Yes having sex in an apartment compared to next to your moms room can tend to keep a girl longer(maybe not his situation but applies in general)

buy a fat ass car
Why? To impress a whore?

Who says only whores like nice cars its small down the ladder of needful things he should do but it will make his confidence greater and when he drives by her, what her head wont turn?
new clothes hair cut, TAN,TAN.
Yep, this is obviously a deep, spiritual connection here. Throw around money and enhance your physical appearance. Can you get just a little more superficial?
yea the world is superficial grow up


Try not to mention videogames around her, i know its hard, or CAGer. It will take time to do this but in the end you can have her and own her where she's on your doorstep wanting to chill in your new apartment and when u answer the door your new gf will be in the on the sofa with an xbox controller in her hand and u will then slam the door in this girls face saying ooh im sorry im playing xbox now with my girl dont bump into my bmw on your way out the alarm is sensitive.

When you're done with your little fantasy world, I'd bet a couple of financial planners and consultants would love to bitch-slap you just out of principle. I think the men of the cloth, women actually looking for romance and a couple more irate groups would be queuing right behind them.[/quote]

whatever corny ass whose side are you on the males or all the girls out there that diss guys. These things will help how he feels and will work 100% if applied correctly. Its all about taking away that empty feeling he has. Women looking for romance huh? lol wow fantasy world. Romance to women equals $$ you just contradicted yourself. So i guess Romance costs what under a $10 dolla game on Valentines day. Keep throwing down that coat on rain puddles for girls Jsweeney all you'll end up with is a dirty jacket.[/quote]

That's being a little... sexist. What are you trying to say, women don't look for romance? Maybe in your fantasy world it doesn't exist but that's what I was looking for. And I found it. I'm really very, very happy now because I'm with somebody I truly love. I could not give a shit about the money or his job. Hell, I would live in a cardboard box if I have to, but I'd still be happy if he was there. Anyways this is kind of going in too deep but I'd just like to say that you basically jumped to conclusions and although I have to agree what this girl did to ChrisXE sucked, it's not like every single women in the world is looking to diss a guy, and if they were really in love superficial things wouldn't make her come crawling back to him either. Most likely there was a fault in the relationship, because I really can't see how someone could be perfectly fine with videogames and then the last second say "Oh yeah well I don't like it now so leave" when they're engaged and everything. I'm sorry about what happened Chris, but I know that not every girl is looking to screw a guy out of his money or look for superficial things because at least I'm not. And I couldn't be happier.
 
UUH dumbass yes you want a girl to want you isn't that the point, who wants to pine over a girl that doesnt want them

You can't make people love you. Lust is one thing, but it is fleeting and shallow. Your suggestions would only make them lust after you. This is good if all you want is a quick one nighter, but nothing to base something so serious that you'd even contemplate marriage over.


Yes being successful with a non piece car, an education and nice clothes does tend to bring girls better than that viewtiful jow shirt fat computer gut and pale i play games all day skin.

Yet again, invoking lust. A relationship based purely upon lust, golddigging and sexual attraction is doomed to failure.


make more money get your own apartment (alone).



He was going to get a place with her at the end of august right soooo still get the place himself. Watch how fast she comes back. Yes having sex in an apartment compared to next to your moms room can tend to keep a girl longer(maybe not his situation but applies in general)

Yet again, your interpretation of the situation is so shallow it's ridiculous.

Who says only whores like nice cars its small down the ladder of needful things he should do but it will make his confidence greater and when he drives by her, what her head wont turn?

Any person who judges all people soley based upon looks and material wealth is a pathetic excuse for a human being. Anyone who trys to bolster a failing relationship by creating a false image by needlessly throwing money around or altering thier body is a fool.

yea the world is superficial grow up

Way to miss the point, genius. Nothing is wrong with having a superficial whore as a companion if all you want is something fun and not long term. If your relationship with someone you want to marry is so teneous that a couple tiny exterior changes would right your relationship, you're obviously with the wrong person.


whatever corny ass whose side are you on the males or all the girls out there that diss guys.
Neither. I'm a realist. Romatic women's point of veiw is to sepia toned to be realistic, and the ignorant fools who think everything comes down to money an possessions are to short sighted for thier own good.

These things will help how he feels and will work 100% if applied correctly.

For about a week or so, until he falls back into his habit. Your suggestion is like slapping a tiny little band-aid over a hemmoraging artery.
It's a superficial solution that doesn't solve anything, but gives the appearence of working for a short while.

Its all about taking away that empty feeling he has.
Why don't you tell him to go get piss drunk, toke up, do a line or shoot up?
Those will take and empty feeling away just as quickly. Guess what? They're just as ineffective in the long run.

Women looking for romance huh? lol wow fantasy world.
Sepia-toned as it is, at least it's honest.

Romance to women equals $$ you just contradicted yourself.
That comment just proves how clueless you are. Have fun with your whores. Just don't marry one.

Keep throwing down that coat on rain puddles for girls Jsweeney all you'll end up with is a dirty jacket.

A good deed is it's own reward.

Noone one is perfect, and the world is imperfect. To suggest that one is perfect is nothing but an outright display of hubris.
All I strive for is to be slightly less imperfect than the world and others.
 
Man, sorry to hear that. I don't know if anyone else has said this, but point is that if she was serious about being with you, she would've brought up her concerns over video games beforehand.

In other words, if she really wanted to be with you, that wouldn't have been the first time she's mentioned CAG, and she wouldn't have 'fallen out of love with you' that one night.

Chances are she's having doubts about commitment, maybe testing the waters. Things like that happen, and you've got to move on (my cousin did the same thing to her fiancee a few years ago, and both have gone on to bigger and better things).
 
[quote name='x0thedeadzone0x'][quote name='cag1000']

whatever corny ass whose side are you on the males or all the girls out there that diss guys. These things will help how he feels and will work 100% if applied correctly. Its all about taking away that empty feeling he has. Women looking for romance huh? lol wow fantasy world. Romance to women equals $$ you just contradicted yourself. So i guess Romance costs what under a $10 dolla game on Valentines day. Keep throwing down that coat on rain puddles for girls Jsweeney all you'll end up with is a dirty jacket.[/quote]

That's being a little... sexist. What are you trying to say, women don't look for romance? Maybe in your fantasy world it doesn't exist but that's what I was looking for. And I found it. I'm really very, very happy now because I'm with somebody I truly love. I could not give a shit about the money or his job. Hell, I would live in a cardboard box if I have to, but I'd still be happy if he was there. Anyways this is kind of going in too deep but I'd just like to say that you basically jumped to conclusions and although I have to agree what this girl did to ChrisXE sucked, it's not like every single women in the world is looking to diss a guy, and if they were really in love superficial things wouldn't make her come crawling back to him either. Most likely there was a fault in the relationship, because I really can't see how someone could be perfectly fine with videogames and then the last second say "Oh yeah well I don't like it now so leave" when they're engaged and everything. I'm sorry about what happened Chris, but I know that not every girl is looking to screw a guy out of his money or look for superficial things because at least I'm not. And I couldn't be happier.[/quote]

cag1000-have you ever had a serious relationship? I don't mean with your hand either. You can't possibly be or have been in any kind of a decent healthy relationship talking the way you are. Real women IN LOVE don't give two shits about lack of $$. There have been times when all I could afford was something cheap for special occasions and my wife still was happy. It's the thought that counts. Jsweeney is dead on right about this.

deadzone-congrats. My wife has said that a few times and we've been together for over 10 years now. I hope you have as much happiness as we have had.
 
rofl..

Chill out on the games, anyone who tells you not to is a hardcore loser. My girlfriend plays more games than I do, I get around to playing them maybe an hour every other day. Just get your priorities straight. I'm surprised that anyone would worry about not being able to play games, over losing their girlfriend.
 
most relationships are all about games and how you play them. If you sleep on that then you will get played. Know how to play and you'll win. Take advice from Dave Chapells comedy since alot of people on this site follow him religously. Guys would live in a cardboard box if it wasn't for girls, you buy that porshce and its like going fishing, gotcha bitch. Romance won't help this guys situation if you read into it. You obviously all missed my point. Since he feels low right now, make himself feel like a fucking pimp, and others will follow in line to him. Guy and girls are both whores in general. Not all girls are gonna be nice and sweet and always be there. Rappers may be self important and annoying most of the time but I rather follow my rules and have an exterior that wont get hurt, than have this happen to me. Who else doesn't think my apartment idea is good? They were goona get one. so go through with it. What u dont think she will show up drunk all late one night crying saying she was sorry, and check all the sweet things inside and think she made a mistake.
 
most relationships are all about games and how you play them.
And those aren't the type that are even considered viable as marriage material.

If you sleep on that then you will get played. Know how to play and you'll win.
Wow, losing out a golddigging whore or superficial bitch that decided to jump to the next thing dangling because of money or looks wasn't really would be SOOOO damaging.
 
relationships me? i've had more girls than any 10 cager's and have been with the same girl for 7 yrs. not including the older guys married on here, im sure i have u all beat. Use them as they use you. You attack anyone on her Jsweeney that tends to stray from what you beleive is righteous all the time. Sometime the world doesn't work that way and isn't perfect. So some people have their opinions on here. I'm always confident as i peruse topics of you being the first to flame them. My advice to him was simple and would help his confidence. And in his situation probably beneficial to him. I most of the time post on here strong opinions waiting for you to counter, never fails. So if you are so perfect and all relationships and love and romance is perfect in the world than i wanna come to your world and wake u up with a bat.
 
[quote name='cag1000']i've had more girls than any 10 cager's [/quote]

looks like we have an internet tough guy here ^^
 
relationships me? i've had more girls than any 10 cager's and have been with the same girl for 7 yrs. not including the older guys married on here, im sure i have u all beat.

Had Girls? As in possessed? That explains a whole lot.

Use them as they use you. You attack anyone on her Jsweeney that tends to stray from what you beleive is righteous all the time. Sometime the world doesn't work that way and isn't perfect.

The world isn't perfect. Of course, if we don't do anything and just sit still while things we find wrong or abhorant are stated as truths, its doesn't get any better.


So some people have their opinions on here.

They're welcome to them. That doesn't mean I won't attack them.

I'm always confident as i peruse topics of you being the first to flame them.
So what? My threshold for BS is set much lower than most's.

My advice to him was simple and would help his confidence. And in his situation probably beneficial to him.

I swear you must not read anything anyone says after you get on your little tirades. This same issue has been brought up, redressed, and answered multiple times already.

I most of the time post on here strong opinions waiting for you to counter, never fails.

Well, logic and reason usually are harsh mistresses, and considering that many of your opinions are short on either one or the other, it's kind of obvious that you're apt to be a target.

So if you are so perfect and all relationships and love and romance is perfect in the world than i wanna come to your world and wake u up with a bat.

Wow, a threat of violence. What a shock.
 
Theres just one point to all this.
this girl that left him and gave a reason of gaming(probably cause she wants to be taken out, and more attention and gaming funds spent on her)isnt the type of girl that you are talking about who don't care about $$ and are so sweet and are there for their guys. If she was one of them this topic wouldn't exist. I'd like to believe all girls are like that too. He choose this girl as his wife, she is playing the games, i told him how to win. nothing else
 
[quote name='punqsux'][quote name='cag1000']i've had more girls than any 10 cager's [/quote]

looks like we have an internet tough guy here ^^[/quote]

Yep. I wonder how long it will be until someone posts the "fuckwad" Penny Arcade comic.
 
Theres just one point to all this.
this girl that left him and gave a reason of gaming(probably cause she wants to be taken out, and more attention and gaming funds spent on her)isnt the type of girl that you are talking about who don't care about $$ and are so sweet and are there for their guys. If she was one of them this topic wouldn't exist. I'd like to believe all girls are like that too. He choose this girl as his wife, she is playing the games, i told him how to win. nothing else

You keep bashing others on the simplistic nature of thier view about relationships, yet yours continues to prove itself to be the most simplistic of all.
 
[quote name='JSweeney']relationships me? i've had more girls than any 10 cager's and have been with the same girl for 7 yrs. not including the older guys married on here, im sure i have u all beat.

Had Girls? As in possessed? That explains a whole lot.

read it again ass had and now have loser

Use them as they use you. You attack anyone on her Jsweeney that tends to stray from what you beleive is righteous all the time. Sometime the world doesn't work that way and isn't perfect.

The world isn't perfect. Of course, if we don't do anything and just sit still while things we find wrong or abhorant are stated as truths, its doesn't get any better.

wow us suck isnt that what i have been saying don't sit still and make himself feel better


So some people have their opinions on here.

They're welcome to them. That doesn't mean I won't attack them.

sure go ahead and i will be one of the few to attack u

I'm always confident as i peruse topics of you being the first to flame them.
So what? My threshold for BS is set much lower than most's.

so is mine hence the challenge

My advice to him was simple and would help his confidence. And in his situation probably beneficial to him.

I swear you must not read anything anyone says after you get on your little tirades. This same issue has been brought up, redressed, and answered multiple times already.

so someone else gave him the advice already i will put it in different terms what this site doesnt have multiple postings

I most of the time post on here strong opinions waiting for you to counter, never fails.

Well, logic and reason usually are harsh mistresses, and considering that many of your opinions are short on either one or the other, it's kind of obvious that you're apt to be a target.

they are short and to the point and opinions non the less

So if you are so perfect and all relationships and love and romance is perfect in the world than i wanna come to your world and wake u up with a bat.

Wow, a threat of violence. What a shock.[/quote]

hmm didnt u threaten me with viloence from the clergy and other groups prior u are such an ass read what u posted
 
Hmm. I can now threaten people with violence from groups of other people I'm not even a part of?

Good to know.

Hey Nuns... SneakyPenguin has been calling all of you penguins and says he pwns you. Get your rulers ready and go teach him a lesson.

What?

Nothing?

Awww.
I'm disappointed.
 
now you are just making lame jokes since you have nothing to say about my last post and how i turned everyhting u said into a valid point of view. Your constant negative postings on this site towards others posts show just how great you think you are and just how corny you really are.
 
Like a lot of people said, it's a BS excuse. Don't go for it, man. Arrange a meeting with her, have a talk, and if nothing changes, then ask for the ring back and you leave her.

And is anyone else surprised that Godwin's Law still hasn't taken effect in the argument between JSweeny and cag1000?
 
[quote name='cag1000']now you are just making lame jokes since you have nothing to say about my last post and how i turned everyhting u said into a valid point of view. Your constant negative postings on this site towards others posts show just how great you think you are and just how corny you really are.[/quote]

Not smart enough to grasp it eh?
I can't be making threats of physical violence if I'm suggesting that groups of other people (which I have no membership of) MAY do something.
That's worlds different that what you suggested, a specific statement of physical violence perpetrated by you upon my person. The two scenarios are completely different, and the fact that you can't seem to differentiate between the two is actually rather troubling.

You want to continue this foolish little argument? Here:



read it again ass had and now have loser
Had and now have suggest possession. You just can't read can you?
That's an explicit attack upon you which states that you veiw women as things, and not individual entities. Should I start spelling things out for you more often? You can't seem to be able to put together even simple concepts.


wow us suck isnt that what i have been saying don't sit still and make himself feel better

By continuing this, you continue to do nothing but make yourself look more ignorant, and allow me a platform to state opinions unopposed, becuase your little rantings never seem to add up to anything that even looks like a valid premise.

sure go ahead and i will be one of the few to attack u
It's a paradox. Through your attacks, you strengthen my points. You'd be better off not saying anything and letting someone who is actually competant to try to make some attacks.

so is mine hence the challenge
No, you see, you lack the ability to think logically, or at least debate as such.



I swear you must not read anything anyone says after you get on your little tirades. This same issue has been brought up, redressed, and answered multiple times already.

so someone else gave him the advice already i will put it in different terms what this site doesnt have multiple postings

I can't belive you. Can you even read? What that says is that when you get in your silly little argument mode, you don't actually read what anyone else says, or else you'd be dropping ineffective lines of inquiry or unsuccessful hypothesis. Either that, or you just are completely ineffective at arguing.

I most of the time post on here strong opinions waiting for you to counter, never fails.

Well, logic and reason usually are harsh mistresses, and considering that many of your opinions are short on either one or the other, it's kind of obvious that you're apt to be a target.

they are short and to the point and opinions non the less
Opinions, while they can't be proven wrong, can be proven ignorant, illogical and invalid. Most of yours have been, per the statements of others in the thread.
 
[quote name='Stargun007']Like a lot of people said, it's a BS excuse. Don't go for it, man. Arrange a meeting with her, have a talk, and if nothing changes, then ask for the ring back and you leave her.

And is anyone else surprised that Godwin's Law still hasn't taken effect in the argument between JSweeny and cag1000?[/quote]

Well, considering that I won't be throwing out those types of comparisons, It won't be me at fault for invoking the law. That's often a tactic reserved for someone who can't make a forceful point with logic or premise, so they must draw on the depth and gravity of an extrenal situation that has nothing to do with the matter at hand to try to make thier argument seem more forceful.
 
I will be a little mean and blunt and hope that my criticism is taken as my attempt to help you somewhat.


YOU ARE A LOSER! Seriously...she is right. If the first thing that happens after she dumps you over CAG is your post here... she is 100% right. You seem to be using CAG for a support system vs fighting to keep your girl. I would fucking smash my computer in front of her if I had to. If my wife told me that she was gonna leave me because of a computer habit...I WOULD UNPLUG THE DAMN THING. What is more important to you? Your relationship with a woman willing to love you forever, have your kids, and let you spoon her at 4am with bad breathe? or CAG? Not a choice for anyone with half a brain and social skillz.

You either love her and are willing to make the sacrifice of computing or you look for someone else. Sure you could find another geek who sits 2 feet away from a monitor all day but really people..we could all use LESS time at CAG and more time with the loved ones.

Also please note: CAG1000 is from Jersey...which explains much about his odd opinions.
 
[quote name='Cracka']i say you should tell her you quit... hide you games somewhere.. get married, then bustem out and be like WHAT NOW BITCH!?![/quote]

And then before she can say anything smack her on the ass and say "Bake me a cake" trust me, I've tried it before, I've got 3 cakes that way already.
 
[quote name='Zenithian Legend'][quote name='Cracka']i say you should tell her you quit... hide you games somewhere.. get married, then bustem out and be like WHAT NOW BITCH!?![/quote]

And then before she can say anything smack her on the ass and say "Bake me a cake" trust me, I've tried it before, I've got 3 cakes that way already.[/quote]

OMG -that was funny.
 
[quote name='JSweeney'][quote name='Stargun007']Like a lot of people said, it's a BS excuse. Don't go for it, man. Arrange a meeting with her, have a talk, and if nothing changes, then ask for the ring back and you leave her.

And is anyone else surprised that Godwin's Law still hasn't taken effect in the argument between JSweeny and cag1000?[/quote]

Well, considering that I won't be throwing out those types of comparisons, It won't be me at fault for invoking the law. That's often a tactic reserved for someone who can't make a forceful point with logic or premise, so they must draw on the depth and gravity of an extrenal situation that has nothing to do with the matter at hand to try to make thier argument seem more forceful.[/quote]

I don't think you'd be the one using it. I'm completely supporting everything you've said so far.
 
I think you should move on. If she cared about you she should try and work something out instead of throwing in the towel. It seems as though she's running from her problem. This demeanor is a learned behavior and will rear it's ugly head further down the road. It's hard to teach an old dog new tricks. And the behavior modifications you both must go thru will be difficult. Not to take any blame away from you but this seems as though she's making an ultimative stand by her actions and wants to control you. I think she may be feigning the authenticity of the breakup to see your reaction. Try to talk reasonably with her to come to a compromise. If she gives you the my way or the highway attitude.... hit the road. Good Luck
 
i think he can get over her, because he said tha if she broke up with him-then he wants the ring back - to use it for something else, and i wonder what he will use it for? lol :) plus i bet he can find lots of girls out there, it will take time to establish a good relation ship, but it will be worth it, because there is always something better.
 
Everything I would have said has been posted already, so I'll break out the checklist. Let's see...

WSB humor - check
BigNick keepin' it real -check
JSweeney pulling a Sweeney - check
Deadzone with the female slant - check
Defender with paternal wisdom - check
moron thinking he's a badass, becoming mega-moron by arguing with JSweeney - check

We just need Daphatty to weigh in and we'll have this thread complete.

Oh wait, we need the female gamer in NC to post pics. Uh....not for me. For, uh....Casey. Yeah, Casey the CAG mod. He asked. Really.
 
Thanks for all the oppions, MOST of them are meaningful and helpful. She said I have to prove my love for her BY not using my car to go to her house today. By using a bike no not a mountain bike with gears but my BMX bike. That dont sound all that bad except she leaves a city away (21 miles) and 21 miles back, so 42 miles to prove it. This is total bullshyt, Im inm pretty good shape so that aint the problem. Im use to running 3 1/2 miles each week about 3 times(cross country). I dont know is it worth it
 
[quote name='ChrisXE']Thanks for all the oppions, MOST of them are meaningful and helpful. She said I have to prove my love for her BY not using my car to go to her house today. By using a bike no not a mountain bike with gears but my BMX bike. That dont sound all that bad except she leaves a city away (21 miles) and 21 miles back, so 42 miles to prove it. This is total bullshyt, Im inm pretty good shape so that aint the problem. Im use to running 3 1/2 miles each week about 3 times(cross country). I dont know is it worth it[/quote]

That's a bizarre request. You could always just put some dirt bike in the back of your car, drive a block away from her house, park there and then ride the bike to her house.

EDIT: Make sure you run around a little and get sweaty or the jig's up!
 
[quote name='ChrisXE']Thanks for all the oppions, MOST of them are meaningful and helpful. She said I have to prove my love for her BY not using my car to go to her house today. By using a bike no not a mountain bike with gears but my BMX bike. That dont sound all that bad except she leaves a city away (21 miles) and 21 miles back, so 42 miles to prove it. This is total bullshyt, Im inm pretty good shape so that aint the problem. Im use to running 3 1/2 miles each week about 3 times(cross country). I dont know is it worth it[/quote]

Your choices are:

A - woman
B - Pride

Myself, I'd go with pride. A woman for whom it's worth shredding your self-esteem would not actually ask you to do so.
 
[quote name='ChrisXE']she said its a way to SHOW i want this relationship to work[/quote]

No, my friend. It is a way for you to show her that you will humiliate and degrade yourself on her whim. If you don't mind being a lap dog, then by all means, go for it.

Bottom line advice: For her to ask such a thing, it shows that she is far too immature for the type of relationship you seek. For you to even consider it, it shows you are far too immature for the type of relationship you seek. Cut your losses and be grateful you were able to learn such a valuable lesson at such a small cost.
 
"I don't care! How dare you pay the electric bill when I sit around here all day, making sure the place doesn't get robbed, and all I want is a litle Chanel dress?! This is over! OVER! If you want this to work, you need to prove you love me! I want you to walk to NYC and come back with their fall lineup, and if you don't THEN I'M GONE!"
 
lol na i really never notice her bein money hungry or materialistic. The engagement ring I got her aint such a big loss, I got it from Kmart, when they were having 75% of all jewerly.
 
[quote name='ChrisXE']Thanks for all the oppions, MOST of them are meaningful and helpful. She said I have to prove my love for her BY not using my car to go to her house today. By using a bike no not a mountain bike with gears but my BMX bike. That dont sound all that bad except she leaves a city away (21 miles) and 21 miles back, so 42 miles to prove it. This is total bullshyt, Im inm pretty good shape so that aint the problem. Im use to running 3 1/2 miles each week about 3 times(cross country). I dont know is it worth it[/quote]

I don't want to sound harsh, but if you do this then you might as well cut off your balls and hand them to her. She will know you have absolutely no spine whatsoever and hold shit like this over your head for the rest of your lives. I understand that she is hurting from lack of attention but that does not give her the right to turn around and inflict the same pain on you. It's just childish

If you still think this is a good idea, then tell her to meet you half way. I'd bet good money she says no.
 
[quote name='ChrisXE']lol na i really never notice her bein money hungry or materialistic. The engagement ring I got her aint such a big loss, I got it from Kmart, when they were having 75% of all jewerly.[/quote]

Well, then it looks she has a case of "Shit don't stink" which many women seem to get. It's a fucking epidemic. Just do waht T would do; when she starts yelling again, reach back and slap that ho out the window. Problem solved.
 
I can understand the "devoted a lot of time" feeling. I've felt like that before. It gets easier as time goes on and also the way to look at this relationship is that it taught you about what you want and don't want in a relationship. Look for someone else with the qualities you liked about her but without the ones you didn't. I don't know how old you are but they do say that the person you would marry at 20 many times would not be the same person you would marry at 30.
 
ChrisXE - see my post on page 4 - read my sig.
It appears as though I was right - CONTROL FREAK
Calll her bluff and I bet she starts singing a differnt tune.
 
IF she's important enough to you to be getting engaged (and assuming getting married to her), then waning off of the video games should be a non-problem. My fiance told me she didn't appreciate how much time I spent with my games.. so now I spend maybe half of what I did before.

If video games and CAG are more important to you than the woman, you shouldn't be with her, and you definitely shouldn't be marrying her.

I'm not trying to be an ass, I'm just pointing out a view from experience.
 
Damn! I feel lucky. This thread has made me appreciate my wife even more. I never get any grief about playing video games....ever. I am truly blessed.
 
[quote name='brushwood']Who wants to bet cag1000 is a 15 year old virgin?[/quote]

I'm a 15 yr old virgin. Whats your point?
 
[quote name='daphatty']Losing your virginity is overrated and only important to 15 year old virgins.[/quote]

Although I somewhat agree with that.. I think it's more to the affect of "your virginity is only important to 15 year old virgins".. once you lose it (and start to hit your low to mid 20s.. you realize sex is just not nearly as big a deal as it has always been made out to be.
 
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