I am confused and Dissoriented, I have nothing left,sad day
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[quote name='ajh2298']I say you should peddle over there get her drunk and put it in her butt.[/quote]
Was this not already suggested?
Was this not already suggested?
[quote name='defender']I will be a little mean and blunt and hope that my criticism is taken as my attempt to help you somewhat.
YOU ARE A LOSER! Seriously...she is right. If the first thing that happens after she dumps you over CAG is your post here... she is 100% right. You seem to be using CAG for a support system vs fighting to keep your girl. I would shaq-fuing smash my computer in front of her if I had to. If my wife told me that she was gonna leave me because of a computer habit...I WOULD UNPLUG THE DAMN THING. What is more important to you? Your relationship with a woman willing to love you forever, have your kids, and let you spoon her at 4am with bad breathe? or CAG? Not a choice for anyone with half a brain and social skillz.
You either love her and are willing to make the sacrifice of computing or you look for someone else. Sure you could find another geek who sits 2 feet away from a monitor all day but really people..we could all use LESS time at CAG and more time with the loved ones.
Also please note: CAG1000 is from Jersey...which explains much about his odd opinions.[/quote]
You, sir, are correct in every way.
And Kmart jewelry? Shit, I don't believe in jewelry, but I would leave you just for that. If this was a 2 year relationship, I think you could stand to stop buying games for a couple of months and get a halfway decent ring.
YOU ARE A LOSER! Seriously...she is right. If the first thing that happens after she dumps you over CAG is your post here... she is 100% right. You seem to be using CAG for a support system vs fighting to keep your girl. I would shaq-fuing smash my computer in front of her if I had to. If my wife told me that she was gonna leave me because of a computer habit...I WOULD UNPLUG THE DAMN THING. What is more important to you? Your relationship with a woman willing to love you forever, have your kids, and let you spoon her at 4am with bad breathe? or CAG? Not a choice for anyone with half a brain and social skillz.
You either love her and are willing to make the sacrifice of computing or you look for someone else. Sure you could find another geek who sits 2 feet away from a monitor all day but really people..we could all use LESS time at CAG and more time with the loved ones.
Also please note: CAG1000 is from Jersey...which explains much about his odd opinions.[/quote]
You, sir, are correct in every way.
And Kmart jewelry? Shit, I don't believe in jewelry, but I would leave you just for that. If this was a 2 year relationship, I think you could stand to stop buying games for a couple of months and get a halfway decent ring.
[quote name='brushwood']Who wants to bet cag1000 is a 15 year old virgin?[/quote]
I love that my opinions and advice for him to get an education, a nice car to boost his confidence, his own apartment(since they were gonna move in together), a tan, and to work out so the girls will chase him and not him being bitched around and played with, meets with opposition here.
only on the internet....
only in a gaming thread...
lol funny
I love that my opinions and advice for him to get an education, a nice car to boost his confidence, his own apartment(since they were gonna move in together), a tan, and to work out so the girls will chase him and not him being bitched around and played with, meets with opposition here.
only on the internet....
only in a gaming thread...
lol funny
JSweeney
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[quote name='cag1000'][quote name='brushwood']Who wants to bet cag1000 is a 15 year old virgin?[/quote]
I love that my opinions and advice for him to get an education, a nice car to boost his confidence, his own apartment(since they were gonna move in together), a tan, and to work out so the girls will chase him and not him being bitched around and played with, meets with opposition here.
only on the internet....
only in a gaming thread...
lol funny[/quote]
Just move on.
I mean really, why should anyone have any faith in your view of complex concepts when for a great deal of this thread you couldn't master the simple concepts of punctuation and capitalization?
I love that my opinions and advice for him to get an education, a nice car to boost his confidence, his own apartment(since they were gonna move in together), a tan, and to work out so the girls will chase him and not him being bitched around and played with, meets with opposition here.
only on the internet....
only in a gaming thread...
lol funny[/quote]
Just move on.
I mean really, why should anyone have any faith in your view of complex concepts when for a great deal of this thread you couldn't master the simple concepts of punctuation and capitalization?
[quote name='ChrisXE']Thanks for all the oppions, MOST of them are meaningful and helpful. She said I have to prove my love for her BY not using my car to go to her house today. By using a bike no not a mountain bike with gears but my BMX bike. That dont sound all that bad except she leaves a city away (21 miles) and 21 miles back, so 42 miles to prove it. This is total bullshyt, Im inm pretty good shape so that aint the problem. Im use to running 3 1/2 miles each week about 3 times(cross country). I dont know is it worth it[/quote]
How old are you???
If this bike thing is true, you should quit this relationship . . . very lame.
How old are you???
If this bike thing is true, you should quit this relationship . . . very lame.
darkmere
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relationships are about balance, compromise, and happiness...for both people...watch some kevin smith movies and realize this...clerks, mallrats, and chasing amy are full of good advice...and put down the games and pay some attention to your fiancee a few times a week or someone else will...believe me
[quote name='ChrisXE']Thanks for all the oppions, MOST of them are meaningful and helpful. She said I have to prove my love for her BY not using my car to go to her house today. By using a bike no not a mountain bike with gears but my BMX bike. That dont sound all that bad except she leaves a city away (21 miles) and 21 miles back, so 42 miles to prove it. This is total bullshyt, Im inm pretty good shape so that aint the problem. Im use to running 3 1/2 miles each week about 3 times(cross country). I dont know is it worth it[/quote]
Okay, now that's just weird. It sounds like there are other underlying issues here and video games were just an easy scapegoat. Whether these issues are a serious case of 'cold feet' or something more, I would suggest you cut your losses and get out now. Judging by some of the posts you will be better breaking it off now than if you have to get a expensive drawn-out divorce.
I've been married for a couple years now (two years next week), and I'm by no means an expert, but if there's one thing I've learned about relationships is that it's all about communication and compromise. Making you travel over 40 miles using an inconvenient method of transportation is just nutty. This proves nothing, except that she's being immature and irrational about the whole ordeal. Go to her house, drive there in your car, and try to communicate. If she won't talk to you, and can't look past that you drove instead of peddled your little heart out than you're better off without her.
Okay, now that's just weird. It sounds like there are other underlying issues here and video games were just an easy scapegoat. Whether these issues are a serious case of 'cold feet' or something more, I would suggest you cut your losses and get out now. Judging by some of the posts you will be better breaking it off now than if you have to get a expensive drawn-out divorce.
I've been married for a couple years now (two years next week), and I'm by no means an expert, but if there's one thing I've learned about relationships is that it's all about communication and compromise. Making you travel over 40 miles using an inconvenient method of transportation is just nutty. This proves nothing, except that she's being immature and irrational about the whole ordeal. Go to her house, drive there in your car, and try to communicate. If she won't talk to you, and can't look past that you drove instead of peddled your little heart out than you're better off without her.
janglypangly
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I think you need a cheapassho so you can think things over and see if shes right for you.
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I can kind of sympathize with you. I've been with my girl for over a year and we can't wait to get married. She knows I play videogames, the stack of Xbox and NES games in the apartment tells that. The most we've played together was goldeneye and Mario Kart with her bro and sis, whenever we're together I focus all my attention on her. I kind of wonder what will happen when we're livin together and married. She doesn't really have any big hobbies like videogames are for me, although she does watch tv a lot more than I do. I know it'll work out, I have a feeling I won't be as into games when the time comes that her and I are on our own together..
Just sit down and be honest with her about everything, its the best way to go, even if it means losing her, at least you were both honest about everything.
Just sit down and be honest with her about everything, its the best way to go, even if it means losing her, at least you were both honest about everything.
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When Rick told me he was having trouble with his wife, I had to laugh. Not because of what he said, but because of a joke I thought of. I told him the joke, but he didn't laugh very much. Some friend he is.
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[quote name='ChrisXE']she said its a way to SHOW i want this relationship to work[/quote]
Dude, you do that and you'll be her bitch for the rest of your relationship. She'll know all she has to do is threaten to leave you and you'll do whatever she wants.
She doesn't sound like a very mature girl by that weird request. Plus, she sounds like she needs attention ALL the time which could mean she had problems with her father while growing up.
If that's the case, you'd have to work with her a lot, especially if you two ever end up getting married. If she's clingy now, just imagine when you want to go out with the guys and she starts to get insecure because she thinks you might meet another woman.
Unless you truely love her and know she's the one for you, I'd tell her that you think it's the right thing to do for the two of you splitting up. Hell, she may just be using scare tactics to get you to spend even more time with her.
By telling her that you think you should be separated too, will let her know that you're not going to put up with her shit anymore. I'm sure there's some things she's done or does that's probably not right. I'd issue a few of my own ultimatums!
Think of this like a tug of war match. She's trying to see how far she can get you to go. You need to pull back hard and let her know you're not going to put up with her shit. And if she loves you, she'll accept your hobby as long as it's done in moderation. If not, then at least you can sleep easy knowing that you just rid yourself of tons of problems in your marriage if you did marry her and you can game all you want.
Dude, you do that and you'll be her bitch for the rest of your relationship. She'll know all she has to do is threaten to leave you and you'll do whatever she wants.
She doesn't sound like a very mature girl by that weird request. Plus, she sounds like she needs attention ALL the time which could mean she had problems with her father while growing up.
If that's the case, you'd have to work with her a lot, especially if you two ever end up getting married. If she's clingy now, just imagine when you want to go out with the guys and she starts to get insecure because she thinks you might meet another woman.
Unless you truely love her and know she's the one for you, I'd tell her that you think it's the right thing to do for the two of you splitting up. Hell, she may just be using scare tactics to get you to spend even more time with her.
By telling her that you think you should be separated too, will let her know that you're not going to put up with her shit anymore. I'm sure there's some things she's done or does that's probably not right. I'd issue a few of my own ultimatums!
Think of this like a tug of war match. She's trying to see how far she can get you to go. You need to pull back hard and let her know you're not going to put up with her shit. And if she loves you, she'll accept your hobby as long as it's done in moderation. If not, then at least you can sleep easy knowing that you just rid yourself of tons of problems in your marriage if you did marry her and you can game all you want.
[quote name='scsg75']here's what you do, put your bike in the trunk of your car, drive to the town, stop a few blocks away, park in a shopping cenbter or something, take bike out of trunk, peddle the few blocks to her house and say what now bitch?[/quote]
LMAO. Brilliant!
LMAO. Brilliant!
crazytalkx
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[quote name='scsg75']here's what you do, put your bike in the trunk of your car, drive to the town, stop a few blocks away, park in a shopping cenbter or something, take bike out of trunk, peddle the few blocks to her house and say what now bitch?[/quote]
NICE!!!!!!!!! But make sure to get yourself sweaty before you go in the bike. Then BACKHAND THAT #$%$%!!!!!!!!!!! Oh and take the engagement ring.
NICE!!!!!!!!! But make sure to get yourself sweaty before you go in the bike. Then BACKHAND THAT #$%$%!!!!!!!!!!! Oh and take the engagement ring.
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